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I wouldn't use this site thinking you'll meet anybody mate. It's just a laugh, if you do meet somebody great but don't presume you will.
Like you say, most of the time people don't wanna talk. But tbh, it is a sex site.
If somebody doesn't wanna fuck you, they won't talk to you. So if people don't reply, it because you don't tick the box.
Don't take it too badly, nobody talks to me either 
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By *dgy77 OP Man 3 weeks ago
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"I wouldn't use this site thinking you'll meet anybody mate. It's just a laugh, if you do meet somebody great but don't presume you will.
Like you say, most of the time people don't wanna talk. But tbh, it is a sex site.
If somebody doesn't wanna fuck you, they won't talk to you. So if people don't reply, it because you don't tick the box.
Don't take it too badly, nobody talks to me either
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Yeah mate 💯 just annoys me when you read a profile etc |
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"I wouldn't use this site thinking you'll meet anybody mate. It's just a laugh, if you do meet somebody great but don't presume you will.
Like you say, most of the time people don't wanna talk. But tbh, it is a sex site.
If somebody doesn't wanna fuck you, they won't talk to you. So if people don't reply, it because you don't tick the box.
Don't take it too badly, nobody talks to me either
Yeah mate 💯 just annoys me when you read a profile etc "
You think people should meet or talk to you just because you've read their profile?? No one owes you anything on fab. |
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"I wouldn't use this site thinking you'll meet anybody mate. It's just a laugh, if you do meet somebody great but don't presume you will.
Like you say, most of the time people don't wanna talk. But tbh, it is a sex site.
If somebody doesn't wanna fuck you, they won't talk to you. So if people don't reply, it because you don't tick the box.
Don't take it too badly, nobody talks to me either
Yeah mate 💯 just annoys me when you read a profile etc
You think people should meet or talk to you just because you've read their profile?? No one owes you anything on fab."
Relax, I don't think that's what he's saying at all. |
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OP, dear chap, 'giving you the benefit of the doubt there's probably very little that you're doing wrong.
The men far outnumber the women on here and, inherently, it's a numbers game with women trying to manage the deluge in their inboxes.
I can offer you no advice other than patience and perseverance, and all the luck and best wishes. 🌿 |
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"OP, dear chap, 'giving you the benefit of the doubt there's probably very little that you're doing wrong.
The men far outnumber the women on here and, inherently, it's a numbers game with women trying to manage the deluge in their inboxes.
I can offer you no advice other than patience and perseverance, and all the luck and best wishes. 🌿"
Yeah, also, can you blame women for ignoring all the horny guys.
Anybody remember human traffick? Reminds me of the spermy guy in that |
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By *bi HaiveMan 3 weeks ago
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"I wouldn't use this site thinking you'll meet anybody mate. It's just a laugh, if you do meet somebody great but don't presume you will.
Like you say, most of the time people don't wanna talk. But tbh, it is a sex site.
If somebody doesn't wanna fuck you, they won't talk to you. So if people don't reply, it because you don't tick the box.
Don't take it too badly, nobody talks to me either
Yeah mate 💯 just annoys me when you read a profile etc "
OK. On the subject of profiles.
You read them which is great. But what about them reading/looking at yours? Do you think you stand out amongst other men on site and in your area or do you think there are more informative and visually appealing ones out there?
So many people put time, effort and attention into trying to create a good opening message, yet forget that the most important thing is how their own profile comes across to others.
The best message in the world will go unread if someone looks at a profile before opening it and decides that there's nothing of interest there. 🤷♂️ |
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"I wouldn't use this site thinking you'll meet anybody mate. It's just a laugh, if you do meet somebody great but don't presume you will.
Like you say, most of the time people don't wanna talk. But tbh, it is a sex site.
If somebody doesn't wanna fuck you, they won't talk to you. So if people don't reply, it because you don't tick the box.
Don't take it too badly, nobody talks to me either
Yeah mate 💯 just annoys me when you read a profile etc
OK. On the subject of profiles.
You read them which is great. But what about them reading/looking at yours? Do you think you stand out amongst other men on site and in your area or do you think there are more informative and visually appealing ones out there?
So many people put time, effort and attention into trying to create a good opening message, yet forget that the most important thing is how their own profile comes across to others.
The best message in the world will go unread if someone looks at a profile before opening it and decides that there's nothing of interest there. 🤷♂️"
It's not even the profile mate.
It's the picture.
