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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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Hello forumites
There is a saying, “a good big one beats a good little one every time”.
It seems to be the case on Fab too!!
Everywhere i look i see profile pics with VWE guys with plenty of verifications.
I like to investigate things and after enough searching there is a pattern of guys with large members getting lots of meets!!
Some on the forum say it doesn’t matter, it’s who it’s attracted to and whether they know what to do with it.
Is this the truth or are they just being nice, i an honest in my bio and i wonder if i am hindering my chances of finally getting the sex with a real life woman?
Maybe I should photoshop my penis picture but then that might lead to disappointment on the meet itself or they could say, “well I have come all this way” and they would take pity on me.
Any thoughts or advice, one day i might find success from your help or just go UNLOS.
TIA |
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Bait and switch isn't cool my friend.
I honestly don't care. I interact with a wide variety of penis sizes on a regular basis and my favourite is always the one that happens to be with me at that moment.
I've never looked at my least endowed partner and thought about wanting anything other than what was right in front of me 💜 |
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"Hello forumites
There is a saying, “a good big one beats a good little one every time”.
It seems to be the case on Fab too!!
Everywhere i look i see profile pics with VWE guys with plenty of verifications.
I like to investigate things and after enough searching there is a pattern of guys with large members getting lots of meets!!
Some on the forum say it doesn’t matter, it’s who it’s attracted to and whether they know what to do with it.
Is this the truth or are they just being nice, i an honest in my bio and i wonder if i am hindering my chances of finally getting the sex with a real life woman?
Maybe I should photoshop my penis picture but then that might lead to disappointment on the meet itself or they could say, “well I have come all this way” and they would take pity on me.
Any thoughts or advice, one day i might find success from your help or just go UNLOS.
TIA"
Can’t you put away the small one and flip out the big one? If she’s really kinky, corkscrew |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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"Bait and switch isn't cool my friend.
I honestly don't care. I interact with a wide variety of penis sizes on a regular basis and my favourite is always the one that happens to be with me at that moment.
I've never looked at my least endowed partner and thought about wanting anything other than what was right in front of me 💜"
Bait and switch, that’s a phrase i haven’t heard before.
I thought honesty is the best policy that’s why i wrote by bio like i did to avoid any disappointment!!
I was talking to someone who told me that when they were up late, she and a few others reverse searched images and a lot of member pictures were found online!!!
That is very reassuring the last part Prey and gives me a glimmer of hope 🤗
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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"Hello forumites
There is a saying, “a good big one beats a good little one every time”.
It seems to be the case on Fab too!!
Everywhere i look i see profile pics with VWE guys with plenty of verifications.
I like to investigate things and after enough searching there is a pattern of guys with large members getting lots of meets!!
Some on the forum say it doesn’t matter, it’s who it’s attracted to and whether they know what to do with it.
Is this the truth or are they just being nice, i an honest in my bio and i wonder if i am hindering my chances of finally getting the sex with a real life woman?
Maybe I should photoshop my penis picture but then that might lead to disappointment on the meet itself or they could say, “well I have come all this way” and they would take pity on me.
Any thoughts or advice, one day i might find success from your help or just go UNLOS.
TIA
Can’t you put away the small one and flip out the big one? If she’s really kinky, corkscrew"
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"Bait and switch, that’s a phrase i haven’t heard before.
I thought honesty is the best policy that’s why i wrote by bio like i did to avoid any disappointment!!
I was talking to someone who told me that when they were up late, she and a few others reverse searched images and a lot of member pictures were found online!!!
That is very reassuring the last part Prey and gives me a glimmer of hope 🤗
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Ah it comes up a lot at sub socials and generally talking about people to avoid. It doesn't even matter if the switch was actually to something good, it's the dishonesty that flags.
Some people, women and men both, are size queens, or simply have set physical preferences. But there's plenty of reasons and ways to narrow the dating pool to match what you actually like. Not fitting into some people's pools just saves wasting time on the incompatible down the line 💜 |
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Our worst meet was a guy who was vwe. He lay back like a king, smiled as he received lots of oral sex, performed no foreplay himself then tried to shove it in like a porn star without warming the Mrs up. The meeting was stopped and he was sent home.
