It really depends on your approach, the maturity of the conversation and what you're actually saying.
I'm a slow burn — weeks and months before I even meet someone.
With that said, I've never personally encountered any "Timewasters & Wannabes", OP. 🌿 |
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"Had 6 no shows i think it is
Oh, that's shit. Sorry to hear it.
Had one just they say let's meet i say ok bang they go "
We do need to apply due diligence. I don't rush anything and expect most of my chats to come to nothing |
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"It really depends on your approach, the maturity of the conversation and what you're actually saying.
I'm a slow burn — weeks and months before I even meet someone.
With that said, I've never personally encountered any "Timewasters & Wannabes", OP. 🌿"
The reply above pretty much nails it!
99% of those that contact us, say "Want to meet?" or "I am on Cam".
They pay no regard to what it is that we are looking for and neither do they read our profile.
Most are driven by their cock, they want a Shag and they want it right now before their Wife or Partner finds out.
They do not want to make any effort, they do not have any standards and worse still, they do not expect us to have any standards either.
The site is absolutely full of Married/Attached men who are attempting to cheat on their wives without being found out and by making the minimum of effort. |
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"It really depends on your approach, the maturity of the conversation and what you're actually saying.
I'm a slow burn — weeks and months before I even meet someone.
With that said, I've never personally encountered any "Timewasters & Wannabes", OP. 🌿
The reply above pretty much nails it!
99% of those that contact us, say "Want to meet?" or "I am on Cam".
They pay no regard to what it is that we are looking for and neither do they read our profile.
Most are driven by their cock, they want a Shag and they want it right now before their Wife or Partner finds out.
They do not want to make any effort, they do not have any standards and worse still, they do not expect us to have any standards either.
The site is absolutely full of Married/Attached men who are attempting to cheat on their wives without being found out and by making the minimum of effort. "
and the sad single men hiding behind couples and single lady profiles.. |
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"It really depends on your approach, the maturity of the conversation and what you're actually saying.
I'm a slow burn — weeks and months before I even meet someone.
With that said, I've never personally encountered any "Timewasters & Wannabes", OP. 🌿
The reply above pretty much nails it!
99% of those that contact us, say "Want to meet?" or "I am on Cam".
They pay no regard to what it is that we are looking for and neither do they read our profile.
Most are driven by their cock, they want a Shag and they want it right now before their Wife or Partner finds out.
They do not want to make any effort, they do not have any standards and worse still, they do not expect us to have any standards either.
The site is absolutely full of Married/Attached men who are attempting to cheat on their wives without being found out and by making the minimum of effort. and the sad single men hiding behind couples and single lady profiles.. "
Ive seen a few of these |
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As others have said I've never experienced any of this. I've been here almost 9 years and never had a no show.
Lots of chats fizzle out but none of them have ever wasted my time.
I only meet when it suits me and I might chat for weeks or months before meeting for a coffee and it will never be more than that on the first meet.
I haven't met anyone new since 2020 so some might accuse me of being a time waster but it's difficult to see how. |
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By *HUSH-Man 3 weeks ago
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"It really depends on your approach, the maturity of the conversation and what you're actually saying.
I'm a slow burn — weeks and months before I even meet someone.
With that said, I've never personally encountered any "Timewasters & Wannabes", OP. 🌿"
I’m the same. I’ve been sacked off by a few people for mentioning that it’ll take a while before I meet in person. |
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"The biggest thing I've found with this site is the timewasters and wannabes. Start all chatty but the minute you ask to meet they up and ghost you. Isn't the site about meeting. "
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No, the site is not (just) about meetings for sex. It's a social site for swingers, where people can establish contact, chat, use webcams, read about club reviews, share pictures and videos, ask for advice, post stories in forums... And of course arrange meetings for sex.
Having said that, many people lie and say they want to meet but they won't. In that case, those are TWs and WBs. But not everyone here us here to meet people for sex. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS 3 weeks ago
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I think in most cases, 'time wasters' are people who are trying to let you down gently.
They no longer wish to meet you based upon either something that has been said, another look at pics, or a reconsideration of the logistics.  |
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