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over a year ago
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im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx  |
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"im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx "
Does she cum for other people? Some women Just don't cum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx
Does she cum for other people? Some women Just don't cum. "
never come across a fem that cant cum. fort evry1 can cum? |
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"im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx
Does she cum for other people? Some women Just don't cum. never come across a fem that cant cum. fort evry1 can cum?"
Ive never orgasmed when im with a guy or myself for that matter  |
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Is she able to make herself cum? If so ask her how, it's all about communication, I find it difficult with a lover, I need prolonged cliteral stimulation, however if I don't cum, it doesn't mean I haven't enjoyed it, I don't need to orgasm to have great sex. My advice, talk to her, but don't get hung up on it, make it fun and relax. Good luck |
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"Is she able to make herself cum? If so ask her how, it's all about communication, I find it difficult with a lover, I need prolonged cliteral stimulation, however if I don't cum, it doesn't mean I haven't enjoyed it, I don't need to orgasm to have great sex. My advice, talk to her, but don't get hung up on it, make it fun and relax. Good luck"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Take her from the side.. Rub her clit as you penetrate her and kiss her and all her neck.... Also have her lie on top of you and as you have sex rub all her bum and lower back... This should cover all her " zones" ... Let me know how you get off... P.s.... Just explore each other over time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well done to the OP for being brave enough to ask the question
Without being sexiest some womem find it harder frokm certain age so that might be a factor
Some become bored of same routine/positions and techniques - so you to find something that breaks that cycle
Plain and simply straight health questiins
Does she smoke ?
does she drink lots before sex?
Lastly take a look at the things you do to sexually arouse her and adapt
Other advice available from others
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well done to the OP for being brave enough to ask the question
Without being sexiest some womem find it harder frokm certain age so that might be a factor
Some become bored of same routine/positions and techniques - so you to find something that breaks that cycle
Plain and simply straight health questiins
Does she smoke ?
does she drink lots before sex?
Lastly take a look at the things you do to sexually arouse her and adapt
Other advice available from others
Good luck "
What has smoking got to do with it? |
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"im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx "
Could just be a misunderstanding that you should be able to make any female climax.
I agree with Evie, Scorpio and Sugar.
The advice from males supposes that each female is a progammed toy that works in a certain way.
It doesn't have to be either one of you. It could be the combination of both of you.
Don't make an orgasm a goal. Sex is a fun filled journey of pleasure where orgasm happens sometimes but not always.
Relaxing would help. |
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"im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx "
Have you ever considered you're just trying too hard? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've seen it written this way in the forums before so it must just be me, but i do cringe when i see "MAKE her cum".
That word seems to imply force, almost against her wishes.
Sorry for hijacking the thread, back on track now.
My suggestion is to talk, find out how she likes things, keep it relaxed and don't set out with the sole intent to bring her to climax or you might just find she tenses up too much to let it happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx "
Don't let it bother you if she complains say its not my fault your frigid .
Seriously some girls can come easily some can't some can only do it themselves , every person is different .
If you make it to be a big deal she will lose respect for you and in future will look down on you as inadecquate
A lot of girls enjoy sex even when they don't come , chances are if she doesn't come with you easily it's been the same with others she has Been with.
At the end of the day she must be happy or she would have buggered off , my advice is enjoy it don't worry be happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx
Does she cum for other people? Some women Just don't cum. never come across a fem that cant cum. fort evry1 can cum?"
They may fake it so they don't hurt your male pride , |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i never had an orgasm til i was 30 lol
now i find rabbit ears on vibe are the best way lol oh and be gentle with her clit, it aint a doorbell as some like to think lmao   |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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Just a general observation - after having chuckled a fair bit ,reading the above comments...
We are not machines, guys. We have certain "buttons" - of course. But theat does not mean we orgasm instantly or even after hours of being licked...
We often respond better to a slow gradual and sensual build up without any pressure whatsoever to orgasm. In fact pressure, perceived or otherwise, is often the reason why we (and the blokes) "fail" to orgasm.
Finally, sex can be good even when the climax is not achieved. Trust me on that one 
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"Haha I love some of the advice given in these types of threads. Rub her bum ! Pmsl "
But if taking that suggestion in the whole posting as an holistic approach to the female body it's sound advice
Mrs BB x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haha I love some of the advice given in these types of threads. Rub her bum ! Pmsl
works if you do a "wax on, wax off" motion  "
If you rub hard enough will a genie come out of her arsehole? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Get her completely relaxed that's the KEY ..............
Now it’s a known fact that women find it much harder to “get off” and orgasm without any foreplay, so you should always try and introduce foreplay before sex, let those tricky fingers hang loose get toys out after fingers and lube too.
