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Just wondering if there are any other husband's or boyfriends that have let someone else take there wife or girlfriend away on holiday.
This is something we have done in the past and the wife loves it, but it has to be the right relationship.
Just wondering how many others have done this. |
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I’ve taken away wives for weekends / holidays. The husbands love the free time they get or knowing that their partners are being entertained whilst they are away with work or suchlike and they get a very happy wife back..
I’ve got a spa break planned with a very hotwife in early January and all three of us are excited.. |
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"I’ve taken away wives for weekends / holidays. The husbands love the free time they get or knowing that their partners are being entertained whilst they are away with work or suchlike and they get a very happy wife back..
I’ve got a spa break planned with a very hotwife in early January and all three of us are excited.."
The excitement of wonder is amazing. |
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"Well yes "allowed". I am her Stag and "allowed" is built on 20 years of mutual respect and trust.
Neither does something the other is not OK with. "
That's not really 'allowing' someone. To allow is to give your permission. I get the way you are using 'allowed' though. Neither of you need the others permission in life but sticking to agreed rules , values , boundaries whatever....... is important. |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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Yes. It was a weekend at a spa with a man she had been "dating" for a few months. I'd never met him and was unsure but she'd assured me that he knew the score and that she was not looking for anything more than fun with him.
It was a difficult weekend with my feelings and emotions but what happened when she came back more than made up for it.  |
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"Well yes "allowed". I am her Stag and "allowed" is built on 20 years of mutual respect and trust.
Neither does something the other is not OK with. "
It’s just that asking the lounge if we’ve allowed our partners is not really considering that we won’t all like the use of that term.
Anyway- my fiancé can go away with whoever she likes and she has gone away with people yes. |
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By *enk15Man 9 weeks ago
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"Oh God yes, someone please take her away for a week.Is she hot ?
Smouldering.She can come with me then .
Sorry, you have too much dick and not enough boobs for her.
Just saying 👀"
I'd want videos though... |
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"Well yes "allowed". I am her Stag and "allowed" is built on 20 years of mutual respect and trust.
Neither does something the other is not OK with.
It’s just that asking the lounge if we’ve allowed our partners is not really considering that we won’t all like the use of that term.
Anyway- my fiancé can go away with whoever she likes and she has gone away with people yes. "
Probably not the best use of terms on my part. Could of just said "any husband's wives go away with others on holiday" |
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"Just wondering if there are any other husband's or boyfriends that have let someone else take there wife or girlfriend away on holiday.
This is something we have done in the past and the wife loves it, but it has to be the right relationship.
Just wondering how many others have done this. "
Do you send the guy a message on here afterwards thanking him for taking care of her? I really like those & it shows me she’s 100% transparent. It’s interesting those that claim to be fully transparent yet you never have any interaction with the Husband/partner. |
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"Oh God yes, someone please take her away for a week.Is she hot ?
Smouldering.She can come with me then .
Sorry, you have too much dick and not enough boobs for her.
Just saying 👀
I'd want videos though..."
Ask your good lady soon to be wife 😜🤣 |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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"Well yes "allowed". I am her Stag and "allowed" is built on 20 years of mutual respect and trust.
Neither does something the other is not OK with.
It’s just that asking the lounge if we’ve allowed our partners is not really considering that we won’t all like the use of that term.
Anyway- my fiancé can go away with whoever she likes and she has gone away with people yes. "
It's not a term I'd use personally but I'm not triggered by others use of words or their dynamic. "Allowed" is actually a term I'd hear growing up when the adults talked about their other halves as that was very much the dynamic back then. No so much now but "allowed" can also be used softly to simply say you were okay with it. In most relationships it's only respectful to discuss with the other and respect their wishes in certain areas. "I'm going out with the girls on Friday is that okay?" might be seen as seeking permission and therefore she will be "allowed" but in reality it's more just checking the other hasn't planned a romantic night or has other preferences that night.
It's just a word someone used and it's not for me to judge how it lands elsewhere. |
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"Just wondering if there are any other husband's or boyfriends that have let someone else take there wife or girlfriend away on holiday.
