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Thanks for your openness, appreciated. I am still struggling to see how your sexless marriage works for you considering you're on here seeking sex.
I am not trying to catch you out, I just don't fully understand your OP.
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By *usie pTV/TS 9 weeks ago
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I suppose if both partners are in agreement about not wanting sex with each other but still wish to remained married it may work, but if one wants an open relationship and one does not then I can only see trouble. |
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By *sWyldWoman 9 weeks ago
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I think for some there are more important things to them in the relationship.
However, i genuinely believe that when things aren't right in the bedroom, they probably aren't really right in the living room either... |
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I find it entirely possible for two people to be in love with each other but not sexually attracted to each other. So yes I expect sexless marriage can work in my opinion. (And before you ask, I’m single so that isn’t my situation).
That doesn’t mean necessarily that one or both don’t have a sex drive, being on here secretly is an entirely different debate. |
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Yeah sexless marriages work. Some are sexless by mutual agreement, some just drift in to it and can't be bothered to fix it an others because of medication, medical conditions or extreme old age.
I think problems arise for one or both partners when there's a lack of emotional or physical intimacy. |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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It wouldn't work for me on two counts...
Sexless
Marriage
But that's for me. If it works for you, enjoy.
What brings you to FAB? For me it's the escapism of the forums and the sex-charged vurtual interaction with others. |
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Tbh I'm not married so I wouldn't know...
I do imagine there's a lot of marriages like this though and it's not surprising. I can imagine 10/20 years of sex with the same person to become somewhat tedious
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By *usie pTV/TS 9 weeks ago
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Lol Dildo I think you have wacked the nail on the head. In fairness to the Op he has only implied that he happy not to have sex with his wife not that he does not want sex. Most folks in a sexless marriage especially the partner who may still want sex is going to find themselves in some kind of living hell. |
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Im not goijg to lie personally i was really struggling when i was in a sexless marriage. After my second child we just completely stopped. We had our differences but things just didnt improve and overall our marriage was failing so going our seperate ways was i think the right thing to do as we have now found others i guess and parenting doesnt include arguments anymore |
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By *ornycougaWoman 9 weeks ago
MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat |
Most people who stop wanting sex with their partner do so for a reason - which may be related to sex with that person, or stuff outside the bedroom. That's OK if the feeling is mutual. But usually it isn't. Then it becomes a problem. |
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"Yeah sexless marriages work. Some are sexless by mutual agreement, some just drift in to it and can't be bothered to fix it an others because of medication, medical conditions or extreme old age.
I think problems arise for one or both partners when there's a lack of emotional or physical intimacy. "
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"Given the high number of profiles that state they're not meeting ,I'm not sure why the op is getting questioned so much about his reasons for being here "
Because he's male and those are the rules! |
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"Given the high number of profiles that state they're not meeting ,I'm not sure why the op is getting questioned so much about his reasons for being here "
Those profiles probably aren't in a marriage and going behind someones back. At least people are clear they are not meeting for whatever reason that may be. I don't see anywhere on OP's profile saying attached/married? |
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"Given the high number of profiles that state they're not meeting ,I'm not sure why the op is getting questioned so much about his reasons for being here
Those profiles probably aren't in a marriage and going behind someones back. At least people are clear they are not meeting for whatever reason that may be. I don't see anywhere on OP's profile saying attached/married?"
It's there |
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