"My new sub has disappointed me the past few days.
Other than spanking his bum, ideas on how I punish him sexually?  "
if they have disappointed you why would you be giving them any attention.
However depending on how they have... perhaps a conversation needs to be had |
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"I feel he needs some form of sexual punishment, before the silent treatment."
Nah.
If you reward disappointing behaviour with play then they'll keep disappointing you.
If it's a bratty kind of dynamic and you like them behaving that way, then you're not disappointed, and what you're looking to give isn't actually a punishment, just a part of play.
Disappointment to me is something that shouldn't be encouraged 💜 |
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Depends on what you and your sub have agreed. Some above have said silent treatment which is a massive no no for me, and is one of my boundaries. So it very much varies from person to person.
Find it's better to have discussions with your sub, make sure they know what is expected of them and what the consequences are of non compliance. Makes life a heck of a lot easier when everyone understands the rules. |
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"Tie him up, let him think he’s getting some action, put deep heat down his pants & send him home"
If thats the punishment for disapointment definately never want to make you angry 😮 |
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"Depends on what you and your sub have agreed. Some above have said silent treatment which is a massive no no for me, and is one of my boundaries. So it very much varies from person to person.
Find it's better to have discussions with your sub, make sure they know what is expected of them and what the consequences are of non compliance. Makes life a heck of a lot easier when everyone understands the rules. "
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What are your agreed limits? Punishments need to be outlined beforehand.
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Cage him, make him wear a strapon and you can fuck the strapon
Use a dildo gag and have him fuck you
Tie him to a chair and make him watch you
Next time you meet tease the fuck out of him but don’t allow him to climax at all
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