But even before foreplay, you have to get her totally relaxed so she’s comfortable in your company. If she’s not relaxed, it’s game over… she’ll be fakin it maybe.
Take your time , just make her feel at ease so she’s practically begging. After fingers and toys start kissing her body and nipples and work your way down and give her loads of oral maybe toys fingers too ............ should now be ready for sex and take your time .... its a feast not a snack . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha I love some of the advice given in these types of threads. Rub her bum ! Pmsl
works if you do a "wax on, wax off" motion
If you rub hard enough will a genie come out of her arsehole? "
Pmsl classic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't concentrate on the orgasm , you will give her the impression that there is something wrong .. Some ladies can't orgasm but enjoy the ride .
I can't reach O at clubs , even with hitachi for 2 hrs so I just enjoy the ride
However I can have many little o with the right stimulation but for big O I usually do it myself with a partner watching  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh yes .. Nipples are my most erogenous zone ... Some guys think a little lick is enough 
Get candles burning , good music , massage oils and a bucket of lube !!
Also she may be low on testosterone .. I went to my menopause dr because I couldn't orgasm and got some testosterone gel to apply daily .. I am not walking around permanently hot but when it comes to making love it is far more enjoyable now and my body lubes itself |
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By *9MarkMan
over a year ago
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"Is she able to make herself cum? If so ask her how, it's all about communication, I find it difficult with a lover, I need prolonged cliteral stimulation, however if I don't cum, it doesn't mean I haven't enjoyed it, I don't need to orgasm to have great sex. My advice, talk to her, but don't get hung up on it, make it fun and relax. Good luck"
You ask a question!...Well this is your answer....Well said Sugarkisses |
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"Just a general observation - after having chuckled a fair bit ,reading the above comments...
We are not machines, guys. We have certain "buttons" - of course. But theat does not mean we orgasm instantly or even after hours of being licked...
We often respond better to a slow gradual and sensual build up without any pressure whatsoever to orgasm. In fact pressure, perceived or otherwise, is often the reason why we (and the blokes) "fail" to orgasm.
Finally, sex can be good even when the climax is not achieved. Trust me on that one
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Totally agree, these fora are very informative and I think people would have much happier sex lives if they stopped taking notice of how everyone else enjoys sex and concentrated on what they like and are able to achieve. |
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"Make her feel the only girl in the world ................ special when having sex ... making love and that will do it ..
That is good advice in general but not fair to say that it will do the trick in my opinion! None of us know how this particular woman will achieve orgasm or even if she can, the only possible way to find out is to ask her. Good sex is about communication first and foremost and that's communication between the people who are doing it not communication with the rest of the world.
Getting information and tips from others is fine but putting pressure on someone to achieve an orgasm by trying stuff that works with other people will never work and this is more about male pride than anything I think."
Don't get me started on the 'I can make any woman squirt' threads. |
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"Make her feel the only girl in the world ................ special when having sex ... making love and that will do it ..
That is good advice in general but not fair to say that it will do the trick in my opinion! None of us know how this particular woman will achieve orgasm or even if she can, the only possible way to find out is to ask her. Good sex is about communication first and foremost and that's communication between the people who are doing it not communication with the rest of the world.
Getting information and tips from others is fine but putting pressure on someone to achieve an orgasm by trying stuff that works with other people will never work and this is more about male pride than anything I think.
Don't get me started on the 'I can make any woman squirt' threads. "
Lol! Ok but they do get on your nerves dont they bless 'em. |
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"im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx "
So, my advice would be talk to your lover, find out what does it for her and if she tells you that she can't cum do not make it your mission in life to get her to do it. Take things slowly and assure her that it is fine with you of she doesn't as long as you know that she is enjoying herself and that you woudl love her to show you ways to ensure that she is enjoying herself. |
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Don't get me started on the 'I can make any woman squirt' threads.
Gawd I cringe when I see those....
Any man that believes he can make any woman cum/squirt/gush...whatever....are delusional  "
I doubt even they believe it, they just think it will increase their chances of meeting all us women who are desperate to exprience this wonderful phenomena....not! It isn't just limited to men to be fair though. |
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By *9MarkMan
over a year ago
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"im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx "
At the end of the day mate..There is only one person who can answer that question And that is your Woman. Talk to her find out what she wants. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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some women struggle whatever you do, some can come quite easily, regardless of partner or what theyre doing, a woman knows her body best, im sure she has a great time... but when the times right, get her to show you and incorporate her doing it herself...but with the bonus of you aiding with a favourite of hers technique...you might even enjoy watching her do it herself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's very rare that anyone other than myself can bring me to orgasm.. And that isn't a dig at anyone I've been with at all, I've had some great sessions! Just don't often orgasm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's very rare that anyone other than myself can bring me to orgasm.. And that isn't a dig at anyone I've been with at all, I've had some great sessions! Just don't often orgasm."
