The nearest I can think of was a woman I knew who I massively fancied for a long time. Each of us was married at the time. She came on to me and we ended up having a very raunchy shower together. That was amazing. Luke |
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Yes i had a crush on someone in school, later she was a regular at a club i worked at.
It was a hardcore rave club so she wore gym style clothing and looked even hotter (literally)!!
After a couple of weeks I f flirting we got together and it was more than i could of hoped for  |
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By *tu.x OP Man 10 weeks ago
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"Yes i had a crush on someone in school, later she was a regular at a club i worked at.
It was a hardcore rave club so she wore gym style clothing and looked even hotter (literally)!!
After a couple of weeks I f flirting we got together and it was more than i could of hoped for " another great result |
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"The nearest I can think of was a woman I knew who I massively fancied for a long time. Each of us was married at the time. She came on to me and we ended up having a very raunchy shower together. That was amazing. Luke" result  |
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I have no idea if I’ve been a crush of anyone I’ve slept with. I hope I have been I would like to be a crush.
I hope someone has written their first name with my surname and a heart around it at least once! |
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"I have no idea if I’ve been a crush of anyone I’ve slept with. I hope I have been I would like to be a crush.
I hope someone has written their first name with my surname and a heart around it at least once! " oh I'm pretty sure you have a good few with a crush on you |
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I've never been aware of anyone having a crush on me, and I've never seduced anyone I crushed over - which is just as well as I would no longer have the uninterrupted object of my desires floating around my brain to lust over. |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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Couple of years after my divorce through work I met a friend I had a crush on 20 years ago but didn’t act on it as was with my then to be wife. This lady knew I’d divorced and it was one of them where we were undressing each other with our eyes …. 2 weeks later we were wrestling in bed. She’s definitely in my top 3 |
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"Couple of years after my divorce through work I met a friend I had a crush on 20 years ago but didn’t act on it as was with my then to be wife. This lady knew I’d divorced and it was one of them where we were undressing each other with our eyes …. 2 weeks later we were wrestling in bed. She’s definitely in my top 3 " brilliant  |
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"What's a crush then?
I thought a crush was just someone you fancy and I only fuck people I fancy so...
What am I missing?a crush can be someone you didn't think you had a chance with "
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Yes a few times and both ways. If it's mutual then it's been good, if it's not then it's not quite reached the dizzy heights.
There was a girl, when we were in infants school who snogged my face off every break. We bumped into each other maybe 20 years later, went for a drink. We were laughing about it, and then out of nowhere I found myself noticing how vividly blue her eyes were and her familiar freckles. I imagine I was smiling goofily at her. Her cheeks flushed pink, just like they used to. There wasn't any expectations, but I was certainly not disappointed.
We both kind of knew it was a one off thing though, and went our separate ways. Well until we bumped into each other again another 10 years later. |
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"What's a crush then?
I thought a crush was just someone you fancy and I only fuck people I fancy so...
What am I missing?a crush can be someone you didn't think you had a chance with
Haha, still everyone I've slept with... "
Nah crush is a little different it's subtle but it's a blurred line between just fancying somebody and having an intimate connection with them but entirely one sided.
Infatuation without the creepy stalker vibes. |
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"What's a crush then?
I thought a crush was just someone you fancy and I only fuck people I fancy so...
What am I missing?a crush can be someone you didn't think you had a chance with
Haha, still everyone I've slept with...
Nah crush is a little different it's subtle but it's a blurred line between just fancying somebody and having an intimate connection with them but entirely one sided.
Infatuation without the creepy stalker vibes. "
That's an interesting definition. I was wondering what was meant by crush.
I think the intimacy can be a bit unbalanced too, rather than just entirely in one person's mind. Like I've had experiences where I am not quite feeling it to the same degree, but I couldn't say she was a creepy stalker. More just, well this is going to be an awkward conversation. Like a slightly smothering or clingy feeling.
If the conversation starts moving into planning our future together 5 years from now, that's when I edge towards the door though. |
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"Yes i had a crush on someone in school, later she was a regular at a club i worked at.
It was a hardcore rave club so she wore gym style clothing and looked even hotter (literally)!!
After a couple of weeks I f flirting we got together and it was more than i could of hoped for another great result "
It was an awesome result, we had built up the anticipation so much we had steamy sex in the back of a car.
Where the car was parked wasn’t the most private place but thank God the windows actually steamed up although the 100 or so people noticed the silhouette and the rocking car!!!
The first of many steamy sessions but in private.
We had a great relationship with lots of happy memories, it wasn’t all about the sex. 😊 |
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By *tu.x OP Man 10 weeks ago
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"Yes. Multiple crushes. (I tend to go after what I want) Most were anticlimactic.
I'm the same with cake though. It looks amazing. I salivate after it. I finally get it. I'm usually disappointed " oh I know that feeling  |
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Yes, had a huge crush on my husbands mate. Luckily, he had a crush on me, so we embarked on a long sexy affair. That was over 35 years ago and I still fancy him, even though he lives the other end of the Country. We swap pics now and again. |
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By *aizyWoman 10 weeks ago
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"I did, I wish it had stayed a crush, the reality was very disappointing.
They are electrifying in the crush stage.. I orgasmed just thinking about him "
Yeah, it was mostly my fault, I had built him up so much in my mind reality was never going to match fantasy. |
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"I did, I wish it had stayed a crush, the reality was very disappointing.
They are electrifying in the crush stage.. I orgasmed just thinking about him
Yeah, it was mostly my fault, I had built him up so much in my mind reality was never going to match fantasy."
Snap! I see him now and think what the heck was i thinking!? |
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I had an ongoing flirtation with a beautiful guy for over a decade. Over that time I saw him fat and thin, bearded and shaved, dressed sexy and rough AF and I fancied him like crazy however he was presented.
We would occasionally have kisses, one time I dragged him into a pub loo and sucked him off before we even reached the cubicle (took about 3 seconds, we were so charged), snowballing his cum as we locked together. Then, one day, he came to my house. We showered and touched, he made the sexiest roars as he came in my mouth and he put his fingers in me. It was fun, but I realised that after a decade I had built a whole fantasy over what the sex would be and there was no way the reality could compete. |
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By *tu.x OP Man 10 weeks ago
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"I developed a crush on someone I'd known for many years... We had intense snogging sessions on the couch, which I loved... But he went off like a rocket before getting anywhere close to me " thats some kiss that |
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By *tu.x OP Man 10 weeks ago
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"Fucked, and married eachother. Better than expected. The sex and the marriage 😅
Before that, I'd had sex with people who had crushes on me. We ended up being fwb's.
~ Mrs. DS" congratulations is in order  |
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Twice, once when I was 20 and a woman I liked had a filthy birthday present for me and at 25 I had a crush on someone at work and we ended up getting off in the storeroom for months until she left the workplace |
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Yes, a couple of times, with two different ladies, twenty-odd years apart. The first time, it put a strain on our friendship and we drifted apart. The second occasion was great, though. I'm hoping we can repeat the experience indefinitely, although time, distance and hectic lives makes planning it insanely difficult. |
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By *eliWoman 10 weeks ago
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Yes. A few times.
Focusing on the positive because it's rather early in the morning.... crushes are incredibly fun and (sometimes) actually acting on them? A very, very good idea.
Far better than any daydreams you might have wanked over. 💕 |
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"Yes. A few times.
Focusing on the positive because it's rather early in the morning.... crushes are incredibly fun and (sometimes) actually acting on them? A very, very good idea.
Far better than any daydreams you might have wanked over. 💕" haha ya take it out the wank bank |
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