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By *bi Haive OP Man 10 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
So you've made advanced plans with someone you know well, booked a very nice room at a good hotel (think king size bed, fancy decor, double spa bath & rainfall shower) and pre-booked a full English next morning.
Then the nightmare happens. They can't make it (genuine reason, fully understandable and no hate at all for cancelling).
It's too late to cancel the room (pre-paid) or change the date to an alternative. It's a fucking nice room and seems a waste for it not to be used.
Would you...
a.) Just go on your own, enjoy the room for some downtime and have a relaxing night away from home. Maybe take some nice selfies.
b.) Look for alternative last minute company, either with someone else you know or a complete random on Fab.
c.) Just right it off and stay home, as it would save on travel time, fuel and parking.
I already 99% know what I'm planning on doing. Just curious as to what others would do in the situation?
Over to you good folk of the Lounge. 😉😁 |
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By *bi Haive OP Man 10 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"If it was set up for a fab meet then B."
It was. But with someone I know well and have met several times before. Sadly not in a location near any of my other Fab friends or regular acquaintances. 🤷♂️ |
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"So you've made advanced plans with someone you know well, booked a very nice room at a good hotel (think king size bed, fancy decor, double spa bath & rainfall shower) and pre-booked a full English next morning.
Then the nightmare happens. They can't make it (genuine reason, fully understandable and no hate at all for cancelling).
It's too late to cancel the room (pre-paid) or change the date to an alternative. It's a fucking nice room and seems a waste for it not to be used.
Would you...
a.) Just go on your own, enjoy the room for some downtime and have a relaxing night away from home. Maybe take some nice selfies.
b.) Look for alternative last minute company, either with someone else you know or a complete random on Fab.
c.) Just right it off and stay home, as it would save on travel time, fuel and parking.
I already 99% know what I'm planning on doing. Just curious as to what others would do in the situation?
Over to you good folk of the Lounge. 😉😁"
Go for A and spend a bit of time on B… |
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"So you've made advanced plans with someone you know well, booked a very nice room at a good hotel (think king size bed, fancy decor, double spa bath & rainfall shower) and pre-booked a full English next morning.
Then the nightmare happens. They can't make it (genuine reason, fully understandable and no hate at all for cancelling).
It's too late to cancel the room (pre-paid) or change the date to an alternative. It's a fucking nice room and seems a waste for it not to be used.
Would you...
a.) Just go on your own, enjoy the room for some downtime and have a relaxing night away from home. Maybe take some nice selfies.
b.) Look for alternative last minute company, either with someone else you know or a complete random on Fab.
c.) Just right it off and stay home, as it would save on travel time, fuel and parking.
I already 99% know what I'm planning on doing. Just curious as to what others would do in the situation?
Over to you good folk of the Lounge. 😉😁"
I would go and look for an alternative seems a shame to waste it. |
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I would go on my own and treat it as a form of mindfulness, rest, relaxation, enjoy the room and the hotel facilities, explore the local area, room service and everything that is far away from being prescriptive and instead make it wholly spontaneous. Sometimes we forget to place sufficient value on ourselves. 🩶 |
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"I would go on my own and treat it as a form of mindfulness, rest, relaxation, enjoy the room and the hotel facilities, explore the local area, room service and everything that is far away from being prescriptive and instead make it wholly spontaneous. Sometimes we forget to place sufficient value on ourselves. 🩶"
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I would A).
At the moment, all your "visualisations" have been about this hotel with person "X".
Get to the hotel, enjoy the hotel, enjoy "you" in the hotel, and if you're feeling frisky, see if there's someone local for a spontaneous meet.
Then you have a whole series of fresh memories to overtake the visualisations of the planned meet....and (most importantly) you're not "forcing the pace".
And if you're not feeling frisky, just do A) in its entirety.
I wouldn't consider C) - you're looking forward to getting away from home too much judging by the way you've worded this.
Do A), because it lets a version of B) in as a spontaneous bonus if you "feel it" once you're there, rather than a rushed and unwanted scenario of "must find klunge for paid hotel". |
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B
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“Stayn cardiff 2nite bn let dn n need a slut 2 fuk allnite. Rm booked cum join me 4 fun bbe huge dick can lick 4 hrs”
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By *eliWoman 10 weeks ago
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"I would go on my own and treat it as a form of mindfulness, rest, relaxation, enjoy the room and the hotel facilities, explore the local area, room service and everything that is far away from being prescriptive and instead make it wholly spontaneous. Sometimes we forget to place sufficient value on ourselves. 🩶"
^ this. So A. |
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By *bi Haive OP Man 10 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
OK.
Consensus so far is what I have planned. Option a.)
Option b.) I would likely consider only if it was someone I already know.