This is something we have done in the past and the wife loves it, but it has to be the right relationship.
Just wondering how many others have done this.
Do you send the guy a message on here afterwards thanking him for taking care of her? I really like those & it shows me she’s 100% transparent. It’s interesting those that claim to be fully transparent yet you never have any interaction with the Husband/partner."
This scenarior hasn't happened on Fab yet but so far we have always both communicate with men she has been with, never really thought about it. It just has always happened that way, not even sure if I need it. |
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By *oodo69Man 9 weeks ago
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"‘Allowed’ 🥰
I'm not allowed.
Thats such a pity xx
Pickle knows.
What does pickle know..? 
My personal situation regarding staying away with someone who isn't my husband. "
Id love to know aswell x  |
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"‘Allowed’ 🥰
I'm not allowed.
Thats such a pity xx
Pickle knows.
What does pickle know..?
My personal situation regarding staying away with someone who isn't my husband.
Id love to know aswell x "
Don't be nosey |
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By *oodo69Man 9 weeks ago
London (visiting frequently) |
"‘Allowed’ 🥰
I'm not allowed.
Thats such a pity xx
Pickle knows.
What does pickle know..?
My personal situation regarding staying away with someone who isn't my husband.
Id love to know aswell x
Don't be nosey"
Lol cant help it x |
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By *eliWoman 9 weeks ago
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Yes. Well, kind of. My fiancé is happy for me to spend time with others, including holidays. The only times he's had an issue with it? When he thinks the man is a throbber. But he still gives me space to realise that myself.
I think it's a bit different because I'm poly, he doesn't get a sexual kick from it. Just happiness that the woman he loves is happy. He doesn't want to know anything bar who with, where and do I feel safe. This year he bought me a passport cover as a little gift - all set for 2025 adventures (bar booking stuff!). ❤️
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"Yes. Well, kind of. My fiancé is happy for me to spend time with others, including holidays. The only times he's had an issue with it? When he thinks the man is a throbber. But he still gives me space to realise that myself.
I think it's a bit different because I'm poly, he doesn't get a sexual kick from it. Just happiness that the woman he loves is happy. He doesn't want to know anything bar who with, where and do I feel safe. This year he bought me a passport cover as a little gift - all set for 2025 adventures (bar booking stuff!). ❤️
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Pretty much this
My husband is happy for me to spend whatever time I like with others, it’s not a cuck or stag thing… it’s a compersion poly thing |
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"Just wondering if there are any other husband's or boyfriends that have let someone else take there wife or girlfriend away on holiday.
This is something we have done in the past and the wife loves it, but it has to be the right relationship.
Just wondering how many others have done this. "
I wouldn’t use the word allowed, but yes my wife does have trips away etc when she feels like it. |
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"Just wondering if there are any other husband's or boyfriends that have let someone else take there wife or girlfriend away on holiday.
This is something we have done in the past and the wife loves it, but it has to be the right relationship.
Just wondering how many others have done this. "
That sounds fun! |
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"Just wondering if there are any other husband's or boyfriends that have let someone else take there wife or girlfriend away on holiday.
This is something we have done in the past and the wife loves it, but it has to be the right relationship.
Just wondering how many others have done this.
That sounds fun!"
T loves it with the right relation. |
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"Just wondering if there are any other husband's or boyfriends that have let someone else take there wife or girlfriend away on holiday.
This is something we have done in the past and the wife loves it, but it has to be the right relationship.
Just wondering how many others have done this.
I wouldn’t use the word allowed, but yes my wife does have trips away etc when she feels like it."
Wish there was a way to edit the topic title. |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 9 weeks ago
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"Just wondering if there are any other husband's or boyfriends that have let someone else take there wife or girlfriend away on holiday.
This is something we have done in the past and the wife loves it, but it has to be the right relationship.
Just wondering how many others have done this.
I wouldn’t use the word allowed, but yes my wife does have trips away etc when she feels like it.
Wish there was a way to edit the topic title."
Indeed. You'd be able to remove the apostrophe from "husbands" to make it a plural instead of a possessive.
