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By *J75 OP Man 3 weeks ago
Stoke on Trent |
Was out at a birthday party last night, the first time me and the ex have been out since we told everyone we were splitting up. She was chatting to a guy all night who wants to take her out (I'm cool with it) and friends were asking me what I was doing, so I told them I had joined fab  . After initially shocked and laughing once I explained I don't want to get into anything serious after 30+ yr relationship that this place seemed to be perfect for what I need. To be fair they were really supportive  |
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I had a few drinks with my friend and I told her I was on here, we ended up tipsy, and scrolling through all the profiles having a laugh and occasionally going oh we went to school with him, lol she was fine about it, opened her eyes a bit though  |
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It's good that you're able to share this with your friends.
We have a small immediate friendship group of 3 couples, that now know we are swingers. We don't share any details with them, they do tease us but not to the point where it gets annoying. I actually thinks they are intrigued to understand it but may not actually feel like they could or should ask questions.
Enjoy your Fab experience OP
Mrs |
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By *J75 OP Man 3 weeks ago
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"It's good that you're able to share this with your friends.
We have a small immediate friendship group of 3 couples, that now know we are swingers. We don't share any details with them, they do tease us but not to the point where it gets annoying. I actually thinks they are intrigued to understand it but may not actually feel like they could or should ask questions.
Enjoy your Fab experience OP
Mrs"
I am completely open about it, not quite shouting from the rooftops, but I don't have anything to hide, and find it quite cathartic 
Cheers Mrs  |
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I don't hide that I swing, in fact even my family know. A few years ago on here something happened which made me have to tell them. They were of course a little worried about me but I'm glad I told them, now I have nothing to worry about and they support me fully. |
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By *J75 OP Man 3 weeks ago
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"I've found people to be far more curious than they are judgey "
Likewise, although a friend at work can't get his head round it  I'm like it gives me a chance to try things I've never done before, and it's not affecting anyone so what's the problem? |
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I've told 3 friends...
One that I know has similar views on sex to me. She wasn't surprised and knows more about ENM than I do 🤣
The other 2 are my oldest school friends. And they were surprised but not as surprised as I thought they'd be 🤣 |
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I've told a few of my work friends and colleagues.
Most Mondays they ask me how my weekend was and if I got upto anything spicy.
The answer is usually no and they laugh. They say I should ask for my money back as the site is not fit for purpose 😂😂 |
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I've an old friend who is on here, he told me he'd seen my profile & recognised my front room.
I've no problem with it, he knew I dressed & had sex with men anyway.
Told another friend (female) about our swinging life last year, she's fine.
Took her to a club over Xmas just so she could see how I was dressed.
All she's said is "do you play safe?" |
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By *J75 OP Man 3 weeks ago
Stoke on Trent |
"I've an old friend who is on here, he told me he'd seen my profile & recognised my front room.
I've no problem with it, he knew I dressed & had sex with men anyway.
Told another friend (female) about our swinging life last year, she's fine.
Took her to a club over Xmas just so she could see how I was dressed.
All she's said is "do you play safe?""
I'd said I'd give a club a try sometime soon, to which it caused a few raised eyebrows  but can't wait to give one or two clubs a try |
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"I've an old friend who is on here, he told me he'd seen my profile & recognised my front room.
I've no problem with it, he knew I dressed & had sex with men anyway.
Told another friend (female) about our swinging life last year, she's fine.
Took her to a club over Xmas just so she could see how I was dressed.
All she's said is "do you play safe?"
I'd said I'd give a club a try sometime soon, to which it caused a few raised eyebrows but can't wait to give one or two clubs a try "
You should, if only for the social aspect. I find it very liberating, most people in clubs aren't sexually interested in me but I have a lot of inquiring conversations with ladies who are curious about my lifestyle - it's nice to be able to chat freely about it |
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By *J75 OP Man 3 weeks ago
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"I've an old friend who is on here, he told me he'd seen my profile & recognised my front room.
I've no problem with it, he knew I dressed & had sex with men anyway.
Told another friend (female) about our swinging life last year, she's fine.
Took her to a club over Xmas just so she could see how I was dressed.
All she's said is "do you play safe?"
I'd said I'd give a club a try sometime soon, to which it caused a few raised eyebrows but can't wait to give one or two clubs a try
You should, if only for the social aspect. I find it very liberating, most people in clubs aren't sexually interested in me but I have a lot of inquiring conversations with ladies who are curious about my lifestyle - it's nice to be able to chat freely about it "
I definitely will, ans I won't be going with any great expectations other than meeting some nice people  |
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