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By *aron Von Ringsplitter OP Man 6 days ago

Mottram St Andrew

I've always considered cumming as a key part of sex and love it if my partner does, jyst as much as if I do.

But I was surprised that previous gfs have said that they don't always need to cum to enjoy having sex and that's okay.

Is that actually a thing? Or am I just shit at sex and they didn't want to hurt my feelings?

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By *aitonelMan 6 days ago

Away for Christmas

Both maybe.

It's true. But also maybe they did think you were shit too.

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By *orphia2003Woman 6 days ago

Tonypandy.

No I don't.

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By *ourtney CocksWoman 6 days ago

Cardiff

^ what he said

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By *atch0101Man 6 days ago

Here

"No I don't. "

Your image has grabbed me.what are you your music tastes?

Sorry OP to jump on your thread. Didn't want to send a pointless pm

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By *aron Von Ringsplitter OP Man 6 days ago

Mottram St Andrew

"No I don't.

Your image has grabbed me.what are you your music tastes?

Sorry OP to jump on your thread. Didn't want to send a pointless pm"

It's no longer mine once I've sent it into the world... it takes a life of It's own.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 6 days ago

Carlisle usually

I reach orgasm incredibly easily.

If someone is trying to get me off and they can't, it probably is shit sex.

Unless we're playing silly deliberate denial games.

But. That's not the case for most people as far as I'm aware.

And I don't consider an orgasm the point at which sex is completed 💜

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By *aron Von Ringsplitter OP Man 6 days ago

Mottram St Andrew

"Both maybe.

It's true. But also maybe they did think you were shit too. "

Alas, I fear this to ge the case.

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By *ellinever70Woman 6 days ago

Ayrshire

I think that sex is more enjoyable when you get out of your own head and just enjoy all the feel good stuff that is happening rather than anything that isn't

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By *ildTimes.Man 6 days ago

Colchester/London

Yes of course and it's time for them to leave

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By *weetiepie99Woman 6 days ago

cardiff

Too much emphasis is put on cumming, like it's the holy grail of sex. That's crap, it takes two for good sex, the onus isn't on one person. If someone doesn't cum, it doesn't mean the other person is shit.

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By *aybeLadyWoman 6 days ago

West Dublin

I dont always cum. I enjoy the journey nonetheless.

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By (user no longer on site) 6 days ago

Yes.

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By *aitonelMan 6 days ago

Away for Christmas

"Yes. "

Try harder then

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By *eordieJeansCouple 6 days ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I’d always prefer to cum but it’s not the be all and end all. The best sex I ever had was when I was on prescription painkillers and couldn’t cum.

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By (user no longer on site) 6 days ago

"Yes.

Try harder then"

You try harder!

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple 6 days ago

Southampton

"Yes of course and it's time for them to leave "

So long as they're not " mid " women eh ??🤣

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By *aitonelMan 6 days ago

Away for Christmas

"Yes.

Try harder then

You try harder!"

I did! I was disappointed

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By *herrybakewellCouple 6 days ago

Staffordshire

It's never a given for me (Mr) with new people.

It certainly doesn't mean I've not enjoyed myself though.

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By *ildTimes.Man 6 days ago

Colchester/London

"Yes of course and it's time for them to leave

So long as they're not " mid " women eh ??🤣"

They wouldn't even be in my bed if they were 😂

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman 6 days ago

Essex

Cumming is awesome. Not essential though.

The pre-cumming waves though…. If I’m not getting those, I’m not meeting again.

Harsh - maybe.

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple 6 days ago

Swansea

I don't cum everytime I have sex but I still enjoy myself, and I don't feel frustrated after.

Mrs

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By *parkle1974Woman 6 days ago

Leeds

I don't need too to enjoy it x

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By *idssissyTV/TS 6 days ago

Birmingham

I rarely cum during kink or sex play and prefer not to. It's about others pleasure

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By *aughtylist DuoCouple 6 days ago

Kilmarnock

Tbh obviously I live when I cum, it feels good, but I'm more happy when my husband (or whoever lol) cums

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By *ags73Man 6 days ago

glasgow-ish

I’m happier seeing the woman come and if I do too, that’s great.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS 6 days ago

Transsexual Transylvania

No I don't. I get more of a kick out of making my partner orgasm.

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By *icecouple561Couple 6 days ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Yes it is a thing. I have to know someone very, very well to have an orgasm but I enjoy the whole erotic encounter none the less.

I concentrate on the journey rather than the destination.

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By *ad NannaWoman 6 days ago

East London

No, just kiss me lots with body contact, and I'll be fine.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS 6 days ago

chichester

I don’t need to if I am having anal sex as I just enjoy the body sensations

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman 6 days ago

Next Door

No, and not many can get me to cum.

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By *ularliWoman 6 days ago

Worcester

No I don’t need to cum, in fact I hardly ever cum.

I’m happy as long as I’ve had what I needed from the session

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman 6 days ago

Wherever

I very rarely cum anyway (aka never) and I prefer if they do, but without any pressure or set goal.

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By *midnight-Woman 6 days ago

...

I love sex, I love all the activities .... I don't need to cum to have a fantastic time

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By *ularliWoman 6 days ago

Worcester

"I very rarely cum anyway (aka never) and I prefer if they do, but without any pressure or set goal."

This is also me.

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By *iss DevilWoman 6 days ago

Bedford

I am lucky, I cum easily and anyone who struggles to make me cum is not going to get another invite.

I would love to get whoever I'm with to cum as it's a huge turn on. However, I do realise not everyone is as blessed as I am in the cuming department so as long as they enjoyed themselves, I'm happy.

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