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"How did you guys find out about fab?"
Ex tried to force me into it so once it ended I decided to venture into it on my own terms.
I'm not a swinger so once I find a reason to delete all this I'll be happy to leave it all behind as I have zero interest in sharing my partner, it's been a healthy way of discovering what I like and I've learnt so much from this lifestyle. |
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"When my husband told me he'd created an account on here for us and showed me hundreds of messages
Hot but could of backfired"
We'd already had an account on a rival website, so it wasn't a massive shock. Although he also created that account without telling me  |
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By *2teleMan 7 days ago
Stirlingshire |
"A friend told me about it whilst we were in a lecture, we then spent that lecture looking through. That was several years ago now
At Sydney University?
How did you know?  "
They're obsessed with Fab |
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I'm sure this question was asked a couple of days ago. 🤔
But anyway, this isn't my first profile, but this is how I found out about Fabs...
There used to be a popular site called Faceparty (may still exist), and a woman sent me a familiar-sounding message as if they already knew me.
It turned out that someone had stoIen my photos and was using one for their profile on here. 😧
Unbelievably, they were also meet-verified! 😳
I vaguely remember that I needed to join in order to report it, and I decided to stick around. 😂
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15 years ago when my first marriage was coming to end (because I'd married an asexual), a friend of mine tried to convince me to join. I didn't while I was still married, but once that was done I signed up and never looked back. I even met husband number 2 on here. |
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By *apio51Man 3 days ago
Edinburgh ish |
My ex partner and I were surfing porn and stuff and stumbled across a link or ad or something. Thought it looked pretty hot and created a profile, got photo verified, gold members etc. I wasn't too bothered about meeting women but I was hot for a MFM or watching her with another guy (she didn't want to play bi).
We had some fun messaging folks for a while, then she said she didn't want to be on here anymore. I was up for going to clubs and really getting into the scene, but something spooked her or *shrug* she never really said.
That was quite a few years ago now before the cosmo thing and the influx of new profiles (for good or bad). We split up a couple of years later for other reasons...but hey ho |
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Guy i was chatting to on tinder told me about it. I had been single for about 9 months, had meet a couple of guys on tinder but i had realised that i didn't acrually want a monogamous fwb, which was what inwas originally looking for. That and wanted to explore somme things i had never tired so he suggested here. And thay was that.
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Was in my early 20s, Had a mate like jay from the inbetweeners always chatting shit, he mentioned one day he’s been to a club where all the women walk round naked and you can shag them. We called bollocks and asked him to take us.
He duly did, and unbelievably there was indeed ladies, who walked around naked, and you could indeed shag them (was an old school greedy girls night, so literally just jump in, get the nod of the partner and have your way). Now being young handsome studs, we got our fill, multiple times that night.
Towards the end of the evening I was chatting to a couple, and I mentioned how this was my first time at a club, they introduced me to fab, and invited me and my mate (not the chat shit one) round to their house at the weekend.
From them I found my love for gangbangs, and 15 years later (been on and off when in relationships etc) I still use fab to find these amazing times. I’d say I’m addicted to them now. |
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When I was single and on dating sites I was chatting to a guy, he told me he leads an alternative sex life by having sex with couples. I was super intrigued and as we were discussing it I was busy creating my own profile. That was almost 12 years ago.
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My ex wife brought up swingers clubs. She used to go to one when she was 17 (she was 19 when we met). She was testing the waters with me about going. I think she really wanted to do it again. So naturally doing some research online fab is one of the first things back then that came up about swinging. I looked at the site and seen what it was about. Then put the whole thing on the back burner as we had our first child.
In the end we never got round to swinging together which was a really good thing. She turned out to be a woman that couldn't be trusted and this would have been a disaster in this lifestyle. I believe it would have gone terribly wrong. I hindsight I suspect she was looking for a way to sort of cheat rather than a way to explore our sexual desires within a secure relationship (if that makes sense).
BTW (as if it's not obvious) I have no objections to swinging. When I decided to divorce her I was a free individual again. I was rediscovering myself and what I wanted from life going forward. I wanted to explore the swinging and naturally I remembered Fab and came back to the site and created a profile. I had some great experiences as a single and a few new discoveries like clubs because of it. Most of all I met Mrs Misfit and discovered how awesome this lifestyle is shared in a secure and honest relationship. It's definitely helped our relationship and communication grow over the years and been such a positive aspect of our life as well as being a lot of fun. So glad I didn't explore this with my ex wife.
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Mr heard about it and joined many moons ago and can't really remember how he found it 🤭
Mrs is far easier though... March last year we were comparing the porn we both like, at which point Mr suggested if we ever wanted it to happen, he knew a site with like minded people 😉 showed her his profile and the number of local people 😅 totally nieve to it all, she was amazed! Within 24 hours we'd joined as a couple, been bombarded with messages but decided to dip our toes in further  Had a meet fairly early on and the rest as they say is history  still here, loving the lifestyle, discovering our likes and regularly enjoy meets and the occasional club visit. |
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