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Does it bother you? I am talking when other people can hear like on the train, in a cafe, in a shop or other such public spaces. I will declare from the start that it does bother me. I have no issue what anyone does in private but I think it is disrespectful to hear all that swearing in public these days. Many years ago one of the neighbours was swearing so much when in his garden that everyone could hear him. The lady on the other side complained to the authorities as she did not want her kids hearing that all the time. Surely swearing in public is bad manners at best. My opinion of course but yours may differ.  |
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"Context is king, obviously, but can't say it bothers me that much."
Side note: but anyone speaking so loudly that the whole bus/train can hear their side of the conversation is a first rate twat, swearing or not. |
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It doesn't bother me tbh, the kids pick up most of their swear words at school from peers, not on the street from Joe public.
I enjoy educating mine to use different words, change "fuck off" to "hotdog". It's not offensive unless you take the tone In which it is said as offensive, which most Joe public won't. |
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No, doesn't bother me. People having a loud public argument or walking around with their phones on loudspeaker for everyone to hear their conversation bothers me more. My children have been taught not to repeat what they hear others say. |
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I don’t swear myself but it doesn’t bother me in the slightest. I was walking past a school at playtime and there were road workers swearing to each other from opposite sides of the street loudly. Nobody said anything. I do believe there is a time and a place.
I’m a parent and won’t berate my child for swearing so long as it’s in the right context. |
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I honestly don't find swearing publicly offensive, unless in conjunction with offensive behaviour e.g. threatening someone.
It can be hard to ascertain the meaning of a sentence, if every other word is an expletive; seemingly, grammatically chaotic. At times I am tempted to point out the various different formulations of meaning their words could represent back to them, for a little humour. |
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I don't like it.
I have to say though that I swear more now than I ever have but never in public.
Growing up I only heard my dad swear once. He said "bloody" when my brothers did something really, really dangerous.  |
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By *oxy-RedWoman 1 week ago
pink panther territory |
Yes I think that publicly swearing is offensive,I've often been on the bus with my Grandson when all you can hear is bad language and he even repeated so to say I was mortified was an understatement |
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By *apio51Man 1 week ago
Edinburgh ish |
I hate it.
I'm glad others do too. It's become more and more ubiquitous and it's vile.
I do swear, but I keep it in context. For the record I have worked my entire life in heavy industry with almost exclusively males who are a bit sweary. I dont mind it in that context, but if I'm out doing some shopping I don't want to hear some Jakey effing and jeffing. |
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Bothers is a strong word, I'm not going to lose sleep over it but sometimes excessive swearing is unnecessary. Some environments don't need it especially in public spaces. There is a trend though where some people think swearing and being vulgar is a personality so wouldn't say it's authentic swearing either. |
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I'm an enormous fan of swearing in many circumstances.
And it makes me wince in others.
The descriptions of circumstances you've given OP I would consistently file under "wince".
It's a very useful tool I deploy when people are giving themselves too many airs and graces though. |
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By *ir tootMan 1 week ago
Burton-on-Trent |
"Bothers is a strong word, I'm not going to lose sleep over it but sometimes excessive swearing is unnecessary. Some environments don't need it especially in public spaces. There is a trend though where some people think swearing and being vulgar is a personality so wouldn't say it's authentic swearing either."
Had a guy arguing in Starbucks recently over the phone, airing his dirty laundry..
Maybe she found out he was wiping his knob on the curtains again. |
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"Bothers is a strong word, I'm not going to lose sleep over it but sometimes excessive swearing is unnecessary. Some environments don't need it especially in public spaces. There is a trend though where some people think swearing and being vulgar is a personality so wouldn't say it's authentic swearing either.
Had a guy arguing in Starbucks recently over the phone, airing his dirty laundry..
Maybe she found out he was wiping his knob on the curtains again."
Well if you're going to be waving your curtains around, people will come to that conclusion. |
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By *ir tootMan 1 week ago
Burton-on-Trent |
"Bothers is a strong word, I'm not going to lose sleep over it but sometimes excessive swearing is unnecessary. Some environments don't need it especially in public spaces. There is a trend though where some people think swearing and being vulgar is a personality so wouldn't say it's authentic swearing either.
Had a guy arguing in Starbucks recently over the phone, airing his dirty laundry..
Maybe she found out he was wiping his knob on the curtains again.
Well if you're going to be waving your curtains around, people will come to that conclusion."
True true 🤣 |
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I worked with a guy who learned English while working in a Glasgow ship yard. He was asked to describe the English language and his answer was. Swearing, then constructing a sentence around it.