*although if anyone finds themselves at a loose end in Cardiff Monday night and fancies a beer/coffee/trip down chip lane.......😇😁 |
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B if possible but C otherwise. If I went alone it would be like salt in the wound. Not sure I could enjoy it as would be too busy thinking how much nicer it would of been with the planned company. I once wasted money on a week at centre parcs for reasons not worth sharing as no violins needed. |
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By *bi Haive OP Man 10 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Is there anyone you know, that might be able to use of it at short notice, and ‘buy’ the room from you? "
Anyone I know? No.
Anyone I don't know? Probably.
But nope. Keeping it for myself. Camera batteries charged and making the most of things to get some shiny new posh hotel profile pics done.
Besides.......an evening in a spa bath with wine, snacks and Netflix isn't a bad alternative to sex. 🤷♂️ |
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If it's paid for then may as well go.
If someone I'm comfortable enough with was free and happy to get the extra on a cancellation with full knowledge then take them along.
I wouldn't anyone to feel like they were a last minute substitution or a "you'll do" sort of thing. But I'm often low on availability so the odd last minute thing isn't always unwelcome. But if no-one suitable I'd just go alone with a good book and a tentacle or three 💜 |
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"Is there anyone you know, that might be able to use of it at short notice, and ‘buy’ the room from you?
Anyone I know? No.
Anyone I don't know? Probably.
But nope. Keeping it for myself. Camera batteries charged and making the most of things to get some shiny new posh hotel profile pics done.
Besides.......an evening in a spa bath with wine, snacks and Netflix isn't a bad alternative to sex. 🤷♂️"
Exactly my thoughts and an unexpected time to recharge and focus on your self can really refresh you. |
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By *bi Haive OP Man 10 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"^^ also you can look all sad and pensive at check in so the hotel staff will treat you nicely because they'll think you've been dumped  "
😂😂😂😂😂
Hopefully they don't remember me.
Last time I was there with the OH they were banging on the door as apparently we'd set the smoke alarm off by leaving the bathroom door ajar whilst in the spa bath.
Not sure they were prepared for me answering it stark bollock naked. 🤦♂️🤦♂️😇😇😂😂 |
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"^^ also you can look all sad and pensive at check in so the hotel staff will treat you nicely because they'll think you've been dumped
😂😂😂😂😂
Hopefully they don't remember me.
Last time I was there with the OH they were banging on the door as apparently we'd set the smoke alarm off by leaving the bathroom door ajar whilst in the spa bath.
Not sure they were prepared for me answering it stark bollock naked. 🤦♂️🤦♂️😇😇😂😂"
Oh they'll remember you...  |
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A and only A. I’m extremely picky with who I meet and have no interest in short notice meets.
I would use the opportunity to relax and actually get to enjoy staying in a lovely space for once instead of fixating on other things that would take precedence over my surroundings |
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100% go OP.
Check in then hit the high street department store, have one of the stunning ladies there pick you a new sent ,then head for a few scoops check out the local scene, then back to the hotel freshen up for dinner,maybe head back to one of the bars that impressed you then later chill at the res bar and see who admires your new sent, you never know, you might get lucky. |
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That scene in the matrix where the guy says ‘I want it taste like the best steak I’ve ever had’ that’s option A, go do it, have the food you deserve, live like a king, maybe you will meet an option B when you are there, who knows, fortune favours the brave, if you choose option C the fora will banish you forever |
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Definitely A or B. I'd definitely try to take someone else, be it a partner or friend, if they were available. I'd explain the circumstances because my partners and friends are understanding sorts and actually would most likely have been aware of my original plans in advance. So they wouldn't feel like a plan B, we'd just be grateful for the opportunity to spend time together in lovely surroundings.
But I'd also enjoy the luxury by myself if not. 😍 |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 10 weeks ago
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B. Plenty of guys don't mind capitalising on an unexpected opportunity. I've got enough actually very nice guys in my inbox who I've chatted to over an extended period that have said I should drop them a message if I'm ever available. I doubt I'd struggle to find a playmate.
If I did, no problem - I'd go for A. I'm certainly not going to just invite a random over though.  |
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"Definitely A or B. I'd definitely try to take someone else, be it a partner or friend, if they were available. I'd explain the circumstances because my partners and friends are understanding sorts and actually would most likely have been aware of my original plans in advance. So they wouldn't feel like a plan B, we'd just be grateful for the opportunity to spend time together in lovely surroundings.
But I'd also enjoy the luxury by myself if not. 😍"
I do appreciate it when there's that quality of openness present. |
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By *bi Haive OP Man 10 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"B- Find the nearest Pop World…pull off some moves on the dance floor and hopefully find myself some partner for the rest of the night 
Pop world.....now we're talking  "
Pop world is usually one of my haunts in Cardiff.
Can't beat a two for one cocktail. 🤷♂️ |
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