Vwe guys are not necessarily that good in bed. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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"The number of women on here specifically seeking big cocks of various colours suggests that, for a subgroup of women, size is important. For others it seems less of an issue. "
I see those kind of posts often but i did wonder if the ones who don’t want a big willy were just being PC or joking.
As someone who is new to sex as in not had it yet, i am trying to be as well informed as possible.
I need all the help i can get!! |
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maybe you could start a 'normal guys and those that appreciate them' thread. presumably all those that answer (apart from those lovable trolls of course) will have a preference for us average guys lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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"Bait and switch, that’s a phrase i haven’t heard before.
I thought honesty is the best policy that’s why i wrote by bio like i did to avoid any disappointment!!
I was talking to someone who told me that when they were up late, she and a few others reverse searched images and a lot of member pictures were found online!!!
That is very reassuring the last part Prey and gives me a glimmer of hope 🤗
Ah it comes up a lot at sub socials and generally talking about people to avoid. It doesn't even matter if the switch was actually to something good, it's the dishonesty that flags.
Some people, women and men both, are size queens, or simply have set physical preferences. But there's plenty of reasons and ways to narrow the dating pool to match what you actually like. Not fitting into some people's pools just saves wasting time on the incompatible down the line 💜"
When you’re talking of sub socials and switch do you actually mean a Switch as in someone who enjoys being Dominant but also Sub?
This post was written a little tongue in cheek hence the photoshop comment etc.
A few amusing responses was hoped for but also a bit of serious debate.
I appreciate your input and i agree honesty is the best policy as you are only going to get found out if you manage to get as far as a meet 💜 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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"The best lover I ever had was very 'average'"
Goes to show that size isn’t everything and the brain is the most erogenous part of the body.
Chemistry with a considerate partner trumps everything 🥰 |
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"When you’re talking of sub socials and switch do you actually mean a Switch as in someone who enjoys being Dominant but also Sub?
This post was written a little tongue in cheek hence the photoshop comment etc.
A few amusing responses was hoped for but also a bit of serious debate.
I appreciate your input and i agree honesty is the best policy as you are only going to get found out if you manage to get as far as a meet 💜"
Oh no no. Bait and switch is always referring to the presenting as something else until someone has come so far they're likely to subscribe to the sunk cost fallacy and see it through even though it's not what they actually wanted it expected 💜 |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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My observations from these forums:
Men seem to be the ones asking if size matters
Women tend to always say it's not important if they like the guy
Reading between the lines, whilst a woman will be happy with a good man and an average penis, she'd enjoy something bigger from time to time but that's just play time
The confidence a man exudes after accepting the size of his appendage is largely sexier than a bigger appendage
Just my observations... |
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"My observations from these forums:
Men seem to be the ones asking if size matters
Women tend to always say it's not important if they like the guy
Reading between the lines, whilst a woman will be happy with a good man and an average penis, she'd enjoy something bigger from time to time but that's just play time
The confidence a man exudes after accepting the size of his appendage is largely sexier than a bigger appendage
Just my observations..."
I know several women who actively prefer and pursue smaller penii. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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"When you’re talking of sub socials and switch do you actually mean a Switch as in someone who enjoys being Dominant but also Sub?
This post was written a little tongue in cheek hence the photoshop comment etc.
A few amusing responses was hoped for but also a bit of serious debate.
I appreciate your input and i agree honesty is the best policy as you are only going to get found out if you manage to get as far as a meet 💜
Oh no no. Bait and switch is always referring to the presenting as something else until someone has come so far they're likely to subscribe to the sunk cost fallacy and see it through even though it's not what they actually wanted it expected 💜"
Ahhh like i said, that’s a phrase i haven’t heard before.
I joke about my ignorance at times but in truth there is still lots i don’t know about.
Maybe i should open up more serious discussions in future, there is a lot of experience and wisdom on here (as well as somethings you should ignore).
One thing i love about Fab and the lifestyle is there is all sorts of people who are open to share their experiences. 💜 |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"My observations from these forums:
Men seem to be the ones asking if size matters
Women tend to always say it's not important if they like the guy
Reading between the lines, whilst a woman will be happy with a good man and an average penis, she'd enjoy something bigger from time to time but that's just play time
The confidence a man exudes after accepting the size of his appendage is largely sexier than a bigger appendage
Just my observations...