I think a lot of woman are like this too ............ and can be better cumming at different times of the month too When I am just about to cum on I am as horny as hell and cum easy....... and at different ages of a woman ... Thing have to be right for me to cum.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of people seem to take it as an insult when they can't make you orgasm. It's kind of a vicious circle cause if someone gets all stressy about it I get stressy as well and then there's absolutely no chance of it happening! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A lot of people seem to take it as an insult when they can't make you orgasm. It's kind of a vicious circle cause if someone gets all stressy about it I get stressy as well and then there's absolutely no chance of it happening!"
well at times the more you stress and others its not going to work .
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"im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx
At the end of the day mate..There is only one person who can answer that question And that is your Woman. Talk to her find out what she wants. "
we'll said and coming from another man might have more impact. |
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Threads like this show that one size does not fit all. Just because other people are having orgasms, squirting, gushing, licking for hours, taking monster cocks in every orifice etc doesn't mean we all have to. Enjoying sex on your own terms is what it's all about and stuff what everyone else is doing or saying they're doing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx
At the end of the day mate..There is only one person who can answer that question And that is your Woman. Talk to her find out what she wants.
we'll said and coming from another man might have more impact."
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"It's very rare that anyone other than myself can bring me to orgasm.. And that isn't a dig at anyone I've been with at all, I've had some great sessions! Just don't often orgasm."
So true just a shame many guys don't get this concept ! |
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" Get her completely relaxed that's the KEY ..............
Now it’s a known fact that women find it much harder to “get off” and orgasm without any foreplay, so you should always try and introduce foreplay before sex, let those tricky fingers hang loose get toys out after fingers and lube too.
But even before foreplay, you have to get her totally relaxed so she’s comfortable in your company. If she’s not relaxed, it’s game over… she’ll be fakin it maybe.
Take your time , just make her feel at ease so she’s practically begging. After fingers and toys start kissing her body and nipples and work your way down and give her loads of oral maybe toys fingers too ............ should now be ready for sex and take your time .... its a feast not a snack . "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx "
Not trying to be rude. But dont ask us for advice. Ask HER!! She knows her body more than any of us do..let her guide you and tell you what she likes, how she wants you to touch her..and take it from there.
Fingers crossed it goes well..in these situations its best to talk to her than anyone else. All the answers to your questions; she has it.
All the best. |
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It takes me a long time to come but when I do OMFG its really very powerful! I have kicked a guy full force in the head before now!! And can shake for hours afterwards. Lol x
Perseverance, fingers and licking around the clit gently at first and be guided by her moans and groans as to how you carry on xx
To those of you who dont orgasm OMG thats just tragic
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"It takes me a long time to come but when I do OMFG its really very powerful! I have kicked a guy full force in the head before now!! And can shake for hours afterwards. Lol x
Perseverance, fingers and licking around the clit gently at first and be guided by her moans and groans as to how you carry on xx
To those of you who dont orgasm OMG thats just tragic
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pull her clit hood apart and lick or finger wank her exposed clit - works every time"
oh my god the thought of someone "finger wanking" my exposed clit just made my toes curl! |
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"Pull her clit hood apart and lick or finger wank her exposed clit - works every time
oh my god the thought of someone "finger wanking" my exposed clit just made my toes curl! "
actually it's something if done right is great. Lol but done right being the operative word. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx "
Sometimes this just happens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pull her clit hood apart and lick or finger wank her exposed clit - works every time
oh my god the thought of someone "finger wanking" my exposed clit just made my toes curl!
actually it's something if done right is great. Lol but done right being the operative word. Xxx"
I can't even do that to myself, far too sensitive! |
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"Pull her clit hood apart and lick or finger wank her exposed clit - works every time
oh my god the thought of someone "finger wanking" my exposed clit just made my toes curl!
actually it's something if done right is great. Lol but done right being the operative word. Xxx
I can't even do that to myself, far too sensitive!"
