I can speak to who I like when I like, I don't have to apologise for wanting my own space. There's no need to set boundaries. I don't know why I didn't do it sooner.

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By *ensualtongue2023Man 8 weeks ago

furnace

I’ve pretty much always been single

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By *illy IdolMan 8 weeks ago

Midlands

"I can speak to who I like when I like, I don't have to apologise for wanting my own space. There's no need to set boundaries. I don't know why I didn't do it sooner."

Single or not, don't be ringing me at 3am

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By *iss.BellaWoman 8 weeks ago

Wales

"I can speak to who I like when I like, I don't have to apologise for wanting my own space. There's no need to set boundaries. I don't know why I didn't do it sooner.

Single or not, don't be ringing me at 3am"

Sorry, won't happen again

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan 8 weeks ago

Ends

If you’re solo poly, are you single?

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By *ad NannaWoman 8 weeks ago

East London

You can sleep soundly in bed knowing you aren't going to be Dutch ovened.

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By *ad NannaWoman 8 weeks ago

East London

"If you’re solo poly, are you single? "

If you have at least one committed partner, you aren't single.

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By *eliWoman 8 weeks ago

"If you’re solo poly, are you single? "

Stop trying to make poly happen.

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By *arkus1812Man 8 weeks ago

Finedon ,

"Isn't it fucking awesome 💥💜."

Not when you get to my age

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By *ositiveVibesWoman 8 weeks ago

here there and everywhere

Some days it’s totally awesome… some days it sucks donkey’s nuts 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *lfa RomeoMan 8 weeks ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

It has it's moments, but if I had to choose. Then I'd rather be in a relationship

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By *icecouple561Couple 8 weeks ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

I wouldn't like it. I'm not designed for being alone.

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By *ollyPocket75Woman 8 weeks ago

Aberdeen

I agree it has it's moments being single, however, so does relationship Depends where you are in your life I guess and whether you're happy within yourself.

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By *partharmonyCouple 8 weeks ago

Ruislip

There are advantages and disadvantages.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan 8 weeks ago

Ends

"If you’re solo poly, are you single?

If you have at least one committed partner, you aren't single."

Boring

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan 8 weeks ago

Ends

"If you’re solo poly, are you single?

Stop trying to make poly happen."

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By *hatKlungeEnigma OP Man 8 weeks ago

St Leonards

I've just checked - it's still fucking awesome 💥💜.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS 8 weeks ago

1127 walnut avenue

It certainly is especially if you're a serial killer..💀😉

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By *oughmanMan 8 weeks ago

Sunderland

"Isn't it fucking awesome 💥💜."

It is to a point. Sometimes though the loneliness can hit you like a truck.

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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago

"It certainly is especially if you're a serial killer..💀😉"

Does that make being single more exciting?

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By *issolvedOrdersMan 8 weeks ago

Bristol

"It certainly is especially if you're a serial killer..💀😉

Does that make being single more exciting? "

Danger wank +10

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By *luebell888Woman 8 weeks ago

Glasgowish

Love being single.

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By *enk15Man 8 weeks ago

Evesham

I love living the single life.

Just don't tell the Mrs 🤫

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By *idingukMan 8 weeks ago

Eastbourne

Same here, still not had any action from here though 😔

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By *erbysGentMan 8 weeks ago

Ilkeston

Is sometimes good but at times very lonely

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan 8 weeks ago

Den of Iniquity

Most of the time yes ..

Wasn't so great over Xmas and New Year though 🤷‍♂️

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman 8 weeks ago

Manchester

90% of the time yes, sometimes I do get lonely. Then I date again and remember why I liked being single 😅

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By *cotsguyyMan 8 weeks ago

Belfast and Fife

"90% of the time yes, sometimes I do get lonely. Then I date again and remember why I liked being single 😅"

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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago

It has pros and cons, just like being in a relationship. I don't think it's any better than the other, really. Both situations are good and bad for various reasons.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan 8 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

Gotta be honest, when I tried being single I found it exhausting. All those dates. All those nights out. All that sex. Don’t think I could do it again, not at my age.

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By *ornycougaWoman 8 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"Gotta be honest, when I tried being single I found it exhausting. All those dates. All those nights out. All that sex. Don’t think I could do it again, not at my age."

It's hell and a dirty job but someone has to do it. I'll take one for the team!

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By *issolvedOrdersMan 8 weeks ago

Bristol

"Gotta be honest, when I tried being single I found it exhausting. All those dates. All those nights out. All that sex. Don’t think I could do it again, not at my age.

It's hell and a dirty job but someone has to do it. I'll take one for the team! "

Not all heroes wear capes

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman 8 weeks ago

Next Door

Most of the time I love being single and the freedom it gives me.

But I would also like to have a partner to enjoy life with.

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By *riel13Woman 8 weeks ago

Northampton

I love it!

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman 8 weeks ago

Manchester

Actual romantic dating is exhausting and expensive. The cycle of endless talking stages and dates. I'd rather stay in and watch TV most evenings 😂 the talking stages with swinging can also be tiresome but to a lesser degree, it tends to be more to the point.

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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago

It is when it's awesome... It's not when it's lonely. But I'm at the start of the singleton journey so I'm imagining a see-sawing of more awesomeness and dwindling loneliness.

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By *hatKlungeEnigma OP Man 8 weeks ago

St Leonards

"I've just checked - it's still fucking awesome 💥💜."

I've just checked again. I looked up, down, side to side.

Thought long and hard about it.

Jesus Christ - it's fucking awesome still