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Is it arrogant to think you’re attractive
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Depends. I'm not a good looking as I used to be, I wasn't arrogant it was a pain in the arse. A few fights and life later I'm glad. But as a person who likes female mates and men mates I hate it when I find out the woman likes you more than a friend. But there are far better looking people out there and there are types. So no. I used to work in bodybuilding and some women love a huge the guy even if his face is like a Halloween mask. So it's not arrogant to think your goodlooking but it definitely is if A you think your everyone's cup of tea, B that a lesser looking guy with a better personality couldn't take your gf away.
So it's ok but back in my pretty boy days with less stories and a heightened sense of entitlement I may have pulled a lot of girls but grounding yourself will make them stay a lot longer and you find people get more attracted to you over time. |
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We both think each other good looking 😘 does that count? A guy messaged the other day describing us as 'stuck up counts' which I assume was a typo.. rather than proffering some form of aristocratic title.. sigh |
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By *uzzleMan 11 weeks ago
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I'm not.
However, there are some women out there are so attractive, they'd be able to pull any guy they wanted. They know it and all the guys know it, wanting to be 'the one'.
I do find these types of women can be extremely arrogant and that detracts from the overall package. Its a bit like we know you look like a supermodel, there is no need to shout about it, now sit down and shut up!
Interestingly, I don't find guys carry this same arrogance to be honest.
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"I'm not.
However, there are some women out there are so attractive, they'd be able to pull any guy they wanted. They know it and all the guys know it, wanting to be 'the one'.
I do find these types of women can be extremely arrogant and that detracts from the overall package. Its a bit like we know you look like a supermodel, there is no need to shout about it, now sit down and shut up!
Interestingly, I don't find guys carry this same arrogance to be honest.
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I've seen some classically beautiful men super proud of all the pussy they get and being arrogant twats.
Just because you don't see the women clamouring as hard publicly doesn't mean they're not doing it privately. |
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"I'm not.
However, there are some women out there are so attractive, they'd be able to pull any guy they wanted. They know it and all the guys know it, wanting to be 'the one'.
I do find these types of women can be extremely arrogant and that detracts from the overall package. Its a bit like we know you look like a supermodel, there is no need to shout about it, now sit down and shut up!
Interestingly, I don't find guys carry this same arrogance to be honest.
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Have you ever been around attractive lads |
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"Nah, I don't think believing you're it is.
Thinking everyone thinks you're attractive, however, is a different story.
So, do you think I’m attractive? "
You're a handsome man, pickles. My grammar on the other hand  |
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On a more serious note, I have over the years realised that the poor (I come from a working class immigrant background)
Tend to be less confident (even when we're smart) than those with money who are thick but just believe in themselves. Boris & trump being examples.
The lesson for me is believe in yourself, it includes believing that you are attractive. You are smart, you can be what ever you want to be, just believe in yourself. |
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"I'm not.
However, there are some women out there are so attractive, they'd be able to pull any guy they wanted. They know it and all the guys know it, wanting to be 'the one'.
I do find these types of women can be extremely arrogant and that detracts from the overall package. Its a bit like we know you look like a supermodel, there is no need to shout about it, now sit down and shut up!
Interestingly, I don't find guys carry this same arrogance to be honest.
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As The Streets once said, You're fit but dont you know it |
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"On a more serious note, I have over the years realised that the poor (I come from a working class immigrant background)
Tend to be less confident (even when we're smart) than those with money who are thick but just believe in themselves. Boris & trump being examples.
The lesson for me is believe in yourself, it includes believing that you are attractive. You are smart, you can be what ever you want to be, just believe in yourself."
I wouldn't advise role modelling Trump or Boris! Confidence comes from your achievements, not positive thinking |
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By *91kMan 11 weeks ago
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Arrogance itself is somewhat subjective as one person's idea of arrogance could be different to another's. So I guess the answer would depend on how you regard such opinions, would the feedback change your view or are you sticking with your instinct  |
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"Nah, I don't think believing you're it is.
Thinking everyone thinks you're attractive, however, is a different story.
So, do you think I’m attractive?
You're a handsome man, pickles. My grammar on the other hand "
Of course I am 😌
Don’t worry, you’re still the smartest in every room ❤️ |
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No I don’t think it’s arrogant. I think what glow said was spot on. It’s not arrogant to think you’re attractive, it’s arrogant to expect others to agree.
I think arrogance is a word that’s overused and quite often used as a lazy label given to confident people by people with no confidence
Everyone loves a confident woman until they meet a confident woman. |
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"On a more serious note, I have over the years realised that the poor (I come from a working class immigrant background)
Tend to be less confident (even when we're smart) than those with money who are thick but just believe in themselves. Boris & trump being examples.
The lesson for me is believe in yourself, it includes believing that you are attractive. You are smart, you can be what ever you want to be, just believe in yourself."
People from wealthy families who tend to be handed everything on a silver platter and told they are better than everyone else are much more likely to end up being insanely arrogant to a dangerous level. It's these kinds of people who can easily get power because of the wealth they inherit and their arrogance and confidence can appeal to people which is why they tend to be popular with a lot of people who respect authority and don't know how to think independently and realise that these people only care about themselves.
