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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Earlier in the year i dated a guy into tantric sex and i have to say i wasn't very impressed. Not sure if he was doing it right but he seemed to think that there shouldn't be foreplay, that during sex he would just suddenly stop and do deep breathing for a couple of minutes regardless of if i wanted him to stop before suddenly starting again and he never came, he didn't want to actually orgasm from sex. Needless to say i wasn't very impressed and it didn't last long.
What are other peoples experiences of tantric sex? |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Earlier in the year i dated a guy into tantric sex and i have to say i wasn't very impressed. Not sure if he was doing it right but he seemed to think that there shouldn't be foreplay, that during sex he would just suddenly stop and do deep breathing for a couple of minutes regardless of if i wanted him to stop before suddenly starting again and he never came, he didn't want to actually orgasm from sex. Needless to say i wasn't very impressed and it didn't last long.
What are other peoples experiences of tantric sex? "
Very very very different. But I think it is a llittle bit like BDSM and other leanings - different people understand different things by the same word? |
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I did question him and he said as he was indian and it was the teachings from home. I have to admit the stopping to take deep breaths and then i had to stay still and not be distracting was rather unsexy lol |
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By *phroditeWoman
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"I did question him and he said as he was indian and it was the teachings from home. I have to admit the stopping to take deep breaths and then i had to stay still and not be distracting was rather unsexy lol"
Sounds like the natural flow of things was interrupted at what was the wrong time for you.
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"Earlier in the year i dated a guy into tantric sex and i have to say i wasn't very impressed. Not sure if he was doing it right but he seemed to think that there shouldn't be foreplay, that during sex he would just suddenly stop and do deep breathing for a couple of minutes regardless of if i wanted him to stop before suddenly starting again and he never came, he didn't want to actually orgasm from sex. Needless to say i wasn't very impressed and it didn't last long.
What are other peoples experiences of tantric sex? "
Just a stab in the dark but perhaps a technique to stop him from orgasming...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Half Man Half Biscuit have a song entitled
Surging out of Convalescence - One of the lines is:-
"Last Ash Wednesday I had tantric sex and it was shit"
If it's made it into a song, it's probably true. |
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"I did question him and he said as he was indian and it was the teachings from home. I have to admit the stopping to take deep breaths and then i had to stay still and not be distracting was rather unsexy lol"
He was probably concentrating on keeping it hard many of these tric'ers go into it as they struggle to maintain wood.  |
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