If for whatever reason, the person doesn't like your picture, your profile doesn't matter, the message doesn't matter.
How many annoying women have you put up with because they're fit?
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By *dgy77 OP Man 3 weeks ago
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"OP, dear chap, 'giving you the benefit of the doubt there's probably very little that you're doing wrong.
The men far outnumber the women on here and, inherently, it's a numbers game with women trying to manage the deluge in their inboxes.
I can offer you no advice other than patience and perseverance, and all the luck and best wishes. 🌿"
Yeah 💯 mate |
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By *dgy77 OP Man 3 weeks ago
manchester |
"I wouldn't use this site thinking you'll meet anybody mate. It's just a laugh, if you do meet somebody great but don't presume you will.
Like you say, most of the time people don't wanna talk. But tbh, it is a sex site.
If somebody doesn't wanna fuck you, they won't talk to you. So if people don't reply, it because you don't tick the box.
Don't take it too badly, nobody talks to me either
Yeah mate 💯 just annoys me when you read a profile etc
You think people should meet or talk to you just because you've read their profile?? No one owes you anything on fab."
Didn’t meant it like that but sometimes they say read my profile which I do and still get ignored I don’t mean like everyone should message me but just saying that’s all |
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By *dgy77 OP Man 3 weeks ago
manchester |
"I wouldn't use this site thinking you'll meet anybody mate. It's just a laugh, if you do meet somebody great but don't presume you will.
Like you say, most of the time people don't wanna talk. But tbh, it is a sex site.
If somebody doesn't wanna fuck you, they won't talk to you. So if people don't reply, it because you don't tick the box.
Don't take it too badly, nobody talks to me either
Yeah mate 💯 just annoys me when you read a profile etc
OK. On the subject of profiles.
You read them which is great. But what about them reading/looking at yours? Do you think you stand out amongst other men on site and in your area or do you think there are more informative and visually appealing ones out there?
So many people put time, effort and attention into trying to create a good opening message, yet forget that the most important thing is how their own profile comes across to others.
The best message in the world will go unread if someone looks at a profile before opening it and decides that there's nothing of interest there. 🤷♂️"
Ngl I don’t know what to put in my profile 😂 |
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By *dgy77 OP Man 3 weeks ago
manchester |
"I wouldn't use this site thinking you'll meet anybody mate. It's just a laugh, if you do meet somebody great but don't presume you will.
Like you say, most of the time people don't wanna talk. But tbh, it is a sex site.
If somebody doesn't wanna fuck you, they won't talk to you. So if people don't reply, it because you don't tick the box.
Don't take it too badly, nobody talks to me either
Yeah mate 💯 just annoys me when you read a profile etc
OK. On the subject of profiles.
You read them which is great. But what about them reading/looking at yours? Do you think you stand out amongst other men on site and in your area or do you think there are more informative and visually appealing ones out there?
So many people put time, effort and attention into trying to create a good opening message, yet forget that the most important thing is how their own profile comes across to others.
The best message in the world will go unread if someone looks at a profile before opening it and decides that there's nothing of interest there. 🤷♂️
It's not even the profile mate.
It's the picture.
If for whatever reason, the person doesn't like your picture, your profile doesn't matter, the message doesn't matter.
How many annoying women have you put up with because they're fit?
Exactly "
🤣 💯 yeah fair enough |
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By *bi HaiveMan 3 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"I wouldn't use this site thinking you'll meet anybody mate. It's just a laugh, if you do meet somebody great but don't presume you will.
Like you say, most of the time people don't wanna talk. But tbh, it is a sex site.
If somebody doesn't wanna fuck you, they won't talk to you. So if people don't reply, it because you don't tick the box.
Don't take it too badly, nobody talks to me either
Yeah mate 💯 just annoys me when you read a profile etc
OK. On the subject of profiles.
You read them which is great. But what about them reading/looking at yours? Do you think you stand out amongst other men on site and in your area or do you think there are more informative and visually appealing ones out there?
So many people put time, effort and attention into trying to create a good opening message, yet forget that the most important thing is how their own profile comes across to others.
The best message in the world will go unread if someone looks at a profile before opening it and decides that there's nothing of interest there. 🤷♂️
It's not even the profile mate.
It's the picture.
If for whatever reason, the person doesn't like your picture, your profile doesn't matter, the message doesn't matter.
How many annoying women have you put up with because they're fit?
Exactly "
OK. I tend to disagree, but that's me, not you.
