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Regarding rude people on here. Do you usually give it back or just block without responding?
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Just asking as I took a little break from here, and some woman in my messages said I'm a timewaster and gave all sorts of abuse because I didn't reply. Even though I stated on profile I will be away for a bit.
Ages ago I would have responded back in kind, but I just blocked back. Not worth it. |
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"Just asking as I took a little break from here, and some woman in my messages said I'm a timewaster and gave all sorts of abuse because I didn't reply. Even though I stated on profile I will be away for a bit.
Ages ago I would have responded back in kind, but I just blocked back. Not worth it. "
It depends. We got a random message from a man one day clearly trying to get off on trolling people, it just said "There's such a thing as Weight watchers you know, fat *@#!"
He got a reply along the lines of "Oh bless, if you're gonna troll as least TRY and be original. Anyway, enjoy loving in your parents' spare room whilst crying as you're wanking in to a sock cos your god awful personality can't get you laid"
Think it struck a nerve, he went UNLOS 2 mins after reading that reply 🤣🤣 |
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I never block the women who are rude to me. They are the ones I wish to keep the closest, for they are the ones who will periodically ogle at my profile and then one day come across a verification from another woman that they are friendly with and exclaim "Good heavens! How comes she was able to get on with him and I wasn't??!!".
It gives them a complex and an element of self doubt that they missed out.
The level of skulduggery on this site knows no bounds.
Thankfully, very few women are rude to me. The ladies less so. 😉❣️ |
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"It’s hard not to respond sometimes, but it really is our choice how bothered we allow ourselves to be, if someone is being rude, are they really worth a single second of your time?"
Agree so much with this. |
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"It’s hard not to respond sometimes, but it really is our choice how bothered we allow ourselves to be, if someone is being rude, are they really worth a single second of your time?"
I agree with this |
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Depends. If it’s someone I’d met or been chatting to for ages I probably wouldn’t leave it, but I’d have them on WhatsApp if that was the case. Someone I’d shared a few messages with I wouldn’t be arsed. Just ignore |
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I've had introductory messages from women and couples that just contain instructions who then get annoyed and rude when I say no so it's straight to the block button.
Lose the beard or you have no chance of fucking the missus.
Stop pretending to be straight and agree to play bi and we will add to to our to-do list for future events.
Book an hotel room for a night and then leave after the wife gives you a BJ.
Drive 5 hours each way on a Sunday night and help us get into a club event night. This one was particularly funny as clubs over here are by invitation only and I've never been invited to one.
Each of these called me a timewaster even though they had contacted me and not the other way around and they all used their many verifications as a way of telling me it was my loss and they would make sure my name was mud in their social circles. |
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"Just asking as I took a little break from here, and some woman in my messages said I'm a timewaster and gave all sorts of abuse because I didn't reply. Even though I stated on profile I will be away for a bit.
Ages ago I would have responded back in kind, but I just blocked back. Not worth it. "
after reading many posts lately on how most (99% of males) don't get replies I think your doing exceptionally well to get a lady to even initiate a conversation. |
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"Just asking as I took a little break from here, and some woman in my messages said I'm a timewaster and gave all sorts of abuse because I didn't reply. Even though I stated on profile I will be away for a bit.
Ages ago I would have responded back in kind, but I just blocked back. Not worth it.
It depends. We got a random message from a man one day clearly trying to get off on trolling people, it just said "There's such a thing as Weight watchers you know, fat *@#!"
He got a reply along the lines of "Oh bless, if you're gonna troll as least TRY and be original. Anyway, enjoy loving in your parents' spare room whilst crying as you're wanking in to a sock cos your god awful personality can't get you laid"
Think it struck a nerve, he went UNLOS 2 mins after reading that reply 🤣🤣"
With that hair, & those curves, you are STUNNING! |
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"Just asking as I took a little break from here, and some woman in my messages said I'm a timewaster and gave all sorts of abuse because I didn't reply. Even though I stated on profile I will be away for a bit.
Ages ago I would have responded back in kind, but I just blocked back. Not worth it. after reading many posts lately on how most (99% of males) don't get replies I think your doing exceptionally well to get a lady to even initiate a conversation."
it is bloody tough on here |
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"I must be doing something right/wrong.
Never had a rude message. Had a weirdo, but no one rude."
Me neither. Not from anyone I’ve been conversing with previously. Plenty of unsolicited vile/rude ones but that’s standard here and they don’t bother me, I just delete and block those. |
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"Just asking as I took a little break from here, and some woman in my messages said I'm a timewaster and gave all sorts of abuse because I didn't reply. Even though I stated on profile I will be away for a bit.
Ages ago I would have responded back in kind, but I just blocked back. Not worth it. after reading many posts lately on how most (99% of males) don't get replies I think your doing exceptionally well to get a lady to even initiate a conversation."
I have done pretty well for a single guy, I will admit. To be honest most times I always initiate the convo. And it can be tough most times. Key tip I would always give, don't take the site too seriously and you'll do fine. |
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Putting aside my jocular post from earlier, seriously though, in all my years here I have only experienced a handful of rude women. It's an extremely rare occurrence, thankfully.
I don't think I've ever been called a timewaster or even come across one. The term is open to interpretation. For instance some conversations ebb and flow and perhaps even fizzle out, but I would never interpret that as time-wasting. |
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You're all so polite. I had a message from a man today, based on his profile picture, where he was located and the first line of his message that I could see I made a decision that he wasn't for me so I deleted it.
He wrote back instantly to say 'Oh right another rude, entitled woman, I hope you (then described what he hoped would happen to me)'
So I wrote back 'you're everything that's wrong with this site' before I blocked him. I probably shouldn't have engaged but eh. Nobody's perfect. |
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By *oobaaMan 2 weeks ago
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I had a guy message ME looking to meet...I wasnt free at that time and he replied with some pretty bad stuff about my age and shape.
The more I laughed at him the worse the abuse got, until I told him in one of his pics you could see his works ID...he blocked me |
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"I had a guy message ME looking to meet...I wasnt free at that time and he replied with some pretty bad stuff about my age and shape.
The more I laughed at him the worse the abuse got, until I told him in one of his pics you could see his works ID...he blocked me"
Oh dearrrrr |
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As hard as it might be to believe, no ones ever been rude to me , not to my face anyway 
Had 2 heated exchanges with people I know, in 8 years.
If it happened in a message from a stranger I’d just hit delete and forget it. |
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