your not the only one.. iv tried so many times to do that but i just end up sooooo sensitive.. that it almost hurts more than the pleasure.. |
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"i got a wand for her"
Wave the wand , say the magic words and change her into raging nymphomaniac, or a bottle of new world merlit, depending on how you feel at the time  |
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"Pull her clit hood apart and lick or finger wank her exposed clit - works every time
oh my god the thought of someone "finger wanking" my exposed clit just made my toes curl! "
I crossed my legs and winced at 'pull her clit hood apart' ...... mine goes backwards n I believe they still make them that way nowadays.... |
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"i got a wand for her
Wave the wand , say the magic words and change her into raging nymphomaniac, or a bottle of new world merlit, depending on how you feel at the time "
Izzy Wizzy - Let's get bizzy ! |
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"i got a wand for her
Wave the wand , say the magic words and change her into raging nymphomaniac, or a bottle of new world merlit, depending on how you feel at the time "
MERLOT ! |
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"i got a wand for her
Wave the wand , say the magic words and change her into raging nymphomaniac, or a bottle of new world merlit, depending on how you feel at the time
MERLOT !"
It's okay. You have the Merlit if you want the Merlit. |
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"Pull her clit hood apart and lick or finger wank her exposed clit - works every time
oh my god the thought of someone "finger wanking" my exposed clit just made my toes curl!
I crossed my legs and winced at 'pull her clit hood apart' ...... mine goes backwards n I believe they still make them that way nowadays.... "
me too  but maybe things have moved on since I was born.
Seriously though I know I've said it before but the lack of knowledge of female sexuality and anatomy displayed is staggering. |
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"i got a wand for her
Wave the wand , say the magic words and change her into raging nymphomaniac, or a bottle of new world merlit, depending on how you feel at the time
MERLOT !
It's okay. You have the Merlit if you want the Merlit. "
Clink, clink |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx "
You have to find the right spot and be gentle |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Its not written in stone that you HAVE TO ORGASM to enjoy sex..........
some can enjoy without orgasm. some cant.
as long as both are enjoying the experience.....why worry |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sorry, i haven't read the whole post, (as i don't want to scroll through countless guys explaining how to make a lass gush/squirt, lol) but, isn't it better to sit down with your partner and ask HER what turns HER on! That way you both learn the others likes and dislikes. |
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"Sorry, i haven't read the whole post, (as i don't want to scroll through countless guys explaining how to make a lass gush/squirt, lol) but, isn't it better to sit down with your partner and ask HER what turns HER on! That way you both learn the others likes and dislikes."
yes! |
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"Sorry, i haven't read the whole post, (as i don't want to scroll through countless guys explaining how to make a lass gush/squirt, lol) but, isn't it better to sit down with your partner and ask HER what turns HER on! That way you both learn the others likes and dislikes.
yes!"
Also ask her if she wants to cum. She might not actually want to or be bothered by it. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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I simply had to come back to this thread before going off on a bike ride - pardon the pun.
I cannot remember when a thread has made me chuckle this much - not the OP, he has a valid point in asking a question and it is great to see that guys do care about our happiness and satisfaction.
It is just the advice given on here, from licking for hours, pulling apart an exposed clit to God knows what....
it's the script for a new...
Carry on cumming
Brilliant and thank you for ust genuine entertainment |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I simply had to come back to this thread before going off on a bike ride - pardon the pun.
I cannot remember when a thread has made me chuckle this much - not the OP, he has a valid point in asking a question and it is great to see that guys do care about our happiness and satisfaction.
It is just the advice given on here, from licking for hours, pulling apart an exposed clit to God knows what....
it's the script for a new...
Carry on cumming
Brilliant and thank you for ust genuine entertainment "
well said Enjoy your bike ride |
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By *zanyCouple
over a year ago
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Women are all different and each has there own turn on. Was'nt till we started swinging that we found out out what coming was all about. When I was told I had a lot to learn it really Spurred me on to work it out. Since then have had some great experiences and can pass on what we know to others. Bottom line is a women has got to want to cum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Make her cum?
Since when did women become robots? You can't make a women do anything and why would you want to?
Talk to her, find out her likes and dislikes. Go back to basics take your time. Sex ain't just about making a women cum its about making her feel special and worth it. Not all women cum from oral or intercourse some do some don't, simple.
So take your time. Talk have a laugh and make her feel like the only women alive and what's more just enjoy being with her.... |
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By *phroditeWoman
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"Make her cum?
Since when did women become robots? You can't make a women do anything and why would you want to?
Talk to her, find out her likes and dislikes. Go back to basics take your time. Sex ain't just about making a women cum its about making her feel special and worth it. Not all women cum from oral or intercourse some do some don't, simple.
So take your time. Talk have a laugh and make her feel like the only women alive and what's more just enjoy being with her...."
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By *itzWoman
over a year ago
south wales |
"im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx "
Always make sure your hands are soft, our bits are delicate......but yes yes to all the posts advising asking the lady, tis simple isn't it?
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