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A couples profile should contain the female and the male, not just all pictures of the female.
So many profiles don’t bother with the male pics. But if we are looking for a couple to have fun with, we need to see both partners.
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"A couples profile should contain the female and the male, not just all pictures of the female.
So many profiles don’t bother with the male pics. But if we are looking for a couple to have fun with, we need to see both partners.
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Your pics are all stunning |
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"A couples profile should contain the female and the male, not just all pictures of the female.
So many profiles don’t bother with the male pics. But if we are looking for a couple to have fun with, we need to see both partners.
Your pics are all stunning"
Thanks
Looking good yourself!
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Yes this bugs me like I'm supposed to know if I'm attracted to the invisible man or a close up cock.
I don't look to meet couples anymore, getting a pic of the guy can be like pulling teeth.
I just assume he's ugly.
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There's no should about it, they can do what they want with their profile within the rules.
If there are no pictures of the guy we just assume he's not interested and we're therefore not compatible.
Treat it as a filter. |
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"A couples profile should contain the female and the male, not just all pictures of the female.
So many profiles don’t bother with the male pics. But if we are looking for a couple to have fun with, we need to see both partners.
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You both look great. 😊 |
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"A couples profile should contain the female and the male, not just all pictures of the female.
So many profiles don’t bother with the male pics. But if we are looking for a couple to have fun with, we need to see both partners.
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Agreed couples accounts should have both |
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"For me as the male, lots of sexy female pics to see. But my girlfriend sees nothing of the man, so it’s useless as a couples profile."
Not if it's working for them.
I get really annoyed if a couple contact us with a view to meeting and I can't see a clear picture of the guy. We did meet one or two couples who were reluctant to show the man clearly. Every time it turned out he was either just doing it to please his wife or just wanted to watch his wife with another man. This left me on the sidelines. Hence we just stay away from those profiles.
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"For me as the male, lots of sexy female pics to see. But my girlfriend sees nothing of the man, so it’s useless as a couples profile.
Not if it's working for them.
I get really annoyed if a couple contact us with a view to meeting and I can't see a clear picture of the guy. We did meet one or two couples who were reluctant to show the man clearly. Every time it turned out he was either just doing it to please his wife or just wanted to watch his wife with another man. This left me on the sidelines. Hence we just stay away from those profiles.
Believe what people show you by their actions. "
Yes, you are right.
If he’s not shown, there is normally a reason.
And not a good one. |
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"Yes this bugs me like I'm supposed to know if I'm attracted to the invisible man or a close up cock.
I don't look to meet couples anymore, getting a pic of the guy can be like pulling teeth.
I just assume he's ugly.
Mrs "
Exactly how we feel
So we mostly go to clubs and see who’s there.
Nice profile guys
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By *bi HaiveMan 8 weeks ago
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"They should make it a rule, that couples need to show both partners on the profile.
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The only rule is that people can post what they wish within the rules.
There are plenty of singles profiles where there's either no photos or just random body parts, giving no idea of what someone's physique is, long before you start worrying about face photos.
There are many profiles where there seems to be more shown of who they've met than themselves.
There are couples profiles where there's more of one than another, and many that for some reason have none showing them in the same photo.
People do what people do.
It's much easier to just ignore those profiles and concentrate on those that do show you enough to make a judgement call on, than to try and work out why they choose to hide things. Plus there are plenty where you can see what you want/need to. |
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I agree, if they're both looking to play ie meeting other couples /women.
If only she plays, I can see why they don't show him.
I'm half a couple & straight and this has been frustrating me for years.
We just use it as a filter now, if we get a wink or message from a profile with only pics of the woman, we delete.
Past experience has shown it's never easy to get a pic of the man, so why would we bother when there are profiles which do show plenty of pics of both people. |
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"There's no should about it, they can do what they want with their profile within the rules.
If there are no pictures of the guy we just assume he's not interested and we're therefore not compatible.
