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Thinking of giving wife a bf
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By *a LunaWoman 2 weeks ago
South Wales |
Why?
And how would you feel if she dumped you and ran off with said boyfriend?
I mean, you got to think of the worst that can happen as well as all the things that make your dick tingle in joy! |
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That's a question that only you and your wife can answer really. Only you know if it's what you both want, or if your relationship is strong and stable enough to sustain it.
You need to have a proper conversation with your wife |
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100% wrong idea. Trust me. If you are feeling like it would make your love life more interesting and exciting it won't. If you are thinking about suggesting it then why don't you play the boyfriend cheating girlfriend role play. Me and my wife have met lots of guys and couples and when we were going through a difficult time in our relationship I thought about what you are saying and I couldn't see how it would benefit either of us. If she enjoyed it and liked him then she could leave me and if she didn't like it she could blame me for suggesting it. What we did was I would meet with my wife in a pub and we would role play that we didn't know each other and we would go along with it. I can promise you that she fucking loves it and she has admitted that she would rather do this than have a free pass |
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Opening your marriage sexually is one thing, inviting full relationships is another. Are you both poly?
Please remember that whoever she chooses is a person too. With their own feelings, needs, and desires. They’re not a performing monkey devoid of emotions to be used just to fulfill a fantasy. What your describing isn’t a one off swing meet, so you need to be extra mindful about what you’re embarking on |
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"Agreed thank you for this advice I’m starting to no longer want this idea lol "
I’m not saying it can’t work, god it’s wonderful when it does… but I think you both need to be in a frame of mind that this is a huge step |
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Good luck OP