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By (user no longer on site) OP 8 weeks ago
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Whilst I wouldn't wish it on anyone, and the resulting break up was one of the most difficult things I've had to get through, now that I'm on the other side I find myself ruminating over some of the aspects that are actually quite a turn on.
Ironically, had she been open about wanting other men I think I'd have enjoyed a hotwife set up (although the infidelity was just the final nail so it would ultimately have ended badly anyway).
As I look back though:
Watching her get ready for her date not knowing that I knew what she was actually doing
The nervous tension whilst she was getting up to her shenanigans and imagining it all
Coming home late and getting frisky, probably to help her with her guilt
Bumping into one of the guys she was fucking in town and me making a point of chatting to him knowing they both felt awkward
And eventually catching her and watching the act...
Somehow, as I look back with rose-tinted glasses, all very much giving me the horn. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 8 weeks ago
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"I don’t quite get the point of the post.
But cool story.
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Just my musings and if they resonate then great. If not, then great. There's something quite cathartic about getting thoughts out of your head I find. |
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"Whilst I wouldn't wish it on anyone, and the resulting break up was one of the most difficult things I've had to get through, now that I'm on the other side I find myself ruminating over some of the aspects that are actually quite a turn on.
Ironically, had she been open about wanting other men I think I'd have enjoyed a hotwife set up (although the infidelity was just the final nail so it would ultimately have ended badly anyway).
As I look back though:
Watching her get ready for her date not knowing that I knew what she was actually doing
The nervous tension whilst she was getting up to her shenanigans and imagining it all
Coming home late and getting frisky, probably to help her with her guilt
Bumping into one of the guys she was fucking in town and me making a point of chatting to him knowing they both felt awkward
And eventually catching her and watching the act...
Somehow, as I look back with rose-tinted glasses, all very much giving me the horn."
Ah, RTG was to blame. I see. 😂 |
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By (user no longer on site) 2 weeks ago
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My wife cheated some years ago we didn’t split and stayed together. Both realized we would like to explore other people we have been together since our late teens.
That was our reason to enjoy the lifestyle |
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