Treat it as a filter. "
Agree with this. We aren't looking for couples so our pics are all of me (Dee). |
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"We hate that.
We have a mix of both on ours, but more of me, as Mr is usually behind the camera "
There are definitely more photos of K on our profile, because she’s more photogenic than I am 
Plus more people want to see her than me! But we make sure there are enough of me to at least make sure there is a physical attraction before we try to take it further.
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Slightly guilty here. There are pictures of Mr KC if you scroll back. But I do like posting random pictures of myself for exhibitionist purposes and so yes, there are more of me. We're not looking to meet anyone new right now and if we did strike up a conversation with a couple, we would be happy to PM other pictures etc. |
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"As mentioned before, we use it as another filter.
You often see the reason for one-sided profiles in clubs!   "
Yes, I guess, in the end just search for balanced profiles, although there are not enough of them. |
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"The problem with that is , you don't have to produce any pictures at all if you don't want to. But both parties should be at least photo verified by Admin in the same pic."
If photo verified they have to both be in pic!!!!  |
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"A couples profile should contain the female and the male, not just all pictures of the female.
So many profiles don’t bother with the male pics. But if we are looking for a couple to have fun with, we need to see both partners.
A fair point well made...
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"Slightly guilty here. There are pictures of Mr KC if you scroll back. But I do like posting random pictures of myself for exhibitionist purposes and so yes, there are more of me. We're not looking to meet anyone new right now and if we did strike up a conversation with a couple, we would be happy to PM other pictures etc. "
We are exactly the same, both on profile pic and other pics available! Often wonder why folks feel the need to say how others should run their profile anyway!  |
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To be fair we have more female pics than male pics. We only have one pic of hubby on his own as we think you should atleast know what his physique is like. A couple of sexual pics with hubby in but the majority of pics with both of us and face pics are all under our friends only pics as he doesn't want loads on here and due to work etc and being very popular in the local area also this is only a small part of our lives its understandable. But 100% agree there should atleast be a few nice pics of the male half so everyone knows what they are getting themselves in to. |
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This is so true. It is the bane of our lives on Fab.
It's not just that a lot of couples don't show the man. It's that it's the norm. The vast majority of couples do not show the man.
I can only conclude that they don't think that attraction to the man is a relevant consideration. In some cases, where the man is not going to be involved, attraction isn't the point, but I still think it's polite to show him if he's actually going to be there!
But where he's actually looking at being involved, how is it sensible or helpful to just leave him out as if he doesn't exist and no attraction to him is necessary?!!
It makes it so hard to find couples. We're not going to message a bunch of couples asking for pics of the man on the off-chance they would send one and on the off-chance Hannah would like the look of him.
It drives us up the wall.
People can run their profiles however they want, but how is it a good idea to not to show the man? How will it help them find interested parties?
I'd like there to be a recommendation by the site for couples to show both when people sign up. I'd also like there to be the ability in Advanced Search to only bring up couples with both of them in their gallery. The fact images are tagged so it is perfectly possible. |
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Yeah I've noticed too, when I was on here a while ago with my ex. We had an equal share of pictures. I'm not sure why couples only post the female half? Is it because of the ratio of single guys? Click bait? Who knows. |
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"Yeah I've noticed too, when I was on here a while ago with my ex. We had an equal share of pictures. I'm not sure why couples only post the female half? Is it because of the ratio of single guys? Click bait? Who knows. "
I think it's because they don't consider attraction to the man relevant. Why is beyond me, but I can't think of any other reason. |
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"This is so true. It is the bane of our lives on Fab.
It's not just that a lot of couples don't show the man. It's that it's the norm. The vast majority of couples do not show the man.
I can only conclude that they don't think that attraction to the man is a relevant consideration. In some cases, where the man is not going to be involved, attraction isn't the point, but I still think it's polite to show him if he's actually going to be there!
But where he's actually looking at being involved, how is it sensible or helpful to just leave him out as if he doesn't exist and no attraction to him is necessary?!!