If all you have is one or two vague, uninspiring photos and the next guy has a variety of creative images, who do you think will appeal to others more?
Likewise with profile text. I've seen thousands of profiles over the last 17 years. Many are just carbon copies using the same few lines with little personality.
As for your last question? None. No matter how 'fit'they are. |
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"It’s so hard to talk to people on here or try to meet anyone not sure if I’m doing something wrong or not 🤨 "
I meet people so if I can you can ,so you've got 2 veris from a while back one nice pic so we can only guess it's down to how you message, remember they are mostly strangers so look at profile read it then message using that information, not sexual and no sexy pics try and put some humour into it .
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"I wouldn't use this site thinking you'll meet anybody mate. It's just a laugh, if you do meet somebody great but don't presume you will.
Like you say, most of the time people don't wanna talk. But tbh, it is a sex site.
If somebody doesn't wanna fuck you, they won't talk to you. So if people don't reply, it because you don't tick the box.
Don't take it too badly, nobody talks to me either
Yeah mate 💯 just annoys me when you read a profile etc
OK. On the subject of profiles.
You read them which is great. But what about them reading/looking at yours? Do you think you stand out amongst other men on site and in your area or do you think there are more informative and visually appealing ones out there?
So many people put time, effort and attention into trying to create a good opening message, yet forget that the most important thing is how their own profile comes across to others.
The best message in the world will go unread if someone looks at a profile before opening it and decides that there's nothing of interest there. 🤷♂️
It's not even the profile mate.
It's the picture.
If for whatever reason, the person doesn't like your picture, your profile doesn't matter, the message doesn't matter.
How many annoying women have you put up with because they're fit?
Exactly
OK. I tend to disagree, but that's me, not you.
If all you have is one or two vague, uninspiring photos and the next guy has a variety of creative images, who do you think will appeal to others more?
Likewise with profile text. I've seen thousands of profiles over the last 17 years. Many are just carbon copies using the same few lines with little personality.
As for your last question? None. No matter how 'fit'they are. "
So you have never in your entire life put up with somebody whose personality isn't aligned with your own, because you were physically attracted to them?
Christ, you're better than me mate  |
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"Either they will like your profile or the won't. Simple really, don't let it eat you."
This, I had a woman talk to me for a few days, then she lost interest because I had socks on in a photo I sent 
I shit you not.
Which confirmed for me, on this site, much of you are is in the head of the viewer, their own predefined shit. Best not taking this madness seriously.
Or it'll be to your own detriment. |
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The men here outnumber the women and couples.
and some of those women and couples are really just men pretending anyway (theyre not even doing it well most of the time).
Also depends where you are, if you're in or near a big city you will have better luck at finding like minded folk. Elsewhere (North Walesfor example!), not so much.
Don't take the site seriously or expect any meaningful interactions and you wont be dissapointed. And when you do meet someone it'll be all the better for it.
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"I wouldn't use this site thinking you'll meet anybody mate. It's just a laugh, if you do meet somebody great but don't presume you will.
Like you say, most of the time people don't wanna talk. But tbh, it is a sex site.
If somebody doesn't wanna fuck you, they won't talk to you. So if people don't reply, it because you don't tick the box.
Don't take it too badly, nobody talks to me either
Yeah mate 💯 just annoys me when you read a profile etc
OK. On the subject of profiles.
You read them which is great. But what about them reading/looking at yours? Do you think you stand out amongst other men on site and in your area or do you think there are more informative and visually appealing ones out there?
So many people put time, effort and attention into trying to create a good opening message, yet forget that the most important thing is how their own profile comes across to others.
The best message in the world will go unread if someone looks at a profile before opening it and decides that there's nothing of interest there. 🤷♂️"
Pretty much this
OP I delete the minute I read a profile says “just ask”. Why do I need to go through all that effort of message ping pong to just to find out the basics. Especially as 99 times out of 100 you’ll be completely incompatible and it’s been a waste of time for us both.
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"It’s so hard to talk to people on here or try to meet anyone not sure if I’m doing something wrong or not 🤨 "
Go to an organised social, chat to everyone and you will gain several verifications and make some friends. Sitting behind a keyboard will get you nowhere fast on fab. |
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"It’s so hard to talk to people on here or try to meet anyone not sure if I’m doing something wrong or not 🤨
Go to an organised social, chat to everyone and you will gain several verifications and make some friends. Sitting behind a keyboard will get you nowhere fast on fab."
I want to go to the one you go to |
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