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Breaks your heart, doesn't it?
Probably a large degree of self-infliction.
A bit too much emotional and introspective laziness when harsh reality gave them crisis opportunities to engage and learn a bit more.
But it still breaks your heart 💔.
Women too.
And everyone else like this.
It all breaks your heart 😟🫤😓.
Hey! Maybe I'm on of them but can't see it 😵💫😳😱. |
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"Breaks your heart, doesn't it?
Nope - I don’t care about them !
That little girl in a pile of rubble in Gaza with the lollipop, she breaks my heart. How do I adopt one ?"
She's already murdered.
Via genocide.
Which we're lazy and deceitful in dealing with.
You and I should hook up on Facebook one day ✅️. |
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"Sometimes. Mainly it frustrates me. "
Don't get me wrong Julie.
I'd assassinate all of them, any gender, if it came to it.
Maybe myself if I'm one of them.
But it still saddens me....so much bloody possibility wrapped up in this thing called a human, and wasted.
Even those who think we've got a better handle on it all - we're still fuckwits. |
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What a happy Saturday thread 😬😂.
For the record, I'd rather not assassinate anyone, and there's a long way to go before getting to that place with our species.
But that's "rather", not an absolute exclusion.
Anyway - show us yer tits everyone 💋🫦👄. |
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"What a happy Saturday thread 😬😂.
For the record, I'd rather not assassinate anyone, and there's a long way to go before getting to that place with our species.
But that's "rather", not an absolute exclusion.
Anyway - show us yer tits everyone 💋e!."
( @ }{ @ ) Not again ! Here , from one fuckwit to another fuckwit
Here's a tit or two |
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It might seem callous but really not.
If people are too ignorant, entitled or stupid to actually try to understand or educate themselves as to how people are or how to meet people, then I’m not going to expend emotional energy on them.
There are far worse things in this world that deserve sympathy than people who can’t get laid through their own inabilities and lack of self awareness |
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By *a LunaWoman 5 weeks ago
South Wales |
Life has a way of throwing us into a choppy sea, with no life jacket, and just expecting us to swim.
But not everyone has the been taught the skills needed to swim, so they sink.
Sometimes it is easier to just give in and sink.
But if only someone was there, saw it, and shouted instructions in how to swim, or throw out a life jacket, what a difference that could make.
Reach out, connect. |
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Ahhh...I didn't just mean "sad, lonely....for sex".
I meant the whole gamut of "sad, lonely, clueless...." across any and every facet of living you can think of.
Although they all tend to feed into each other for sure.
Thanks for the tits again Granny ✅️💯💥💢 xxxx |
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"It might seem callous but really not.
If people are too ignorant, entitled or stupid to actually try to understand or educate themselves as to how people are or how to meet people, then I’m not going to expend emotional energy on them.
There are far worse things in this world that deserve sympathy than people who can’t get laid through their own inabilities and lack of self awareness "
Exactly this 👆 |
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"Ahhh...I didn't just mean "sad, lonely....for sex".
I meant the whole gamut of "sad, lonely, clueless...." across any and every facet of living you can think of.
Although they all tend to feed into each other for sure.
Thanks for the tits again Granny ✅️💯💥💢 xxxx"
You meant in the confines of the cold dark lonely heatingless room they exist in . |
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"Wait. Am I the female equivalent?  "
Are you?
What makes you wonder?
Tbh Nanna - I think a big saving grace about NOT being too far into that place is spending time wondering if you are.
The whole doubt/imposter thing is probably very handy for perspective and humility.
Show us yer flaps 💋💋 xxxx
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"Ahhh...I didn't just mean "sad, lonely....for sex".
I meant the whole gamut of "sad, lonely, clueless...." across any and every facet of living you can think of.
Although they all tend to feed into each other for sure.
Thanks for the tits again Granny ✅️💯💥💢 xxxxYou meant in the confines of the cold dark lonely heatingless room they exist in ."
I don't.
I like you!  . |
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By *ornycougaWoman 5 weeks ago
MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat |
"Life has a way of throwing us into a choppy sea, with no life jacket, and just expecting us to swim.
But not everyone has the been taught the skills needed to swim, so they sink.
Sometimes it is easier to just give in and sink.
But if only someone was there, saw it, and shouted instructions in how to swim, or throw out a life jacket, what a difference that could make.
Reach out, connect."
But some people ignore the instructions, demand a different colour life jacket and just wait for help whilst blaming others for their predicament and saying that all hope is lost. Those are the ones that I have no sympathy for |
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"Life has a way of throwing us into a choppy sea, with no life jacket, and just expecting us to swim.
But not everyone has the been taught the skills needed to swim, so they sink.
Sometimes it is easier to just give in and sink.
But if only someone was there, saw it, and shouted instructions in how to swim, or throw out a life jacket, what a difference that could make.
Reach out, connect."
Grasshopper say, tune in next week for another enthralling insight into the deeper meaning of life |
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"Life has a way of throwing us into a choppy sea, with no life jacket, and just expecting us to swim.
But not everyone has the been taught the skills needed to swim, so they sink.
Sometimes it is easier to just give in and sink.
But if only someone was there, saw it, and shouted instructions in how to swim, or throw out a life jacket, what a difference that could make.
Reach out, connect.
But some people ignore the instructions, demand a different colour life jacket and just wait for help whilst blaming others for their predicament and saying that all hope is lost. Those are the ones that I have no sympathy for "
The human condition is interesting. When individuals consistently lack external validation, their minds typically follow two paths. Despair and Decline: They may succumb to discouragement, leading to a downward spiral and a sense of hopelessness. Internal Validation and Entitlement: As a coping mechanism, they may develop an inflated sense of self-worth, potentially leading to feelings of entitlement and a distorted view of reality.
We often judge others without fully understanding their individual circumstances. While empathy is important, I believe the more crucial question is whether or not to offer assistance. This is a personal decision, influenced by factors such as individual capacity and life circumstances.
For example, a single parent working over 50 hours per week may lack the energy, time, or emotional resources to assist others, unlike a successful retiree with ample free time. |
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If they can self-select out of making contact, all the better. But they can't. Don't feel sorry for them, when the harm being done to the Gazans is so atrocious, thanks MrHN.
Some simple things could help, if not so clueless |
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By *a LunaWoman 5 weeks ago
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"Life has a way of throwing us into a choppy sea, with no life jacket, and just expecting us to swim.
But not everyone has the been taught the skills needed to swim, so they sink.
Sometimes it is easier to just give in and sink.
But if only someone was there, saw it, and shouted instructions in how to swim, or throw out a life jacket, what a difference that could make.
Reach out, connect.
Grasshopper say, tune in next week for another enthralling insight into the deeper meaning of life "
I’m so zen I’m ignoring the urge to slap you with a wet kipper! |
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