I have noticed since being on this site majority of people are not looking for single guys and tbh I’m sure we did it to ourselves and didn’t represent right unfortunately that ruins it for the real genuine ones who really are interested in the scene and it’s dynamic sometimes we are looking for out person to explore this lifestyle with … so this is my reach out to single ladies and couples I’d love to hear from you get in touch I’m from London I love to travel and I can accommodate I really do enjoy this lifestyle and I’m looking for my person to enjoy this with in the mean time feel free to reach out to me for socials/meets/ and at least see if I’m any different to the people that may have made you lose interest in single men .. feel free to comment or pm me or even correct me all responses are respected .. p.s sorry if my punctuation offends you x |
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You may find that the majority of those who aren't looking for single men were never looking for them so their behaviour is irrelevant.
Secondly you can can only ruin your own chances. Others have nothing to do with it.
If I felt that the actions of other men here had any effect on my experience I would accept that I was doing it totally wrong. |
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"You may find that the majority of those who aren't looking for single men were never looking for them so their behaviour is irrelevant.
Secondly you can can only ruin your own chances. Others have nothing to do with it.
If I felt that the actions of other men here had any effect on my experience I would accept that I was doing it totally wrong."
I meant just from reading profile and seeing statuses that the perception of a single male is already pre judged my experiences aren’t too affected but sometimes your rejected before you had a chance just because of what others have done also |
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If people want to meet single men, they’ll meet them - the ones who don’t behave like idiots, of which there are plenty. Many people do meet single men - because that’s what they’re into, not because they haven’t been put off. |
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By *abioMan 2 weeks ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
I was hoping this would be moved to a more appropriate section before someone else replied as to not hijack the intention of the post.. but since that’s not happening he is my 2p’s worth
A) like the person above said, how someone else approaches their swinging does not affect your progress.. you don’t determine mine as I do not affect yours.. we are not a monolith
B) just because they have put down not looking for single men, doesn’t mean that it the case!… it can slow down the amount of opportunistic mail they get, it also means they are in control over who they decide to contact
C) there are ways to differentiate yourself from others… that’s kinda what your profile is there to help, but running over big groups of people with general statements tends to be counterproductive
Oh, but I’m different from all those people…. We get it, I am sure you are…. Get one chance to make a great first impression.. does calling others negative do that? |
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Genuine single men are identified by various validation checks, such as the GenuineSingleTM database and the strip of metal that runs through their left side.
Couples and Single Feemales not using the genuine single men database are at risk of potentially engaging the service of a fake single man, with all the associated risks.
Don't be a tart, be SingleSmart. |
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"I have noticed since being on this site majority of people are not looking for single guys and tbh I’m sure we did it to ourselves and didn’t represent right unfortunately that ruins it for the real genuine ones who really are interested in the scene and it’s dynamic sometimes we are looking for out person to explore this lifestyle with … so this is my reach out to single ladies and couples I’d love to hear from you get in touch I’m from London I love to travel and I can accommodate I really do enjoy this lifestyle and I’m looking for my person to enjoy this with in the mean time feel free to reach out to me for socials/meets/ and at least see if I’m any different to the people that may have made you lose interest in single men .. feel free to comment or pm me or even correct me all responses are respected .. p.s sorry if my punctuation offends you x"
Please tell us about the first photo in your gallery! |
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"I was hoping this would be moved to a more appropriate section before someone else replied as to not hijack the intention of the post.. but since that’s not happening he is my 2p’s worth
A) like the person above said, how someone else approaches their swinging does not affect your progress.. you don’t determine mine as I do not affect yours.. we are not a monolith
B) just because they have put down not looking for single men, doesn’t mean that it the case!… it can slow down the amount of opportunistic mail they get, it also means they are in control over who they decide to contact
C) there are ways to differentiate yourself from others… that’s kinda what your profile is there to help, but running over big groups of people with general statements tends to be counterproductive
Oh, but I’m different from all those people…. We get it, I am sure you are…. Get one chance to make a great first impression.. does calling others negative do that? "
ok I see your point the not looking for single guys thing is definitely a preference and sometimes it is changed because there view has changed my point is I see many people upset with e behaviour of these silly men who then have a domino effect on others also your other points I agree with too |
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"I have noticed since being on this site majority of people are not looking for single guys and tbh I’m sure we did it to ourselves and didn’t represent right unfortunately that ruins it for the real genuine ones who really are interested in the scene and it’s dynamic sometimes we are looking for out person to explore this lifestyle with … so this is my reach out to single ladies and couples I’d love to hear from you get in touch I’m from London I love to travel and I can accommodate I really do enjoy this lifestyle and I’m looking for my person to enjoy this with in the mean time feel free to reach out to me for socials/meets/ and at least see if I’m any different to the people that may have made you lose interest in single men .. feel free to comment or pm me or even correct me all responses are respected .. p.s sorry if my punctuation offends you x
Please tell us about the first photo in your gallery! "
on my birthday penthouse ontop of a hotel in front of Westminster crown plaza hotel |
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By *WANDTGCouple 2 weeks ago
Borough of Greenwich |
When I was growing up I always thought "swinging" was about couples, you know, house parties and chucking the keys into a bowl etc
Obviously there is a place for a third person if that it your preference.
But we came on here to find couples, so when single men hit on us we will explain our preference and if our taste changes in the future we may get back to them. Some men get arsey and start to try and sway us , some get coarse and vulgar and some are polite and accept it. We will reply to everyone so in respect give everyone a chance. I mean , some single men have been put on our hotlist for future interest. |
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Reality is lots of men on here, both single through to the classic being very bad and posting wifes pic without permission.
Complaining is never an attractive trait.
So get on with life away from here and just get yourself to the odd party for a fun night out. In the mean time enjoy some banter among the blokes. |
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"When I was growing up I always thought "swinging" was about couples, you know, house parties and chucking the keys into a bowl etc
Obviously there is a place for a third person if that it your preference.
But we came on here to find couples, so when single men hit on us we will explain our preference and if our taste changes in the future we may get back to them. Some men get arsey and start to try and sway us , some get coarse and vulgar and some are polite and accept it. We will reply to everyone so in respect give everyone a chance. I mean , some single men have been put on our hotlist for future interest. "
this I hear a lot men complaining or becoming rude and disrespectful when rejected this is the worst way to be such a shame |
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"Reality is lots of men on here, both single through to the classic being very bad and posting wifes pic without permission.
Complaining is never an attractive trait.
So get on with life away from here and just get yourself to the odd party for a fun night out. In the mean time enjoy some banter among the blokes."
never complaining I’m just trying to understand from other couples and ladies what contributes to this relationship that’s all I’m good over here I just want to learn and understand that’s all don’t shoot ! Lol |
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We've not been here long, but quickly learned to use message filters. It's a lot easier (imo) to find the genuine people this way. I think that's why a lot of profiles say they'll find you etc.
From our experience so far, and one of a (single F) friend who recently joined, the messages are relentless. There's no way she'd have the time or motivation to go through them all. |
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"Genuine single men are identified by various validation checks, such as the GenuineSingleTM database and the strip of metal that runs through their left side.
Couples and Single Feemales not using the genuine single men database are at risk of potentially engaging the service of a fake single man, with all the associated risks.
Don't be a tart, be SingleSmart."
FakeSingleMen ™️ dispute these findings  |
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