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By *ed cj OP Man
over a year ago
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OK I don't claim to be Bi, but I have met with genuine couples where they guy plays along and the lady is part of the fun, does this make me bi?
Ive seen lots of couples looking for a bi guy, is this simply secret code for gay? Ive no problem with that but common be honest guys.
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Here's my 2pence
I am bisexual, I will give and receive oral etc..to/from women as a 1 on 1 or in 3somes/groups. There are a lot of bicurious ladies and the way in understand it is; wants to find out what its all about...I've been there. Because I also like men, I am NOT gay x
As for what bi means for men..I really could not comment. |
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over a year ago
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it's a sliding scale from completely heterosexual to completely gay. everyone has things they will or will not do. The amount of "straight" guys that message me on here is unbelievable so i think there are probably more guys out there that think about doing stuff with other guys than you would ever know. Try not to analyse it too much and just do what makes you happy would be my advice.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OK I don't claim to be Bi, but I have met with genuine couples where they guy plays along and the lady is part of the fun, does this make me bi?
Ive seen lots of couples looking for a bi guy, is this simply secret code for gay? Ive no problem with that but common be honest guys.
Discuss while I head for cover "
Your profile says you are straight, your posting says you are bi?
Straight only likes opposite sex, sex
Gay only likes same sex, sex
Bi plays with both sexes.
That bit's simple, the hard part is defining how bi is bi... |
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"I like to think I am just open minded, and go with the flow, I don't want to attract guys for one on one meets which is why I don't say bi on my profile. Is that wrong?"
Only playing with guys in a group situation does not mean your not bi, I wouldn't meet a woman 1 on 1, I don't even do FFM as even that's to much female contact for me, I will only play with women in a group situation, I have on my profile i'm only looking for men but i still listed myself as bi, because I will play with women when the fancy takes me so to me that makes me bi |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is this
"lets see how many posts we can reply to about Bi's" day lol
Being bi is nothing to ashamed about - its our body's and as long as we play safe, we should be able to enjoy our experiences  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm bi selfish lol (miss d)"
im the other way round I will only give oral to women, I wouldnt let women give to me, I don't like receiving from women but I do like giving, which is why I only play with women in a group situation, as when ive finished I don't want them touching me I want to go find a man and you couldn't do that with a couple you couldn't tell his wife to go away now while I fuck your man lol |
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"I like to think I am just open minded, and go with the flow, I don't want to attract guys for one on one meets which is why I don't say bi on my profile. Is that wrong?"
From the forum, there are lots of posts on bi guys posing as straight, the consensus appears to be there are not enough sub-divisions, suggestions are
bi Curious = not sure yet, may or may not have tried it.
bi selfish = will receive but not give
bi playful = never one on one but in a group anything goes with either sex.
bi sexual = will actively encourage same sex fun.
Think it is still an incomplete list, perhaps it needs a percentage indicator to back up the label |
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labels are slightly restrictive and sometimes don't fit. thats why we make new labels because we all like the feeling of conforming one way or another.
I know straight men who would happily have a blowjob off another chap. they usually watch straight porn or part of a group play (club meets)
do they find the other man attractive. NO. do they label themselves bi? NO. do i agree with them saying they are straight yes. as far as gay bi and straight labels go it is my understanding they were "made" to file peoples feelings towards each other.
Having a sucky off another man with no attraction involved is like fucking a masturbation sleeve or a doll. There isnt a label for that scenario and there is my exact argument with labels
that is my 2 pence worth lol |
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"Think it is still an incomplete list, perhaps it needs a percentage indicator to back up the label "
Something like the Kinsey Scale perhaps? Though that defines sexuality based on Behavior not what you're attracted to, which would put all those 'straight' guys who play with TVs firmly in the bi column |
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"I like to think I am just open minded, and go with the flow, I don't want to attract guys for one on one meets which is why I don't say bi on my profile. Is that wrong?
From the forum, there are lots of posts on bi guys posing as straight, the consensus appears to be there are not enough sub-divisions, suggestions are
bi Curious = not sure yet, may or may not have tried it.
bi selfish = will receive but not give
bi playful = never one on one but in a group anything goes with either sex.
bi sexual = will actively encourage same sex fun.
Think it is still an incomplete list, perhaps it needs a percentage indicator to back up the label "
think bi selfish is a bit harsh. plenty of men out there who are happy give themselves (usually taking a length) and not want anything in return. they enjoy being "used" though you can't be used if that is what you are after. being used is turning up for a meet shooting your load during foreplay and saying cheers and going after promises of more
if mr wants to do anal but mrs is she doesnt. is she selfish for not giving?or is it ok because they both agree to do only things they both enjoy? pretty much the same as men who happy to suckand have nothing back..... |
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