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Always been heterosexual I've been horny beyond able to get satisfied but almost anything. I cam shag till the entire room is satisfied but not me. So just had my first man. Fucked his arse and he cum all over himself. Still nothing for me. What's up |
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I still can't cum. All I'm doing is satisfying others which I do get pleasure from. Spent ten years making it women cum but I get no finish. Don't get me wrong I've loved every sexual encounter but why can't I cum |
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"I still can't cum. All I'm doing is satisfying others which I do get pleasure from. Spent ten years making it women cum but I get no finish. Don't get me wrong I've loved every sexual encounter but why can't I cum"
Sounds like a trip to the GP is in order |
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"I still can't cum. All I'm doing is satisfying others which I do get pleasure from. Spent ten years making it women cum but I get no finish. Don't get me wrong I've loved every sexual encounter but why can't I cum"
you compleated porn hub?
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"I still can't cum. All I'm doing is satisfying others which I do get pleasure from. Spent ten years making it women cum but I get no finish. Don't get me wrong I've loved every sexual encounter but why can't I cum"
Sounds like stress related mate went through a phase myself to much going on in life I was basically just a dildo in the bedroom “good for her”/them. |
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"Had full std check a month ago, I'm clear. This was first man. It's not that. I crave satisfying but why am I not getting my finish "
No, if you’ve stopped being able to orgasm that won’t be an std. it’s probably fine but definitely worth talking to a dr to make sure everything is ok |
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"Had full std check a month ago, I'm clear. This was first man. It's not that. I crave satisfying but why am I not getting my finish "
Only you can answer that. No one here is qualified to answer that so go get help or here’s an idea if you’re straight why are you having sex with men |
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"I still can't cum. All I'm doing is satisfying others which I do get pleasure from. Spent ten years making it women cum but I get no finish. Don't get me wrong I've loved every sexual encounter but why can't I cum"
There no love 💔. Sex to you is now a sport in your head make people cum. I was like this for a bit in the 90s. You need to relax and just enjoy the person your with. And let them enjoy you.. |
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"It doesn’t count unless you finish. You’ll have to go back and bum him again.
Love the response. Proper hilarious. Imagine it's a yes. Said so as left door "
Seriously though. Are you on any pain meds? I was prescribed some a few years back and couldn’t finish at all so had to come off them. |
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"Had full std check a month ago, I'm clear. This was first man. It's not that. I crave satisfying but why am I not getting my finish
Could it be that you're missing true intimacy?"
Nothing matches that but she's gone, no longer with us. Only sex left now. With passion and intimacy if I can find. I'll never love again though |
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Certain medical conditions can impact ejaculation. For instance, diabetes can affect nerve function, leading to difficulties with ejaculation. Neurological disorders, such as multiple sclerosis or spinal cord injuries, can also interfere with the nerves that control ejaculation. As others have said seek professional help from your GP. |
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"Had full std check a month ago, I'm clear. This was first man. It's not that. I crave satisfying but why am I not getting my finish
Could it be that you're missing true intimacy?"
Maybe but shut up she died. Laugh face after as nothing serious |
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"Had full std check a month ago, I'm clear. This was first man. It's not that. I crave satisfying but why am I not getting my finish "
Are you on any medication? Cause that can cause problems orgasming/ ejaculating |
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"Always been heterosexual I've been horny beyond able to get satisfied but almost anything. I cam shag till the entire room is satisfied but not me. So just had my first man. Fucked his arse and he cum all over himself. Still nothing for me. What's up "
"Just had" as in back in November?
I agree with those that have suggested that sex for sex's sake is perhaps the problem. Take a pause and some time for self care |
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Clearly you are not getting something from your encounters
Maybe take some time to think about what excites you. Are you able to cum on your own? Perhaps you to agree meeting the wrong type of people or maybe it's time to explore some kink related activities? |
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"Always been heterosexual I've been horny beyond able to get satisfied but almost anything. I cam shag till the entire room is satisfied but not me. So just had my first man. Fucked his arse and he cum all over himself. Still nothing for me. What's up "
You're a lost cause the only option is religion .
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By *aitonelMan 2 weeks ago
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"Always been heterosexual I've been horny beyond able to get satisfied but almost anything. I cam shag till the entire room is satisfied but not me. So just had my first man. Fucked his arse and he cum all over himself. Still nothing for me. What's up You're a lost cause the only option is religion ."
Probably best not to encourage those kinds of firsts! |
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"Always been heterosexual I've been horny beyond able to get satisfied but almost anything. I cam shag till the entire room is satisfied but not me. So just had my first man. Fucked his arse and he cum all over himself. Still nothing for me. What's up You're a lost cause the only option is religion .