But back on topic, thinking you're attractive isn't arrogant, if you then expect things because of this or treat people worse because you value attractiveness over actual substance, that's when it becomes arrogant |
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No, that's self confidence, arrogance is when you take it too far.
It's the difference between thinking you're good looking and thinking anyone would be mad to turn you down because of it, though that's an extreme example. |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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"If I think you are attractive Pickle, does that make me arrogant ?  🤔
If I think you’re arrogant does that me attractive? 🤣"
If I think you are attractive Misty does that mean that I am arrogant? 🤣 |
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"If I think you are attractive Pickle, does that make me arrogant ? 🤔
If I think you’re arrogant does that me attractive? 🤣
If I think you are attractive Misty does that mean that I am arrogant? 🤣"
No. That means that you have eyes 🤣🤣🤣
Shit. Was that arrogant? |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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"If I think you are attractive Pickle, does that make me arrogant ? 🤔
If I think you’re arrogant does that me attractive? 🤣
If I think you are attractive Misty does that mean that I am arrogant? 🤣
No. That means that you have eyes 🤣🤣🤣
Shit. Was that arrogant?"
Assertive 😘 |
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"Please don’t call me arrogant. What I’m saying is true… I’m not one of the bottle. I believe I am attractive
I believe in you. 😘
You’re not getting in me
I also believe in me 🤣🤣
I’ll bring lube"
You’re wet enough |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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"Please don’t call me arrogant. What I’m saying is true… I’m not one of the bottle. I believe I am attractive
I believe in you. 😘
You’re not getting in me
I also believe in me 🤣🤣
I’ll bring lube"
I have some special lube Misty,catch |
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"Please don’t call me arrogant. What I’m saying is true… I’m not one of the bottle. I believe I am attractive
I believe in you. 😘
You’re not getting in me
I also believe in me 🤣🤣
I’ll bring lube
I have some special lube Misty,catch"
I thought you’d have my back |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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"Please don’t call me arrogant. What I’m saying is true… I’m not one of the bottle. I believe I am attractive
I believe in you. 😘
You’re not getting in me
I also believe in me 🤣🤣
I’ll bring lube
I have some special lube Misty,catch
I thought you’d have my back"
No Misty has,well sort of |
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I've excellent success in the vanilla world but don't class myself as attractive but acknowledge I'm not classes as ugly either, I can talk about most things and find it easy to get the girls laughing, been told I've got naughty eyes and smile. |
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"Please don’t call me arrogant. What I’m saying is true… I’m not one of the bottle. I believe I am attractive
I believe in you. 😘
You’re not getting in me
I also believe in me 🤣🤣
I’ll bring lube
I have some special lube Misty,catch
I thought you’d have my back"
I’ve won her over 🤣🤣 |
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"I'm not.
However, there are some women out there are so attractive, they'd be able to pull any guy they wanted. They know it and all the guys know it, wanting to be 'the one'.
I do find these types of women can be extremely arrogant and that detracts from the overall package. Its a bit like we know you look like a supermodel, there is no need to shout about it, now sit down and shut up!
Interestingly, I don't find guys carry this same arrogance to be honest.
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I am not putting women down on here but attention goes to some people's heads. I used to get a lot and hated it. But I was amazed to watch the documentary on the chimpendales the guy who was cast In the show as "the best man in the world" seemed it love it. He was kissing and being intimate with almost every woman in the crowd hot old fat and he seemed to really enjoy it. I hated being hit on by girls and older pervy women, I also had a gay stalker.
I know a number of intelligent women who just happen to be stunning. I don't think any of them would change their looks but they definitely would prefer less attention.
So I suppose its also down to personality or maybe if it's the only thing you have you love it.
Most of my attractive stunning female friends ended up with there partners because they didn't immediately hit on them. It's like if everyone acts one way you always find the ones that don't more interesting.
But there are women and men who need their looks to have the lifestyle they desire. Wives of ugly billionaires sell themselves for a rich lifestyle and fair enough. But looks are looks and some of the women I find sexiest doesn't come from looks more attitude. It's amazing how sexy you can find someone when they interest you. |
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If someone openly boasts about their attractiveness in a way that belittles others or seeks constant validation, it might come off as arrogant. In contrast, a humble acknowledgment of one's attractiveness can be seen as a positive trait. |
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"On a more serious note, I have over the years realised that the poor (I come from a working class immigrant background)
Tend to be less confident (even when we're smart) than those with money who are thick but just believe in themselves. Boris & trump being examples.
The lesson for me is believe in yourself, it includes believing that you are attractive. You are smart, you can be what ever you want to be, just believe in yourself.
People from wealthy families who tend to be handed everything on a silver platter and told they are better than everyone else are much more likely to end up being insanely arrogant to a dangerous level. It's these kinds of people who can easily get power because of the wealth they inherit and their arrogance and confidence can appeal to people which is why they tend to be popular with a lot of people who respect authority and don't know how to think independently and realise that these people only care about themselves.