People who can't hold their phones to their ear and chat, are far more annoying. |
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By *oomlMan 1 week ago
Fareham |
"Do people differentiate between swearing and blasphemy?"
Just before Christmas when I picked my grandchildren up from school one of them sold me that a Christmas song has swearing in it. I said which one and he said Mary's boy child "Jesus Christ" |
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"Do people differentiate between swearing and blasphemy?
Just before Christmas when I picked my grandchildren up from school one of them sold me that a Christmas song has swearing in it. I said which one and he said Mary's boy child "Jesus Christ""
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I don't think of blasphemy in the same way as swearing. I say "oh my god" a lot and "bloody" sometimes. I'm not sure if 'hell' and 'damn ' is blasphemy but I use those words too. |
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"Do people differentiate between swearing and blasphemy?
Actually I do wince when someone blasphemes, more than when someone swears"
My mum used to say she'd rather someone swore than blasphemed. She was quite religious |
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"Do people differentiate between swearing and blasphemy?
Actually I do wince when someone blasphemes, more than when someone swears
My mum used to say she'd rather someone swore than blasphemed. She was quite religious"
Bang goes my "God's a cunt" thread then  . |
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"Do people differentiate between swearing and blasphemy?
Actually I do wince when someone blasphemes, more than when someone swears
My mum used to say she'd rather someone swore than blasphemed. She was quite religious
Bang goes my "God's a cunt" thread then ."
It's fine she's not in fab... |
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"Do people differentiate between swearing and blasphemy?
Actually I do wince when someone blasphemes, more than when someone swears
My mum used to say she'd rather someone swore than blasphemed. She was quite religious
Bang goes my "God's a cunt" thread then .
It's fine she's not in fab..."
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"Does it bother you? I am talking when other people can hear like on the train, in a cafe, in a shop or other such public spaces. I will declare from the start that it does bother me. I have no issue what anyone does in private but I think it is disrespectful to hear all that swearing in public these days. Many years ago one of the neighbours was swearing so much when in his garden that everyone could hear him. The lady on the other side complained to the authorities as she did not want her kids hearing that all the time. Surely swearing in public is bad manners at best. My opinion of course but yours may differ. "
Our current neighbours vocabulary seems to be very limited to about 4 word's all of them swearing.
I sat and counted one evening in 5 minute period he (this is not including the other person in the room,his mum) he said the F word 28 times.
I literally couldn't keep up with it.
Sad that I'm counting but when they are keeping you awake until the early hours and all you can do is sit and listen to them,what else do you do? |
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We are blessed with a wide vocabulary, including a wide vocabulary of profanity. Both of us aren't precious around the use of swear words in adult company (situation granted). So if you're engaging in carefree conversation with us expect a fair few profanities causally thrown in (including some rather good ones).
On the point of situation we were at a naturist spa last night talking to a lovely lady. She mentioned (in conversation, not being judgy or condescending) that she does not like the use of swear works. Which sparked a fun conversation about them. Naturally out of respect we were careful to modify our language. |
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There's another side to this too.
Which is people who very rarely swear, but they've just been pushed too far by their boss, parent, best friend, puddle splashed on their clothes by a passing vehicle etc.
They go very tense, red-faced, and then blurt out every expletive locked inside for the previous few years. Usually in a sentence that makes no sense at all.
That's just impossibly cute.
I had/have two female relatives like this, and when it happened I couldn't stop laughing, and they didn't know whether to laugh or cry but they were damned well going to get out those 10 swear words somehow before deciding which 🥰🥰🥰. |
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By *ddie1966Man 1 week ago
Paper Town Central, Essex. |
I'm with you on this one MB.
Vocabular profanity in a public place is neither necessary or called for. Especially when there are young ears around.
Now don't get me wrong, I'm not highly educated in English Language (CSE Grade 4), but even I can get by without using profanity even as a last resort.
I cut the tip of my finger off with a circular saw and the worst I said was "oh blast".
In fact, I have in the past and will in the future, pulled people up publicly for swearing. Their response. "Mind your own business" my response, "when you mind your language"
There really is no need for it.  |
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"I'm with you on this one MB.
Vocabular profanity in a public place is neither necessary or called for. Especially when there are young ears around.
Now don't get me wrong, I'm not highly educated in English Language (CSE Grade 4), but even I can get by without using profanity even as a last resort.
I cut the tip of my finger off with a circular saw and the worst I said was "oh blast".
In fact, I have in the past and will in the future, pulled people up publicly for swearing. Their response. "Mind your own business" my response, "when you mind your language"
There really is no need for it. "
I’m sure there was a study that found people who use profanity tend to be more intelligent so I don’t really get why people bring intelligence into the argument. |
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