I know several women who actively prefer and pursue smaller penii."
Define smaller?
And can you introduce me?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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"Our worst meet was a guy who was vwe. He lay back like a king, smiled as he received lots of oral sex, performed no foreplay himself then tried to shove it in like a porn star without warming the Mrs up. The meeting was stopped and he was sent home.
Vwe guys are not necessarily that good in bed. "
I suppose being VWE gave him the false belief he didn’t have to try hard (no pun intended).
I have heard that some guys who are average or smaller make more of an effort to be sensual and use good technique.
Correct me if I am wrong but a lot of women are put off by VWE as it hurts and they can’t put all of it comfortably, where some women love the pleasure/pain principle. |
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"I suppose being VWE gave him the false belief he didn’t have to try hard (no pun intended).
I have heard that some guys who are average or smaller make more of an effort to be sensual and use good technique.
Correct me if I am wrong but a lot of women are put off by VWE as it hurts and they can’t put all of it comfortably, where some women love the pleasure/pain principle."
I've been with bigger guys who thought they didn't have to try. And I've been with more who knew that they needed to know how to turn someone on for sex to be enjoyable 💜 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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"Genuinely it has no bearing whatsoever. I fact 'hung', 'vwe' etc puts me off. I'm sure there are some people who go looking for that in particular though. "
I can imagine a VWE guy could be scary as you know it’s going to hurt!!
If i remember right anywhere between 6-7 inches was the preferred size for most pleasure.
But as you said there are some who prefer big. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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"maybe you could start a 'normal guys and those that appreciate them' thread. presumably all those that answer (apart from those lovable trolls of course) will have a preference for us average guys lol"
That’s actually a great idea, like you said we would get a few trolls.
I am sure it will give a most guys a body confidence boost to realise that women enjoy average sized…..it’s called average for a reason as most men fall into that category or thereabouts.
As i noted in my previous response from genuine research women got most pleasure from guys who measured between 6-7 inches. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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"Most of my female friends couldn't care less about dick size as long as it's not tiny or massive.
Tiny doesn't give a full feeling and massive is painful."
That’s exactly the consensus I have heard and experienced personally.
I have been described as Goldilocks and i am not VWE. |
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"For alot of women a massive one doesn't work it hurts, just like how some men have small winkles some women have small pookies so Mr average here has a suitable if not a bit big size for the Mrs "
Exactly this. My ex openly admitted she had been with guys with huge cocks and didnt enjoy half as much as mine, just like ive been with women with really tight pookies (as you called it) 🤣 but the sex between us was the best ever for both of us |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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"My observations from these forums:
Men seem to be the ones asking if size matters
Women tend to always say it's not important if they like the guy
Reading between the lines, whilst a woman will be happy with a good man and an average penis, she'd enjoy something bigger from time to time but that's just play time
The confidence a man exudes after accepting the size of his appendage is largely sexier than a bigger appendage
Just my observations..."
Your observations are correct and well thought out.
Confidence is a big turn on (not arrogance),
You have hit the nail on the head, when it comes to great sex.
It’s attraction physically and mentally, is comfortable in their own skin, wants to please the other person and pays attention to their needs to what gets them going.
I have known quite a few women who have a partner who is average but fancies VWE on occasion but the best sex they have is with their partner. |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"Our worst meet was a guy who was vwe. He lay back like a king, smiled as he received lots of oral sex, performed no foreplay himself then tried to shove it in like a porn star without warming the Mrs up. The meeting was stopped and he was sent home.
Vwe guys are not necessarily that good in bed. "
I've often thought that being just over average encouraged me to develop "skills" in other areas such as oral and foreplay (both of which I enjoy more than sex itself). |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"My observations from these forums:
Men seem to be the ones asking if size matters
Women tend to always say it's not important if they like the guy
Reading between the lines, whilst a woman will be happy with a good man and an average penis, she'd enjoy something bigger from time to time but that's just play time
The confidence a man exudes after accepting the size of his appendage is largely sexier than a bigger appendage
Just my observations...
Your observations are correct and well thought out.
Confidence is a big turn on (not arrogance),
You have hit the nail on the head, when it comes to great sex.
It’s attraction physically and mentally, is comfortable in their own skin, wants to please the other person and pays attention to their needs to what gets them going.
