I really need help.
I have a 'fwb' I've been seeing weekly for 7 months and I need to buy him a gift. However, its got a little complicated recently and I don't really know where we stand.
I've thought about toys but there is a chance I might not see him again in the new year. It can't me anything jokey that might lie around the house cause he kids don't know he's 'seeing' anyone.
Does anyone have any ideas please? This is really stressing me out |
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"If it’s complicated and don’t know where you stand then why waste your money getting them anything?
Because hes special to me. The complications have come from the feelings. "
If you feel that you want to get something then I like a book. Maybe an author or genre he has mentioned. Maybe something you’ve picked up that he likes. Can be anything
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"If you don’t think you’ll be seeing him beyond the new year, why buy anything? I wouldn’t bother personally.
But that’s just me, I’m a bit brutal at the end. "
I'm hoping it continues next year but I'm preparing for the worst |
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"If it’s complicated and don’t know where you stand then why waste your money getting them anything?
Because hes special to me. The complications have come from the feelings.
If you feel that you want to get something then I like a book. Maybe an author or genre he has mentioned. Maybe something you’ve picked up that he likes. Can be anything
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"I wouldn't buy a FWB a gift in the first place, but that's me.
How about a Costa/Starbucks/Cafe Nero gift card. It fits in your wallet or can be left in the car.
Mrs"
Or..buy a lovely butt plug. Take a tasteful picture bent over and get it made into credit card sized. Can also be kept in his wallet. |
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"I wouldn't buy a FWB a gift in the first place, but that's me.
How about a Costa/Starbucks/Cafe Nero gift card. It fits in your wallet or can be left in the car.
Mrs
Or..buy a lovely butt plug. Take a tasteful picture bent over and get it made into credit card sized. Can also be kept in his wallet."
Good idea, but get the picture laminated. |
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"I wouldn't buy a FWB a gift in the first place, but that's me.
How about a Costa/Starbucks/Cafe Nero gift card. It fits in your wallet or can be left in the car.
Mrs
Or..buy a lovely butt plug. Take a tasteful picture bent over and get it made into credit card sized. Can also be kept in his wallet.
Good idea, but get the picture laminated. "
Ah good call |
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"If it’s complicated and don’t know where you stand then why waste your money getting them anything?
Because hes special to me. The complications have come from the feelings. "
A shirt! If you really like him, maybe a shirt that irons well 😜 |
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"I wouldn't buy a FWB a gift in the first place, but that's me.
How about a Costa/Starbucks/Cafe Nero gift card. It fits in your wallet or can be left in the car.
Mrs
Or..buy a lovely butt plug. Take a tasteful picture bent over and get it made into credit card sized. Can also be kept in his wallet."
This is genius actually.
You’re buying him a present but really it’s your present, no matter the outcome. |
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After seeing mine for about 6 months I bought him a taxidermy rat that had a Superman t-shirt in his chest cavity that was being prised open.
He loved it but like me he likes the ridiculous (and Superman)...
If i didn't see him again I'd have kept it  |
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"Sexy calendar of yourself. Or toys or a wkend away you can enjoy together 🤷♂️ least if it doesn’t work out you can enjoy yourself "
She can't give him anything that he would have at home apparently. |
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Thank you everyone, there have been some really good ideas.
He's a miserable git sometimes and wouldn't appreciate most of it so I wouldn't waste my money.
We were joking around about what we would want and he wants a maclaren p1 so I've picked him up a hotwheels keyring. He can pass that off as a gift from a friend. |
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"I buy my FWB presents, after all, he is a friend though if I were in your predicament OP, I probably wouldn't bother."
My predicament is complicated and I didn't explain it well to begin with. We will still be friends no matter what happens but not sure we can continue the benefits. He deserves a Christmas present |
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"I really need help.
I have a 'fwb' I've been seeing weekly for 7 months and I need to buy him a gift. However, its got a little complicated recently and I don't really know where we stand.
I've thought about toys but there is a chance I might not see him again in the new year. It can't me anything jokey that might lie around the house cause he kids don't know he's 'seeing' anyone.
Does anyone have any ideas please? This is really stressing me out "
Girl, men don’t appreciate gifts. Buy yourself some sexy lingerie and have an amazing last night of sex with the guy. It will be his loss 🤷🏻♀️ |
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By *ony MannMan 9 weeks ago
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Don't worry about feelings, good people get them sometimes. It's scary falling, when you know you should not. Set yourself boundaries and make sure he understands them. It's OK to love.
As for the gift, what does he like, it really does not have to be sexy. |
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