I think I would be disappointed, but understand that things change and sometimes this isn't for everyone, once in a relationship.
I was on here before but left after 3 years due to getting into a relationship, old fwbs were disappointed, most understood but some didn't. I think I learnt a lesson that a 'normal' relationship wasn't for me, I missed the lifestyle and the people I'd met throughout my time here and that's why I'm back 
It may just take time for someone to realise what they truly want, or fab could just be the fun side of things whilst someone is single 🤷🏼♀️ |
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Be happy for her it’s what she wanted. They come & go just like in real life - unless you want to offer the full relationship - most want that ultimately & eventually will settle down with someone & stop or reduce swinging.
I think it’s different with swinging couples, they have what emotionally fulfils with them already & just looking for extra sex. Same with eternally single types.
Not everyone is honest about what they truly want |
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"Losing a regular?
Fb/ fwb?
Was a fwb
Oh right.
I guess when any kind of relationship changes it takes adjustment. "
I think i will miss the emotional support she gave me aswell. She is and was the only person ive actually met on here |
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It's nice when someone you've been seeing for sex meets someone for a relationship and tells you.
It's better than being the bit on the side, or ghosted.
I've been the casual sex until someone suitable for a relationship comes along many times.
Most of the time they just stopped asking to see me, and stopped replying. |
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"Losing a regular?
Fb/ fwb?
Was a fwb
Oh right.
I guess when any kind of relationship changes it takes adjustment.
I think i will miss the emotional support she gave me aswell. She is and was the only person ive actually met on here "
Well she was/is your friend so you will miss that element of your relationship.
I'm frequently struck by how casually people enter into fwb relationships and how others dismiss their feelings of loss when they end. It seems that having a 'friend with benefits' is often assumed to be less than any other type of relationship.
Maybe casually is the wrong word 🤔 |
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"Losing a regular?
Fb/ fwb?
Was a fwb
Oh right.
I guess when any kind of relationship changes it takes adjustment.
I think i will miss the emotional support she gave me aswell. She is and was the only person ive actually met on here
Well she was/is your friend so you will miss that element of your relationship.
I'm frequently struck by how casually people enter into fwb relationships and how others dismiss their feelings of loss when they end. It seems that having a 'friend with benefits' is often assumed to be less than any other type of relationship.
Maybe casually is the wrong word 🤔"
I think i drive people away |
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"It's nice when someone you've been seeing for sex meets someone for a relationship and tells you.
It's better than being the bit on the side, or ghosted.
I've been the casual sex until someone suitable for a relationship comes along many times.
Most of the time they just stopped asking to see me, and stopped replying. "
i sort of guessed because she changed |
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"Losing a regular?
Fb/ fwb?
Was a fwb
Oh right.
I guess when any kind of relationship changes it takes adjustment.
I think i will miss the emotional support she gave me aswell. She is and was the only person ive actually met on here
Well she was/is your friend so you will miss that element of your relationship.
I'm frequently struck by how casually people enter into fwb relationships and how others dismiss their feelings of loss when they end. It seems that having a 'friend with benefits' is often assumed to be less than any other type of relationship.
Maybe casually is the wrong word 🤔
I think i drive people away "
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