I have known quite a few women who have a partner who is average but fancies VWE on occasion but the best sex they have is with their partner."
Thanks mate. It's not often I get things right these days but glad I'm on the right track there.
And I get a woman wanting to play with bigger and have different experiences. That's a big part of being open to swinging whilst in a relationship. I'm good at what I'm good at but I can't be all things to all people so as long as the more important aspects of the relationship are solid (respect, love, trust, integrity, shared values, etc) then I have no issues with a mutually exciting sexual adventure. |
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"I mean its definitely what you do with it, but its much 😈😈😈😈 (as a woman) being able to wrap two hands around a cock than just a few fingers, no matter the girth!! "
*note to self: date women with small hands. |
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"I mean its definitely what you do with it, but its much 😈😈😈😈 (as a woman) being able to wrap two hands around a cock than just a few fingers, no matter the girth!!
*note to self: date women with small hands. "
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Oh you made me laugh  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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"Erm. Your multi tool looks a bit..... unwell in the profile pic. Is it alright? Does it need a bit of WD-40?"
You can see my tool from my profile picture!!!
Wow it must be massive as it’s a backside shot or you have X Ray vision 🤣 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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"Yes it does matter. You want to feel a penis entering you and filling you even a bit. "
I should hope so, I noticed you said filling rather than impaling you  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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"For alot of women a massive one doesn't work it hurts, just like how some men have small winkles some women have small pookies so Mr average here has a suitable if not a bit big size for the Mrs "
I think Pookie has to be the word of the day!!
I liked what was said before about accepting your body for what it is and being confident.
We all come in different shapes and sizes with various preferences.
There is always something or someone for everyone, be yourself and a considerate partner.
Everything else should slip into place from there.😊 |
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" Do not send pics of
Richard "
This post has got me wondering about that song from yesteryear "Pictures of Lily"
More to that than meets the eye, or was I just too slow to get the meaning of the lyrics? |
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A conversation I had recently with another couple, interestingly the male deemed my partner “too small” for his mrs and told me I’d be better off with him as he was larger.
I was quick to inform him that with my extensive experience of a wide range of girths and lengths  that unless he had taken them himself he was not equipped to make that judgement call and that in fact my partner gave me far more pleasure than some of the bigger guys.
Yes of course there are “size queens” on fab. But for the majority I don’t think size overly matters so long as you know how to use what you’re equipped with!  |
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"A conversation I had recently with another couple, interestingly the male deemed my partner “too small” for his mrs and told me I’d be better off with him as he was larger.
I was quick to inform him that with my extensive experience of a wide range of girths and lengths that unless he had taken them himself he was not equipped to make that judgement call and that in fact my partner gave me far more pleasure than some of the bigger guys.
Yes of course there are “size queens” on fab. But for the majority I don’t think size overly matters so long as you know how to use what you’re equipped with! "
He sounds a bit arrogant- hope you told him to sling his hook |
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By *pthillMan 9 weeks ago
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"Bait and switch isn't cool my friend.
I honestly don't care. I interact with a wide variety of penis sizes on a regular basis and my favourite is always the one that happens to be with me at that moment.
I've never looked at my least endowed partner and thought about wanting anything other than what was right in front of me 💜"
Very decent attitude |
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"A conversation I had recently with another couple, interestingly the male deemed my partner “too small” for his mrs and told me I’d be better off with him as he was larger.
I was quick to inform him that with my extensive experience of a wide range of girths and lengths that unless he had taken them himself he was not equipped to make that judgement call and that in fact my partner gave me far more pleasure than some of the bigger guys.
Yes of course there are “size queens” on fab. But for the majority I don’t think size overly matters so long as you know how to use what you’re equipped with!
He sounds a bit arrogant- hope you told him to sling his hook "
My reply wasn’t polite in the slightest, started and ended with an F  |
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"Only in the sense that no one wants a SMALL glass of wine 🤣🤣 😧😳😳"
🤣🤣 .when it comes to penises I'd rather haveva guy who was smaller who knows how to use it thsn a guy with a massive cock who doesn't know how to use it |
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If we’re talking pizza, I will absolutely order the biggest possible pizza on a menu and justify it by saying it’s only a few quid more makes more sense.
