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Can you spot a Swinger??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we was away camping on a vanilla site ,late evening was having a few drinks n got chattin with a few other cpls ,,n was watchin body language ,,n yes i told my oh ,they deffo swingers he sed dont b silly u cant tell by lookin ,,,sure enough a month later they was in our local swing club ,,so ide deffo say yes ,,,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have seen a couple in our local bar and I am sure they are."
Take the word swinger out of the equation as it muddies the water. What you are saying I am assuming is you have seen a couple in the local bar who keep looking your way/smile or something similar. The most likley answer is they are discussing fantasies with each other, do they actually carry them out? Well its impossible to say unless you strike up a conversation but often what people like the idea of they don't carry out in reality. Saying all that if you are interested enough to ask on here why not take your curiosity further and strike up a conversation with them and slip some key words in. |
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"Can’t put my finger on it I just get that feeling, I know, it doesn’t make any sense. "
There's a huge difference between being sure of something and wanting it to be.
I guess you are attracted to them and they look as if they 'would'.
Why not make the first move and start chatting. There's no need to mention swinging , talk always gets round to sex when people are that way inclined.
In any case if you do mention swinging and they back right off you've lost notihing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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easy peasy, smile and ask 'haven't we met? at club (insert local swinging club) youll get one of 4 responses.
1. no weve never heard of it/been
2. weve never been but would love too
3. well we swing but don't use clubs
4. fuck off you pervy twats.
whichever way youll have the answer...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"easy peasy, smile and ask 'haven't we met? at club (insert local swinging club) youll get one of 4 responses.
1. no weve never heard of it/been
2. weve never been but would love too
3. well we swing but don't use clubs
4. fuck off you pervy twats.
whichever way youll have the answer...
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"easy peasy, smile and ask 'haven't we met? at club (insert local swinging club) youll get one of 4 responses.
1. no weve never heard of it/been
2. weve never been but would love too
3. well we swing but don't use clubs
4. fuck off you pervy twats.
whichever way youll have the answer...
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Wow this is a superb strategy!! But the OP asked if you can spot a swinger? The answer is NO  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was in a pub once and was getting a number of looks (lingering ones) from a couple. Did they appear any different from everyone else? No, apart from the woman was wearing a shortish skirt, stockings and heels (!)
Of course in my head I jumped to the conclusion: 'Ding-Dong!'. So I approached them with a bit of small talk, asked them if they went to any local clubs, which did the trick (see above post).
The result was a steamy night in my hotel room
So answering the question: yes, but no... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont look around when Im out so answer is no but I like people watching so maybe ill pay a bit more attention, wouldnt approach anyone though - too shy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes 
Especially couples, The way she is relaxed with him looking or the way they both check others out maybe.
I've always found swingers in nilla settings. For years I used 'going to broad street' in Birmingham, when anyone asked me where I was off out too and so late, but I've never yet been out on Broad street in Birmingham
Saying that, I've never bought it up, they usually do :O
Go with your instincts, if you think they are, they probably are and if not, then not yet  |
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One conversation straight away eventually is swinging when chatting to couples on nude beaches or my Naturist holidays. Some protest too much. We not swingers. Basically they are trying to find out if you are. I sure they secretly want to |
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