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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"Sounds a great idea but could possibly be awkward with family asking questions x"
Work trips, weekends with friends, etc... loads of reasons that doesn't lead to awkwardness. |
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"Just wondering if there are any other husband's or boyfriends that have let someone else take there wife or girlfriend away on holiday.
This is something we have done in the past and the wife loves it, but it has to be the right relationship.
Just wondering how many others have done this.
I wouldn’t use the word allowed, but yes my wife does have trips away etc when she feels like it.
Wish there was a way to edit the topic title."
I wouldn't worry. Forums gonna forum.
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"On a different note, as I'm now single I've sometimes wondered about "borrowing" a wife for a spa weekend and the like.
Something to think about."
Feel free to drop mine a message! Lady.pickle she loves spas. |
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"On a different note, as I'm now single I've sometimes wondered about "borrowing" a wife for a spa weekend and the like.
Something to think about.
Feel free to drop mine a message! Lady.pickle she loves spas."
Might just do that from the sound of her profile... |
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"On a different note, as I'm now single I've sometimes wondered about "borrowing" a wife for a spa weekend and the like.
Something to think about.
Feel free to drop mine a message! Lady.pickle she loves spas.
Might just do that from the sound of her profile... "
Happy days, hope it works out for you! |
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"Just wondering if there are any other husband's or boyfriends that have let someone else take there wife or girlfriend away on holiday.
This is something we have done in the past and the wife loves it, but it has to be the right relationship.
Just wondering how many others have done this.
I wouldn’t use the word allowed, but yes my wife does have trips away etc when she feels like it.
Wish there was a way to edit the topic title.
I wouldn't worry. Forums gonna forum.
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I know and it's a big reason my wife doesn't engage here. |
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My partners have usually wanted me involved, I think overnight has been the longest.
It's usually more me who enjoys such engagements.
I don't think I'd want to go away with someone, or have sex with someone solely from communicating with their partner though. |
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"My partners have usually wanted me involved, I think overnight has been the longest.
It's usually more me who enjoys such engagements.
I don't think I'd want to go away with someone, or have sex with someone solely from communicating with their partner though."
And if everyone had played together before? |
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"My partners have usually wanted me involved, I think overnight has been the longest.
It's usually more me who enjoys such engagements.
I don't think I'd want to go away with someone, or have sex with someone solely from communicating with their partner though.
And if everyone had played together before?"
I'd probably still want time to have got to know both in a couple first, but sure that would be appreciated, in any circumstances. It's not always the case though that everyone would want that? The requirement is that I've had some time getting to know a person directly, before I have sex with them. Attraction just wouldn't be there for me without that, so if it doesn't fit with a couples boundaries or desires then I'm just not the right person for them.
It's for a couple to define the boundaries and language they use in their relationship. It's about informed mutual consent for me. I have a partner who says 'I will allow it' in a tongue-in-cheek way, she can say that because she's built that trust and humour with me.
I can see how it would raise eyebrows from a neutral observer position though. People being concerned for the well-being of others isn't a huge sin, even if they jump to conclusions a tad. |
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"Allowed but never found the right guy we trust at present, would have to be someone we knew for a while and trusted etc"
Totally agree, can't really happen without a trust and established friendship  |
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By *ripfillMan 9 weeks ago
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I have a dear friend in fab who I would love to take away to a place of mutual interest , I love her company but she is open about her relationship which I respect - married
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I know great fun would be had and we would have a great opportunity to share this interest in historically with her because of her passion and intelligence for history
It’s being able to share on a wave length with this lady would be compatible and with a like minded soul would be delightful
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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wondering if there are any other husband's or boyfriends that have let someone else take there wife or girlfriend away on holiday.
May have to put this to him, I’m in need off some sun |
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" wondering if there are any other husband's or boyfriends that have let someone else take there wife or girlfriend away on holiday.
May have to put this to him, I’m in need off some sun"
We both love it with the right man. Hoping to build a relationship to that point here. |
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" wondering if there are any other husband's or boyfriends that have let someone else take there wife or girlfriend away on holiday.
May have to put this to him, I’m in need off some sun"
Lady.pickle enjoys the odd trip away. |
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