Dicks couldn’t tell you if does or not always been told I’m pretty big but and most have came back for seconds or wanted to. Guess I must be ok in terms size |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 9 weeks ago
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"My observations from these forums:
Men seem to be the ones asking if size matters
Women tend to always say it's not important if they like the guy
Reading between the lines, whilst a woman will be happy with a good man and an average penis, she'd enjoy something bigger from time to time but that's just play time
The confidence a man exudes after accepting the size of his appendage is largely sexier than a bigger appendage
Just my observations...
Your observations are correct and well thought out.
Confidence is a big turn on (not arrogance),
You have hit the nail on the head, when it comes to great sex.
It’s attraction physically and mentally, is comfortable in their own skin, wants to please the other person and pays attention to their needs to what gets them going.
I have known quite a few women who have a partner who is average but fancies VWE on occasion but the best sex they have is with their partner.
Thanks mate. It's not often I get things right these days but glad I'm on the right track there.
And I get a woman wanting to play with bigger and have different experiences. That's a big part of being open to swinging whilst in a relationship. I'm good at what I'm good at but I can't be all things to all people so as long as the more important aspects of the relationship are solid (respect, love, trust, integrity, shared values, etc) then I have no issues with a mutually exciting sexual adventure."
It certainly seems like you have the right attitude and looking at the responses, there are many who are in agreement.
Fab has flavours for everyone and just because someone has preferences isn’t a slight to anyone who doesn’t match up.
One thing that seems to be universal is we want to have a good time with the people we like and feel satisfied. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 9 weeks ago
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"I mean its definitely what you do with it, but its much 😈😈😈😈 (as a woman) being able to wrap two hands around a cock than just a few fingers, no matter the girth!!
*note to self: date women with small hands.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Oh you made me laugh "
I can get 1 and a half average sized hands around mine!!!
Bloody hell that leaves me in no mans land or should that be no woman’s hands? 🤣 |
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By *C44Man 9 weeks ago
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I don't think there's much truth in that, I think there's a lot more that goes in to success in getting meets for men.
If it just came down to size I'd have had more than the 2 meets I've had on here. If the size matters I think what it's attached to matters more. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 9 weeks ago
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"A conversation I had recently with another couple, interestingly the male deemed my partner “too small” for his mrs and told me I’d be better off with him as he was larger.
I was quick to inform him that with my extensive experience of a wide range of girths and lengths that unless he had taken them himself he was not equipped to make that judgement call and that in fact my partner gave me far more pleasure than some of the bigger guys.
Yes of course there are “size queens” on fab. But for the majority I don’t think size overly matters so long as you know how to use what you’re equipped with! "
Love the way you turned that around and questioned his experience of taking larger dicks….absolutely classic 😂😂
Yep that seems to be the general consensus and hopefully average guys will feel bolstered by this thread 👍 |
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I do my pelvic floor exercises.
I can't do much about accommodating a larger penis except to say go slowly until I give you the nod.
Even then, with above average length, it can be quite painful.
If I like a man I'll do my best with his penis. I'm not here just for the dick inside me. |
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Maybe having a decent size cock makes you confident ? Or maybe being confident gives you a decent size cock ?
When I was younger and not so confident, I thought I had a small cock now I think I have a decent size cock.
But really , cock size is so boring as a topic of discussion , for most men and most women |
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"I mean its definitely what you do with it, but its much 😈😈😈😈 (as a woman) being able to wrap two hands around a cock than just a few fingers, no matter the girth!!
*note to self: date women with small hands.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Oh you made me laugh
I can get 1 and a half average sized hands around mine!!!
Bloody hell that leaves me in no mans land or should that be no woman’s hands? 🤣"
Maybe you need a second opinion  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 9 weeks ago
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"I mean its definitely what you do with it, but its much 😈😈😈😈 (as a woman) being able to wrap two hands around a cock than just a few fingers, no matter the girth!!
*note to self: date women with small hands.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Oh you made me laugh
I can get 1 and a half average sized hands around mine!!!
Bloody hell that leaves me in no mans land or should that be no woman’s hands? 🤣
Maybe you need a second opinion "
I can see what you’re up to and who do you think is best qualified for this second opinion? 🤔 |
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"I mean its definitely what you do with it, but its much 😈😈😈😈 (as a woman) being able to wrap two hands around a cock than just a few fingers, no matter the girth!!
