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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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After having an "affair" with a work colleague for the past 8 months ... both of us being married can you just resort to just being friends once again and working together without awkwardness |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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Suppose it is a case of you spend a lot of time together with work colleagues, sometimes more than with your partner and you grow close - sometimes things just happen over time |
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By *tu.xMan 10 weeks ago
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"After having an "affair" with a work colleague for the past 8 months ... both of us being married can you just resort to just being friends once again and working together without awkwardness "
time will tell ...some can some can't I guess
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Many years ago I had an affair with a colleague at work, which inevitably ended.
She turned into a complete bunny boiler!! .. she stalked me, silent phone calls, threats …. and even came close to getting me sacked! … I don’t want to go there ever again!
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"Suppose it is a case of you spend a lot of time together with work colleagues, sometimes more than with your partner and you grow close - sometimes things just happen over time"
They don't just happen, it takes two people without boundaries to make it happen. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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"Suppose it is a case of you spend a lot of time together with work colleagues, sometimes more than with your partner and you grow close - sometimes things just happen over time
They don't just happen, it takes two people without boundaries to make it happen. "
I did say sometimes things just happen ... not all the time, sometimes you just grow close to people |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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"Was you both "married" in a relationship when this affair happened or was she single looking for more?
I was married … she was single, and looking! X"
ahhh so she was after more than just fun, hence how it ended up |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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"Yes wouldnt recommend.
It was supposed to be a bit of fun after the Christmas do. It ended up as a five and a half year relationship with a commitment phone   "
We're you both married or involved? |
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does this mean that I have to get a job to find a woman for sex? I hope not as I like being retired.
I've seen many workmates having affairs over the years and each time it didn't end badly as far as I know. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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"It never ends well.
Even if eventually you can be friends, there’s always a painful part inbetween.
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Yes I am getting that feeling myself, I want a little more, she just to be friends .. a little hurt there x |
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"Yes wouldnt recommend.
It was supposed to be a bit of fun after the Christmas do. It ended up as a five and a half year relationship with a commitment phone
We're you both married or involved?
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We were both single  |
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"Yes wouldnt recommend.
It was supposed to be a bit of fun after the Christmas do. It ended up as a five and a half year relationship with a commitment phone
We're you both married or involved?
We were both single "
Apologies, I didn't read the OP. Well that's more complicated than my situation 🤷♀️ |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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In my experience it's not a simple answer...
I have only remained friends where the feelings have mutually gone. Where one still wants something then it'll always be an issue.
Men are also more likely to be able to move on to a platonic relationship more readily. Women hold grudges over the littlest thing for-fucking-ever! 😆
Lesson maybe learned that that's why most companies frown on workplace affairs - which I always found ironic given that 50% of marriages started at work (pre-internet). |
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