When someone leaves fab or any other social media you may have them on and you have contact with them outside of it, such as a number or a different form of chat app, do you check in with them or do you respect that if they want to talk they will reach out to you? |
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I’d check in, if we are chatting off site then I’d just let them know I’d noticed they’d left and make sure they’re ok. If they don’t reply or ask to be left alone I’d not push anything and respect their wishes. |
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"I’d check in, if we are chatting off site then I’d just let them know I’d noticed they’d left and make sure they’re ok. If they don’t reply or ask to be left alone I’d not push anything and respect their wishes. "
Exactly that. Nice to see kind people like you |
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In most (nearly all) circumstances I leave them alone. If I was aware of their fragility or anything about them that would cause concern I would consider messaging to enquire about their wellbeing.
Otherwise I would only absolutely keep in touch if they had shared their contact details, be it a phone number or perhaps their Telegram ID etc. |
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By *ornycougaWoman 9 weeks ago
MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat |
If they left to start a relationship I would leave it to them to make contact with me first if they wanted to continue the friendship.
If they left for other reasons, I would apologise for the intrusion but would want to check that they were OK. |
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By *ir tootMan 9 weeks ago
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"I’d check in, if we are chatting off site then I’d just let them know I’d noticed they’d left and make sure they’re ok. If they don’t reply or ask to be left alone I’d not push anything and respect their wishes. "
Please don't fall down to the underdark or get swallowed by a tarrasque I wouldn't know what to do or say. 😭 |
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