*note to self: date women with small hands.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Oh you made me laugh
I can get 1 and a half average sized hands around mine!!!
Bloody hell that leaves me in no mans land or should that be no woman’s hands? 🤣
Maybe you need a second opinion
I can see what you’re up to and who do you think is best qualified for this second opinion? 🤔"
Clearly someone with small hands 😂😂👐👐👐 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 9 weeks ago
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"I mean its definitely what you do with it, but its much 😈😈😈😈 (as a woman) being able to wrap two hands around a cock than just a few fingers, no matter the girth!!
*note to self: date women with small hands.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Oh you made me laugh
I can get 1 and a half average sized hands around mine!!!
Bloody hell that leaves me in no mans land or should that be no woman’s hands? 🤣
Maybe you need a second opinion
I can see what you’re up to and who do you think is best qualified for this second opinion? 🤔
Clearly someone with small hands 😂😂👐👐👐"
Ask a stupid question and expect a suitable reply 😂😂😂
Hands up if you can assist me in a second opinion 🙌🙌✊✊ |
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"I mean its definitely what you do with it, but its much 😈😈😈😈 (as a woman) being able to wrap two hands around a cock than just a few fingers, no matter the girth!!
*note to self: date women with small hands.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Oh you made me laugh
I can get 1 and a half average sized hands around mine!!!
Bloody hell that leaves me in no mans land or should that be no woman’s hands? 🤣
Maybe you need a second opinion
I can see what you’re up to and who do you think is best qualified for this second opinion? 🤔
Clearly someone with small hands 😂😂👐👐👐
Ask a stupid question and expect a suitable reply 😂😂😂
Hands up if you can assist me in a second opinion 🙌🙌✊✊"
👐🙌👐🙌👐🙌 |
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"I do my pelvic floor exercises.
I can't do much about accommodating a larger penis except to say go slowly until I give you the nod.
Even then, with above average length, it can be quite painful.
If I like a man I'll do my best with his penis. I'm not here just for the dick inside me."
Now that is a preference of mine.
A lady who does her pelvic floor exercises.
It’s adds sensation for both parties and can be a fun game when they try to push me out!!
Wise words Bad Nanna and it goes to show we come in all shapes, sizes and preferences.
You will always find someone who you tick all the boxes for 🤗 |
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"I mean its definitely what you do with it, but its much 😈😈😈😈 (as a woman) being able to wrap two hands around a cock than just a few fingers, no matter the girth!!
*note to self: date women with small hands.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Oh you made me laugh
I can get 1 and a half average sized hands around mine!!!
Bloody hell that leaves me in no mans land or should that be no woman’s hands? 🤣
Maybe you need a second opinion
I can see what you’re up to and who do you think is best qualified for this second opinion? 🤔
Clearly someone with small hands 😂😂👐👐👐
Ask a stupid question and expect a suitable reply 😂😂😂
Hands up if you can assist me in a second opinion 🙌🙌✊✊
👐🙌👐🙌👐🙌"
I think that’s a very enthusiastic hands up, now how can we set up this experience….I mean experiment? |
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"Big ones hurt small ones can't feel em hope that helps 
Nah you have to be more specific than that 😂"
Okay if I can't deepghroat it I probably won't want it in my vagina
If it's smaller than my middle finger forget it.
That better? |
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Never had a meet where size has been a deciding factor in how much fun it was. It’s been a range of sizes and I’ve always had fun. In fact some of the bigger guys seemed to think that was all that’s required to be good sexually.
Make of that what you will. |
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"Big ones hurt small ones can't feel em hope that helps
Nah you have to be more specific than that 😂
Okay if I can't deepghroat it I probably won't want it in my vagina
If it's smaller than my middle finger forget it.
That better? "
I think you have made yourself as clear as a glass dildo 😂 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 9 weeks ago
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"Never had a meet where size has been a deciding factor in how much fun it was. It’s been a range of sizes and I’ve always had fun. In fact some of the bigger guys seemed to think that was all that’s required to be good sexually.
Make of that what you will."
It adds weight to the point that being good in bed and has nothing to do with being well endowed.
Having a clue is more important than having extra inches. |
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"Big ones hurt small ones can't feel em hope that helps
Nah you have to be more specific than that 😂
Okay if I can't deepghroat it I probably won't want it in my vagina
If it's smaller than my middle finger forget it.
