 |
By *IXEN200 OP Woman 3 days ago
newcastle upon tyne |
Has anyone ever made a decision to meet someone for a social to then find out they've hidden their profile that same night you were talking to them..
What have you done or what would you do? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *IXEN200 OP Woman 3 days ago
newcastle upon tyne |
"You can still message them, even with a hidden profile.
If they stopped responding to me I'd stop messaging and assume they weren't interested. "
I sent a message this morning but it's not been read yet, we are planning to meet tomorrow but if he doesn't respond by then. I guess it's his loss not mine  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"You can still message them, even with a hidden profile.
If they stopped responding to me I'd stop messaging and assume they weren't interested.
I sent a message this morning but it's not been read yet, we are planning to meet tomorrow but if he doesn't respond by then. I guess it's his loss not mine "
I've had people go quiet because they're busy, then message a couple of hours before the arranged time. I don't start to get ready until I've heard from them and tell them a time I need the green light by.
In this weather I wouldn't bother changing out of my pjs in the morning if I hadn't had a response the previous day.
I don't do sex chat, in case it's all they want. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *IXEN200 OP Woman 2 days ago
newcastle upon tyne |
"You can still message them, even with a hidden profile.
If they stopped responding to me I'd stop messaging and assume they weren't interested.
I sent a message this morning but it's not been read yet, we are planning to meet tomorrow but if he doesn't respond by then. I guess it's his loss not mine
I've had people go quiet because they're busy, then message a couple of hours before the arranged time. I don't start to get ready until I've heard from them and tell them a time I need the green light by.
In this weather I wouldn't bother changing out of my pjs in the morning if I hadn't had a response the previous day.
I don't do sex chat, in case it's all they want. "
Thanks, I'm not going to be doing anything till I hear from him it's just taking me a long time to build myself up to meeting someone new and now my anxiety kicks in |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"You can still message them, even with a hidden profile.
If they stopped responding to me I'd stop messaging and assume they weren't interested.
I sent a message this morning but it's not been read yet, we are planning to meet tomorrow but if he doesn't respond by then. I guess it's his loss not mine
I've had people go quiet because they're busy, then message a couple of hours before the arranged time. I don't start to get ready until I've heard from them and tell them a time I need the green light by.
In this weather I wouldn't bother changing out of my pjs in the morning if I hadn't had a response the previous day.
I don't do sex chat, in case it's all they want.
Thanks, I'm not going to be doing anything till I hear from him it's just taking me a long time to build myself up to meeting someone new and now my anxiety kicks in"
It can be a bollock ache at times. Someone changed our plans slightly, last minute this evening and sent me into a panic.
I was close to saying let's do it another time, but I took a deep breath and gave myself a lecture.
I hope they do come through for you, but, if not, try to not let it put you off arranging to meet others.
Remember, no sex chat lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"You can still message them, even with a hidden profile.
If they stopped responding to me I'd stop messaging and assume they weren't interested.
I sent a message this morning but it's not been read yet, we are planning to meet tomorrow but if he doesn't respond by then. I guess it's his loss not mine "
I would message again to tell him if you don't hear from him by 10am you will make other plans. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"You can still message them, even with a hidden profile.
If they stopped responding to me, I'd stop messaging and assume they weren't interested.
I sent a message this morning but it's not been read yet, we are planning to meet tomorrow but if he doesn't respond by then. I guess it's his loss not mine
I would message again to tell him if you don't hear from him by 10am you will make other plans. "
And if they message you at 11 am saying, Oh no, I really wanted to see you today, but never mind, we can rearrange. Then, tries to have a conversation about what they want to do to you. Tell them to get lost. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *apio51Man 2 days ago
Edinburgh ish |
A hidden profile does not mean they don’t want to speak with people they are already speaking to??!! I have conversations with a few people that routinely hide their profiles…usually it’s because they don’t want new people messaging them. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *IXEN200 OP Woman 2 days ago
newcastle upon tyne |
"A hidden profile does not mean they don’t want to speak with people they are already speaking to??!! I have conversations with a few people that routinely hide their profiles…usually it’s because they don’t want new people messaging them."
I do understand this totally |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
