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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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I can think of nothing more appealing jyst now than a social with someone fun flirty with maybe a kiss and cuddle.
Are these a thing?
Do you believe anyone when they suggest it? |
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"Think these are called dates?"
Nope they are called socials.
Something we always do before playing.
People are very good at pretending that they are something they are not online don't want any nasty surprises come play time.
So a coffee or wine first thanks.
After all it's a swinging site, well at least it's supposed to be not a singles dating site.
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"Think these are called dates?
Ah, but the connotations of "dates" suggests monogamy and progression...
But yes, maybe I'm overthinking it."
If that's what you are looking for maybe this site isn't for you. |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"Think these are called dates?
Ah, but the connotations of "dates" suggests monogamy and progression...
But yes, maybe I'm overthinking it."
I definitely don't think they have to mean monogamy at all. I guess it depends where you find your date and if they are a muggle or not. |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"Avada kadava
😂
I got you with my wand 
Stupify me any time 🤣
You wanna see my patronus?
Ooh naughty, I bet it's a very rampant stag "
It's so rampant. And if cums polyjuice potion |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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"What’s your definition of „social”, OP?"
For me, it depends on the person and the vibe they bring.
It's probably a date but with someone who brings an open mind and naughty spark. That was the hope I'd find on here that seems to be hidden in vanillaville. Even if they are a perv like me, they keep it hidden as tends to be the social norm out there.
But it can also be something a little naughtier than a date, something you wouldn't necessarily do on an early date like a cosy cuddle and a movie on a Sunday afternoon.
As you can tell, I'm not sure I know myself but sometimes I just can't be arsed with the pressure of trying to get laid and just want some human connection.
#NeedyIKnow |
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By *sWyldWoman 10 weeks ago
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"We always have 'neutral' socials. If someone asks for a 'social maybe more' we politely decline because they rarely mean maybe and it adds too much pressure for me. "
This for me too. I don't want the pressure.
I do love when a social goes well though and there's laughter, flirting, kissing and you leave very much looking forward to more some other time.
I also like dates and it doesn't mean anything other than being fully into each other for the time we spend together. I'm not looking for a partner really |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"Feel like that was too far
No it wasn't, I just had a sneaky nap 😂😘
Busy day then
I am just lazy,it's Saturday 😂"
Not like I haven't been sat on my arse all day tho |
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I state very clearly on my profile that I won't meet anyone without a social and it's not up for negotiation.
Less than 10 percent of all my social meets over the years have gone beyond that initial coffee and that's by choice rather than circumstance.
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"Avada kadava
youvada cadaver? dodgy that is lol
It's not mine I found it
you dug it up on a social didn't you...."
Yeh sounds plausible, let's go with that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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"We always have 'neutral' socials. If someone asks for a 'social maybe more' we politely decline because they rarely mean maybe and it adds too much pressure for me.
This for me too. I don't want the pressure.
I do love when a social goes well though and there's laughter, flirting, kissing and you leave very much looking forward to more some other time.
I also like dates and it doesn't mean anything other than being fully into each other for the time we spend together. I'm not looking for a partner really "
This is pretty much it for me... A date suggests moving to partnerdom. I've lived there and don't wanna go back.
FWBville looks like my new home, with the emphasis on F so a "date" or social where we just enjoy the moment, whatever that be, knowing there's no pressure to progress... |
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in other words 'no thanks'? 