That better?
I think you have made yourself as clear as a glass dildo 😂"
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I guess I’m bang average being 6inch on a good day and it’s always been a point of insecurity for me even though I know it’s not the smallest.
My wife has had vwe partners/casual meets but they haven’t made her cum through penetration but I can. I don’t think for one second they couldn’t but because she doesn’t have the emotional connection and they’re just playthings that alone is not enough for her to ‘get over the line’. Not that she doesn’t enjoy them of course. |
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"Bait and switch isn't cool my friend.
I honestly don't care. I interact with a wide variety of penis sizes on a regular basis and my favourite is always the one that happens to be with me at that moment.
I've never looked at my least endowed partner and thought about wanting anything other than what was right in front of me 💜"
Love this!! You always have seemed like a lovely and genuine soul x |
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It really depends on the woman and what she likes, as you can see in my pics, I’m very modestly sized, 6” ish but I’ve had meets where women are clearly not getting much joy from my efforts and size is clearly the issues but I can think of three women I’ve slept with who’ve complained of discomfort from my size!
I think it comes down to compatibility… or atleast that’s what I comfort myself with |
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"It really depends on the woman and what she likes, as you can see in my pics, I’m very modestly sized, 6” ish but I’ve had meets where women are clearly not getting much joy from my efforts and size is clearly the issues but I can think of three women I’ve slept with who’ve complained of discomfort from my size!
I think it comes down to compatibility… or atleast that’s what I comfort myself with "
You makes good points out compatibility. We’re all different. |
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I am not particularly interested in size provided it is neither TINY nor MASSIVE.
Anything between 5- 8 inches is fine for me.
I don’t know if other women prefer big ones, but for me it’s just going to be painful and I’d rather an average size that I can keep playing and have inside me for longer than one that will be banging against and bruising my cervix
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"I'm not sure, everyone I've talked to or messaged keeps saying I'm huge but I really don't think I am.
All I know Is I have a meat cannon down there, or i guess to some a bazooka apparently. 🤣 "
It’s alright Toots! I’m hung like a highland yak! Just a very young one 🤣 |
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Hi guys. I’m originally from the east coast… I live in Lymm and have a history of different MH & Physical disabilities. I need to advice on cock sizes etc. but I lack in body confidence and stuff x |
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Does size matter? I suppose answer is yes and no.
If the penis is too small and u dont know when guy is in then your not going to get any pleasure (experienced this) but also have experienced the other side and a vwe guy and he struggled to maintain erection and had no technique,he kept apologising as every woman and guy he been with was same problem he didnt know how to maintain his erection,he was nice guy just ended up chatting chilling and having a drink.. |
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I think men are more worried about size than women are...
I prefer "average" size. And it's funny how all the guys who are selling them selves as hung suddenly become "not that big" when I express my preference. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 9 weeks ago
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If you need to sell yourself based on size, either by a username, mention in your text or by eleventybillion photos of it, then to me it says that's what you see as your strongest attribute.
Which is your choice of course. 🤷♂️ |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 9 weeks ago
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"Glad to see there are women that like Mr average"
I am glad to see that this thread has shed light on this subject….again.
It’s not the first time it’s been brought up, it’s like the Dad bod vs Gym bod saga or Gym fit vs Curvy etc etc.
We should do more body positivity threads to show that people have all different kinds of preferences and there is always someone who you tick their boxes.
It’s not a one size fits all world 😁 |
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By *eliWoman 9 weeks ago
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Yes, it's about who it's attached to. That's the big thing for me. I've been with men who have been everything from smaller to very well endowed and the only time I've been disappointed is when they unnecessarily exaggerate their size. Why do people do that? I think it's sad that there's pressure surrounding cock size, this belief that bigger means better. It also doesn't mean that those who are more endowed are unable to use it successfully, that's a really dreary cliché.
I don't see any point in lying surrounding it - my cervix positioning means I have to really be mindful about certain positions or it becomes painful.
The most important things for me? Who it's attached to. How eagerly it responds to me. That's all I really care about. |
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Hound has a fabulous cock, I'm very lucky, but that doesn't mean that the less endowed can't be a lot of fun 