It makes it so hard to find couples. We're not going to message a bunch of couples asking for pics of the man on the off-chance they would send one and on the off-chance Hannah would like the look of him.
It drives us up the wall.
People can run their profiles however they want, but how is it a good idea to not to show the man? How will it help them find interested parties?
I'd like there to be a recommendation by the site for couples to show both when people sign up. I'd also like there to be the ability in Advanced Search to only bring up couples with both of them in their gallery. The fact images are tagged so it is perfectly possible. "
Great explanation of all the points.
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By *zChiefWoman 8 weeks ago
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Our couples profile is guilty of this but i emsured it is signposted to his solo profile for pics. But as we dont really play as a couple i dont think it makes too much of a difference. I guess everyones dynamic is different and so the profile emphasis will be. |
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By *ony MannMan 8 weeks ago
Lagos, Portugal/ Ilfracombe Devon/ Anoover |
"For a couples profile, there have to be both people present for photo verification. However, who is to know if the two people photographed are indeed the people behind the profile? Impossible."
Verification pics also need a bit of paper and its easy to see if photoshop has been used, but not everyone confirms their account by pic |
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By *ORBCouple 8 weeks ago
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Why should there be specific rules regarding pics?
We have pics of both of us but I don't agree that it should be mandatory because not every couple is looking to meet other couples or single women.
Some couples are only interested in meeting single men so they don't bother posting pics of the male half.
Are we going to start giving everyone instructions on what they should have on their own profile or would it not just be easier to move on to a profile that ticks all your boxes? |
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We have a mixture of both - yes, mostly body shots of either of us naked. Majority of face pictures and images of us together are friends only. There's enough public videos of us engaged in sex to see what we both look like.
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"Why should there be specific rules regarding pics?
We have pics of both of us but I don't agree that it should be mandatory because not every couple is looking to meet other couples or single women.
Some couples are only interested in meeting single men so they don't bother posting pics of the male half.
Are we going to start giving everyone instructions on what they should have on their own profile or would it not just be easier to move on to a profile that ticks all your boxes? "
This is a good point when looking for guys.
But when couples are looking for other couples, there needs to be both on there. |
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By *zChiefWoman 8 weeks ago
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"Why should there be specific rules regarding pics?
We have pics of both of us but I don't agree that it should be mandatory because not every couple is looking to meet other couples or single women.
Some couples are only interested in meeting single men so they don't bother posting pics of the male half.
Are we going to start giving everyone instructions on what they should have on their own profile or would it not just be easier to move on to a profile that ticks all your boxes? "
This is a far more eloquent way of putting what i tried to ! Thanks |
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By *hirleyMan 8 weeks ago
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Our couples profile only has and will have, ones where we are in the shot together.
Each to their own, I get why some couples may have a bias due the sexual dynamic they portray etc. but it's not for me that, I think we like something as its both of us for the same reasons. Whereas I'm sure mine/our approach of thought will almost certainly not be received well by other couples  |
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"Why should there be specific rules regarding pics?
We have pics of both of us but I don't agree that it should be mandatory because not every couple is looking to meet other couples or single women.
Some couples are only interested in meeting single men so they don't bother posting pics of the male half.
Are we going to start giving everyone instructions on what they should have on their own profile or would it not just be easier to move on to a profile that ticks all your boxes? "
It's a question of what the site is for. If the man in a couple is not going to be involved in a meet or a couple is not planning on meeting anybody, fine, don't show him.
If a couple is hoping the man will get to have sex with somebody through this site, then how does it make sense not to show him? In a site where physical attraction is a key part of what it's there for, what kind of insanity is it to decide not to show one of the people you would need to be physically attracted to?
I don't want to make it mandatory, but I do at least want the site to point out that it's a good idea to show both and to allow searchers to filter out couples that don't. Just the filter option would encourage couples to put both in their gallery so they are not left out. |
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