But back on topic, thinking you're attractive isn't arrogant, if you then expect things because of this or treat people worse because you value attractiveness over actual substance, that's when it becomes arrogant "
You have a slanted view on what it's like to be from a rich family. So new rich maybe. They make the mistake of thinking that it's best to give their kids all they didn't have as a child. That is stupid as they have no real concept of the comparison, they can't live your childhood and appreciate the difference and end up totally lacking the drive and hunger that made you rich.
Also sadly rich men, who marry stunning yet stupid women often put expectations on the child that based on half the good genetics and half the genetics of a moron sets them up to feel inadequate.
Families that truly have wealth don't give their kids everything on a plate. It's rare to have generational wealth that lasts long if you don't drum into your kids a sense of balance, education and connections. Some of the richest people I know don't spend money on designer fashion don't get their kids the best cars as to do so would go against all that they need to understand to grow.
Some take it too far and never enjoy it. But those families I know have well balanced kids who know their role in life. They are not rude arrogant and they know what hard work is. So there is wealth and there is wealth. But there can always be tits in every family for every prince Charles who for all his faults seems to care about the environment and people their is a thick as pig poo brother like Prince Andrew and Harry who literally have no concept of how lucky they are as had they been born on an glasgow estate they would be either bullied to breaking or smack heads. But just as every person from a council estate isn't like the cast of shameless not every wealthy kid is an arrogant tit |
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"When I walk on by, girls be looking like, "Damn, he fly"
I pimp to the beat, walking down the street in my new LaFreak....
I'm Sexy and I know it! 😉😉"
indeed as when I walk into the bar with no shirt and no shoes I still get service |
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"The highest level of arrogance I've seen on profiles is when they say they'll only ever meet "exceptional" people. "
In the sense that they feel they deserve it more than other people because I think we should all aim high. |
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"The highest level of arrogance I've seen on profiles is when they say they'll only ever meet "exceptional" people.
In the sense that they feel they deserve it more than other people because I think we should all aim high."
well depends. Charles Manson was an exceptional person, it seemed he could spot a fellow narcissist and recruit them. Hitler etc so maybe they want to meet a bunch of cxnts. To be fair it's a weird world on here as women as much as I love them get a lot of attention as it's a sex site. So they can firstly choose easier. And they get big headed. I mean if you walked into a club with women who had a tshirt with their sexual preferences on. There's a stunner with a thsirt that says never gets horny or a slightly less attractive one which says loves it on the bum and never doesn't want sex which one would you hit on |
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"The highest level of arrogance I've seen on profiles is when they say they'll only ever meet "exceptional" people.
In the sense that they feel they deserve it more than other people because I think we should all aim high. well depends. Charles Manson was an exceptional person, it seemed he could spot a fellow narcissist and recruit them. Hitler etc so maybe they want to meet a bunch of cxnts. To be fair it's a weird world on here as women as much as I love them get a lot of attention as it's a sex site. So they can firstly choose easier. And they get big headed. I mean if you walked into a club with women who had a tshirt with their sexual preferences on. There's a stunner with a thsirt that says never gets horny or a slightly less attractive one which says loves it on the bum and never doesn't want sex which one would you hit on"
None of them, I'm straight.
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"When I walk on by, girls be looking like, "Damn, he fly"
I pimp to the beat, walking down the street in my new LaFreak....
I'm Sexy and I know it! 😉😉 indeed as when I walk into the bar with no shirt and no shoes I still get service "
Wiggle wiggle wiggle wiggle wiggle yeah!...,😂 |
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"Please don’t call me arrogant. What I’m saying is true… I’m not one of the bottle. I believe I am attractive
Replying just to show my appreciation for this Jose Mourinho reference, well done "
This is why I like you |
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I think it’s sensible to have a healthy awareness of your appearance and to know your worth. But also to remember that attractiveness is not only about physical appearance.
I tend to know who is and who isn’t “out of my league” in the looks department… but then I might have more (or maybe less) to offer when it comes to personality or intelligence or kinkiness! |
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"Please don’t call me arrogant. What I’m saying is true… I’m not one of the bottle. I believe I am attractive
Replying just to show my appreciation for this Jose Mourinho reference, well done
This is why I like you"
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"If you don't live yourself you can't love anyone else"
This is so true but many want to tear down people with high self esteem and then when they've achieved it pretend to encourage them to build their confidence back up.
It never ceases to amaze me. |
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No, I don't think so.
There was a very attractive forum user on here a few years ago who would occasionally mention her looks when telling a story. It was never with arrogance, just in a matter of fact way that was relevant to the scenario she was recounting. For some reason a few people really disapproved and tried to tear strips off her *gallic shrug* |
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I think it's important to be objective and this counts for how you see yourself as well as how you see others.
You can acknowledge that objectively you are attractive, have a good figure, nice hair, lovely teeth or whatever without being arrogant. Equally you can express this belief in an arrogant way. The arrogance has nothing to do with the objective fact, only the way you express it.
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