Probably best not to encourage those kinds of firsts! "
Its an option though don't you think ? |
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TBF it sounds like a performance thing. You're that concentrated on making sure the other person cums, that you're neglecting yourself. Try a selfish fuck. One where the only thing that matters is your gratification. Sometimes me and my husband have those "I just need to cum" fucks where I tell him to be selfish |
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Thank you lovely fabbers. No religion is not an option. I'm pretty d*unk and shouldn't have posted. It's good I can please others. Does there need to be a selfish to it. Guess felt weird as still couldn't. For the valid questions about my verify. I experimented but couldn't do. Saw so many local beautiful couples looking for a bi that I tested what/if I could. Tonight I fucked a guy. Took a step way out of comfort zone. Also no dis,he was a decent person and all an encounter could want. Willing friendly and gave me anything. |
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"Thank you lovely fabbers. No religion is not an option. I'm pretty d*unk and shouldn't have posted. It's good I can please others. Does there need to be a selfish to it. Guess felt weird as still couldn't. For the valid questions about my verify. I experimented but couldn't do. Saw so many local beautiful couples looking for a bi that I tested what/if I could. Tonight I fucked a guy. Took a step way out of comfort zone. Also no dis,he was a decent person and all an encounter could want. Willing friendly and gave me anything. "
We all get to the point where too much sex becomes pointless you can't orgasm ,you Can't even get a hardon, a break is all you need get a girlfriend get some loving, get reason for wanting to have sex .
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"Thank you lovely fabbers. No religion is not an option. I'm pretty d*unk and shouldn't have posted. It's good I can please others. Does there need to be a selfish to it. Guess felt weird as still couldn't. For the valid questions about my verify. I experimented but couldn't do. Saw so many local beautiful couples looking for a bi that I tested what/if I could. Tonight I fucked a guy. Took a step way out of comfort zone. Also no dis,he was a decent person and all an encounter could want. Willing friendly and gave me anything. "
Take some time OP, to understand what excites you, and then consider how to make that happen xxx |
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"Likely a performance related anxiety.
Men worry about Cumming to soon, and also not at all.
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OK so kind can relate to this. You feel able but ignore it to make sure she's satisfied. And lovely ladies deserved want Moore and more but you cross that one time it ain't hamllening |
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Sounds like you need to take a break from it.
I would disengage from the sex, masturbating and porn for a little.
It's happened to me before now, sex starts in the head for me so I find it hard to orgasm without knowing someone a bit and having a good amount of chemistry.
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"Thanks all. I don't know. As far as he's concerned it was amazing. What does the i's and t's matter. Just moaning over nothing I guess. Thanks for reply. Mam up hey "
I hope you meant man up as mam up is a first you probably don’t want to do 🤣 |
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"Thanks all. I don't know. As far as he's concerned it was amazing. What does the i's and t's matter. Just moaning over nothing I guess. Thanks for reply. Mam up hey
I hope you meant man up as mam up is a first you probably don’t want to do 🤣"
Still got 130 replies to go yet Op. |
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"Thanks all. I don't know. As far as he's concerned it was amazing. What does the i's and t's matter. Just moaning over nothing I guess. Thanks for reply. Mam up hey
I hope you meant man up as mam up is a first you probably don’t want to do 🤣"
True. I got that one a little wrong 😆 |
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"Ah you loveky people. Even with the deserved jokes. Had the issue on anti depressants in the past but no not currently on them. Why the f did I post my first gay experience on fab 🤣  "
exactly may impact your meets significantly they may go up . |
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"Had full std check a month ago, I'm clear. This was first man. It's not that. I crave satisfying but why am I not getting my finish "
It could be because no one is satisfying you. You're the one doing all the work, in giving, yet never recieving and you could be in the wrong mind space. Never reaching a connection to the people your with.
Alternatively you might have Anhedonia
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anhedonia
Anhedonia is a condition in which you fail to derive pleasure. This can be applied to anything, but also sex. Tell me, when you cum, do you orgasm as well? Do you feel waves of plasure pulsing through you? A release of endorphines? Feeling of well being? Posisbly any leg shaking? If not, if you feel generally nothing when you cum, then you may have Anhedonia. I have it, and I hate it (or i would if i could).
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By *apio51Man 1 week ago
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Porn. Too much of it. I gave it up, mostly, about 10 years ago when I realised how much it was affecting my sex life. I still watch it very occasionally but I have a different approach to it now, mentally.
Porn is a well known cause of ED and DE (delayed ejaculation).
Give it up for 6 months and see where you are at. |
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