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Where are all the male pics from couples
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"We sort of have a 2 to 1 ratio in favour of the female side. Some on friends only though. But we agree, we both like to see a few pics of both ( not just their dick pics either )"
We think that it's so important to be able to see something of the gent, again not just their cocks |
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"I like posting pics of myself because I'm a bit of an exhibitionist. But, if you scroll, there ARE a variety of pics of him too. There's just more of me. "
We get that, there's are considerably more men than women/ couples in here and therfore you have to appeal to the masses, however women deserve their candy as well lol |
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"Clearly J is far easier on the eye than me, but I think we've probably got About an equal amount of each of us.
B
That’s exactly my thoughts. Mrs I is the appealing one "
Regardless of who you feel is more appealing surely if you're trying to attract couples you both must be appealing, however if there are very few pics of mr you're taking away that possibility |
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It is by far the most galling thing about Fab for us. How can a couple with a man who wants to be involved think it's a good idea not to show him? They seem to think attraction to him isn't relevant. It makes no sense, yet it's the norm not to show the man. It's not even that some don't. It really is the vast majority of couples. |
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Older couples generally have a sexy woman and if you saw them out and about you'd think why the hell is she with him (obviously not all)That would possibly be the reasoning behind the lack of Male pics on profiles . |
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"Why when we go to check out a couple are we bombarded with 100 pics of mrs and 4 of Mr if we're lucky, it's fantastic for R but N likes to see what is being bought to the table for her to enjoy"
We find the same issues, but then given that most messages are addressed to me (mrs), even from the women on here (and even from couples), mr does find it all rather 1 sided what everyone is looking for, basically the female element. Finding it very hard to find straight swaps because of this. Only meets we've had in the past (old profile) have been with occasional single males looking for me because of this.
Personally I think guys in a couple can be treated just as bad as single guys on here at times.
Also seems to be harder because we're both straight! |
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By *hismMan 2 weeks ago
Ballygonowhere |
"Why when we go to check out a couple are we bombarded with 100 pics of mrs and 4 of Mr if we're lucky, it's fantastic for R but N likes to see what is being bought to the table for her to enjoy"
Perhaps when putting together their own profile they didn't consider what you are looking for?
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"Why when we go to check out a couple are we bombarded with 100 pics of mrs and 4 of Mr if we're lucky, it's fantastic for R but N likes to see what is being bought to the table for her to enjoy
Perhaps when putting together their own profile they didn't consider what you are looking for?
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That's absolutely fine with us, they aren't for us then, we prefer meets with people who are going to be considerate of our needs and not just theirs.
Maybe we should just avoid any profile where is all just the female in pics?! |
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"Why when we go to check out a couple are we bombarded with 100 pics of mrs and 4 of Mr if we're lucky, it's fantastic for R but N likes to see what is being bought to the table for her to enjoy"
We have pics of both of us, feel free to perv  |
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"Why when we go to check out a couple are we bombarded with 100 pics of mrs and 4 of Mr if we're lucky, it's fantastic for R but N likes to see what is being bought to the table for her to enjoy
We have pics of both of us, feel free to perv "
You guys look cute af |
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"Why when we go to check out a couple are we bombarded with 100 pics of mrs and 4 of Mr if we're lucky, it's fantastic for R but N likes to see what is being bought to the table for her to enjoy
We have pics of both of us, feel free to perv
You guys look cute af"
Well now you're making us blush xx  |
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"I just assume the mans ugly and move on.
It is rather annoying.
Mrs "
I (mr) love your pics. I take most if not all of ours and I do not do N any justice hahah. Maybe have to find a erotic photographer soon |
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"I just assume the mans ugly and move on.
It is rather annoying.
Mrs
I (mr) love your pics. I take most if not all of ours and I do not do N any justice hahah. Maybe have to find a erotic photographer soon"
Thank you, we just use a tripod and Bluetooth clicker, easy way to get pics together.
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"I just assume the mans ugly and move on.
It is rather annoying.
Mrs
I (mr) love your pics. I take most if not all of ours and I do not do N any justice hahah. Maybe have to find a erotic photographer soon
Thank you, we just use a tripod and Bluetooth clicker, easy way to get pics together.
Mrs "
Rubik's takes our pics or if we're looking for pics together we do a video then screenshot from the video |
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By *eyeYCouple 2 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
Think we are both represented sufficiently in our profile and another vote for a remote selfie stick/tripod! Not expensive people, so there's little excuse.
But to OPs point, if 'he's' not going to be meeting fair enough (and that does include being present).
