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By *ustMe123x OP Woman 10 weeks ago

Essex

Any advice? Has anyone ever been able to stay amicable while sorting finances.

My ex feels I deserve nothing because I ended it

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By *asterfulsoulMan 10 weeks ago

Manchester

I'm not sure meditation will help but anything is worth a go 👍

Personally I'd just tell him it's down to the solicitors though, and refuse to discuss it otherwise.

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By *ffervescentMan 10 weeks ago

winfrith

It's very difficult especially if kids are involved ,I just walked away ,I had no choice but I guess even if you ended it you are entitled to half, having said that he would have to sell the house he lives in in order to do it and ultimately not be able to afford to buy anywhere else and if you get the legal profession involved you'll both have even less to share .Do you get on at all?

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By *ffervescentMan 10 weeks ago

winfrith

If you can get on then you can perhaps negotiate a settlement if you don't it could go on a while .

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By *eroLondonMan 10 weeks ago

Mayfair

Emancipation from a relationship shouldn't mean destitution. Perhaps tell your ex that and his legal representative.

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By *vonne5exMan 10 weeks ago

Doncaster

"Any advice? Has anyone ever been able to stay amicable while sorting finances.

My ex feels I deserve nothing because I ended it

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It's just another scam to take a slice of your money

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By *lowupdollTV/TS 10 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Sounds like your ex isn’t inclined to be amicable so that’s your path now. Don’t negotiate with your hands tied.

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By *ornLordMan 10 weeks ago

Wiltshire and London

I went through mediation on the grounds that it would stand me in better stead when it ended up in court, as I knew she would take it there.

So don't give up on it if only for that reason.

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