Otherwise an annoying fact here, my first question to D when someone contacts us is always "any pictures of him?!" 🤷🤦 Mrs x
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By *eyeYCouple 2 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
"Yeah just looked through a passive-aggressive profile of a couple who have messaged and the only pics of the guy is his hand(s) or cock mostly or around her minge "
That!!
Yeah, of course you're going to recognise him on meeting.. 🤦🤣 |
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"Think we are both represented sufficiently in our profile and another vote for a remote selfie stick/tripod! Not expensive people, so there's little excuse.
But to OPs point, if 'he's' not going to be meeting fair enough (and that does include being present).
Otherwise an annoying fact here, my first question to D when someone contacts us is always "any pictures of him?!" 🤷🤦 Mrs x
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That's almost always N's question lol |
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By *hismMan 2 weeks ago
Ballygonowhere |
"Why when we go to check out a couple are we bombarded with 100 pics of mrs and 4 of Mr if we're lucky, it's fantastic for R but N likes to see what is being bought to the table for her to enjoy
Perhaps when putting together their own profile they didn't consider what you are looking for?
That's absolutely fine with us, they aren't for us then, we prefer meets with people who are going to be considerate of our needs and not just theirs.
Maybe we should just avoid any profile where is all just the female in pics?!"
Great idea,you'll find life much more enjoyable |
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"Why when we go to check out a couple are we bombarded with 100 pics of mrs and 4 of Mr if we're lucky, it's fantastic for R but N likes to see what is being bought to the table for her to enjoy"
Anita always grumbles about this too. I would guess that blokes feel that nobody appreciates their pics so they don't bother.
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By *eyeYCouple 2 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
"Why when we go to check out a couple are we bombarded with 100 pics of mrs and 4 of Mr if we're lucky, it's fantastic for R but N likes to see what is being bought to the table for her to enjoy
Anita always grumbles about this too. I would guess that blokes feel that nobody appreciates their pics so they don't bother.
Cal"
Frankly that's a very fair point, on average pictures of D get half the Fab's as those of me, with the majority being from guy's, CD's, TV/TS's.. No shaming, but also not what we're looking for..
It's quite understandable how guys who aren't your Chippendale esq physique would question making the effort..
If we Fab any couples we make a conscious effort to do so in pictures of both parties, but... Brings us back to the main point... 🤣😉 |
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"Haven't trawled through all of this thread.
Why on earth do you want to see photo's of the male unless you are Bi/Gay? "
Do you not think the woman of the couple might like to know who they’re potentially playing with? |
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I suppose it depends what you're looking for.
We're mainly looking for single guys, and they don't seem very interested in what my Mr looks like lol 
If we were looking for couples then we'd have to add more of him |
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I want to see pictures of both parties, if I'm going to play with you both.
Messages get deleted if profile is just of the female and/or a cock picture of the gent. I would like to see more of the male |
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As a straight couple we find most profiles that look at us seem to be either single guys or bi fem couples who seem to only want to play with Mrs anyway. They don’t seem to care about Mr.
We have a pic of Mr for the very occasional straight couple who might look. No single girl would ever meet us anyway so that’s one target we’re not looking to hit. |
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"Plenty on ours. We both love to be seen and always find it a bit of a red flag if a couples profile only has 1 terrible picture of the male half......we like to see both"
This for us as well. We like to have a good balance of pictures showing ourselves individually and together |
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"Haven't trawled through all of this thread.
Why on earth do you want to see photo's of the male unless you are Bi/Gay?
Do you not think the woman of the couple might like to know who they’re potentially playing with? "
Ah yes, I didn't think this through!
We are only looking for a straight male to play with the Wife, hence no pics of me as not necessary.
Apologies for not thinking it through
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"Haven't trawled through all of this thread.
Why on earth do you want to see photo's of the male unless you are Bi/Gay?
Do you not think the woman of the couple might like to know who they’re potentially playing with?
Ah yes, I didn't think this through!
We are only looking for a straight male to play with the Wife, hence no pics of me as not necessary.
Apologies for not thinking it through
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Easy to forget how many different ways there are of doing this thing 🙂 |
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"Haven't trawled through all of this thread.
Why on earth do you want to see photo's of the male unless you are Bi/Gay? "
Not the male wanting to see males. But my partner, is the one seeking more a male attention, I thought that was quite clear in the thread, my apologies. |
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I am well aware that I am not oil painting, however I love the skin I'm in, and love this lifestyle so why wouldn't there be pics of me on a couples proplfile I'm a part of. Yes I get some guys don't play. Or are even really involved but mainly for the fabmin and that's cool, but for us a straight couple we both have to see both parties.
I absolutely agree N looks so.mich better hence more pics but we like to.thinknwe do a have a few decent pics of me as well lol |
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