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My ex has been messaging saying "we should fuck (joking btw)" obviously isn't joking lets be honest. Would you fuck your ex just for an easy fuck or is it better to just not because she might still have feelings and that |
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Depends on the ex and the whole context around the past and current relationship. |
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No. An ex is an ex for a reason |
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By *a1970Man 3 weeks ago
East cork |
Lot of factors to consider here... But why is she or he the ex.... Needs to be asked |
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I’ll do it for you and report back. |
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She was a laugh, sex wasn't great, I broke up with her because she was too clingy |
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I would, yes. It would be easy and nobody has known my body as well as he did.
I would know if I did it it would be a terrible mistake and I'd still do it. |
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By *dz69247Man 3 weeks ago
Manchester and Leeds |
I’ve fucked my ex quite a few times, we ended on good terms, and now and again do have a spontaneous liaison.
It’s very much just sex though, no feelings involved, but as we know what each other like, it’s always good |
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No way!! She's a proper bunny boiler, definitely avoiding that one.  |
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If it was just a one and done then why not? Outside of that then no. Some people are best left in the past. |
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We still talk every now and then, but I don't know if she still feels more than I do |
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No way in hell, even if the sex was amazing I’d never go back there with any of them. |
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Sound like a bad idea if you ended it because she was too clingy. It won't end well |
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Well how do I respectfully decline? She just said "oh well friends with benefits lol" |
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By *end1Man 3 weeks ago
southend on sea |
It happened this year the mum to my son split up with her partner and came to mine ended up fucking on the sofa 18 years after our last fuck. |
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By *a LunaWoman 3 weeks ago
South Wales |
No. Eyes forward no looking back! |
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I sent lol. That'll probably put her off the idea for a while, such a response to an offer like that |
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"My ex has been messaging saying "we should fuck (joking btw)" obviously isn't joking lets be honest. Would you fuck your ex just for an easy fuck or is it better to just not because she might still have feelings and that"
1st no, 2nd definitely
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"Depends on the ex and the whole context around the past and current relationship. "
Yeah that.
Father of my child... No, cos I don't think his wife would appreciate that.
Plenty of others I would though, just for fun! |
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By *ffy.Woman 3 weeks ago
Fife |
I’d rather stab myself in the eye. |
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"I’d rather stab myself in the eye. "
I'm adding that to the list of "things Effy would rather do than X" it's quite a list! |
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Surely that depends on the situation. I do sometimes . |
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As much as we are still really good friends....no |
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By *ffy.Woman 3 weeks ago
Fife |
"I’d rather stab myself in the eye.
I'm adding that to the list of "things Effy would rather do than X" it's quite a list! "
I have more |
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"I’d rather stab myself in the eye. "
Both eyes or just the one? |
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"I would, yes. It would be easy and nobody has known my body as well as he did.
I would know if I did it it would be a terrible mistake and I'd still do it."
I'd break up with you just so you could shag me  |
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"I’d rather stab myself in the eye.
Both eyes or just the one?"
She is from THAT part of Scotland, she only has the one |
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Christ no.. Altho i realise now that he actually had a huge dick 🤣🤣🤣 |
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By *ffy.Woman 3 weeks ago
Fife |
"I’d rather stab myself in the eye.
Both eyes or just the one?"
Just the one. I need the other to side eye Kai with. |
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It's alright. After just saying lol, turns out she was only joking. Honestly would rather wank don't know why I even though about it, we weren't sexually compatible |
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Strangely i have continued sex with 3 of my ex girlfriends after we split, not my idea any of the times. i am friends with 95% of my exs... |
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Single, yes definitely. She is fucking gorgeous and we had so much sexual chemistry.
Spoken for, absolutely not. |
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By *ony MannMan 3 weeks ago
Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura |
I have, and would again |
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Would depend which ex.
Some yeah sure, some good god no |
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Certainly not, she's even erased from the wank bank |
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By *ucka39Man 3 weeks ago
Newcastle |
Nope and my ex has always had feelings a part from when she was cheating. She knows she fucked up, live and let learn |
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By *ony MannMan 3 weeks ago
Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura |
"Nope and my ex has always had feelings a part from when she was cheating. She knows she fucked up, live and let learn "
Cheated? Are you a swinger. I've never had a woman cheat on me. A few have not been willing to tell me. One sneaked off at a party, but how could a woman cheat on me? We swing. |
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By *inkShyWoman 3 weeks ago
near Windsor |
I'd sooner pour lemon juice on a paper cut |
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"My ex has been messaging saying "we should fuck (joking btw)" obviously isn't joking lets be honest. Would you fuck your ex just for an easy fuck or is it better to just not because she might still have feelings and that"
Always feelings involved, or feelings develope. |
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whilst there was more going on in the back ground.
yes i did
was she playing me yes and i knew it.
was i being used, yes.
she had an agenda that back fired on her
she wanted me to plaster a cupboard wall after she had ripped the cupboard out.
she didnt like that i told her to get her new boyfriend to do it.
after that she was an ex and i never went back.
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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago
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Depends on why she's your ex. If she's a real psychotic bitch then I'd probably give it a miss. If on the other hand you split amicably then why not. |
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I never got an orgams from any of my exs so absolutely not. |
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What's feelings precious?
Depends which ex. I'd definitely fuck the dead one if she was alive. |
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It's complicated, because technically she was never my partner, but we were an item for several years while she was actually married to another man (who is now her ex). She moved on, but I'd still fuck her. |
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By *ocas2Man 3 weeks ago
gwynedd |
If we fucked when we were together, there’d be a lot less chance she’d be my ex lol |
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Some I would but others I wouldn't. Some things just need a permanent line drawing under them. |
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By *batMan 3 weeks ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
I'd fuck me first ex wife, but I wouldn't want a relationship with her or want my sons to know I was banging their mum again.
My second ex, no way!
Gbat |
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By *ohnysteMan 3 weeks ago
newcastle under lyme |
"My ex has been messaging saying "we should fuck (joking btw)" obviously isn't joking lets be honest. Would you fuck your ex just for an easy fuck or is it better to just not because she might still have feelings and that"
I would luv to |
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By *uzzleMan 3 weeks ago
Hastings |
As has been said they're an ex for a reason but looking like I do, I can't be picky and a shag's a shag, so probably. |
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By *W_RedMan 3 weeks ago
Manchester |
I reckon I probably would because you'd both probably feel like you shouldn't be doing it so it would add to the excitement |
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I have quite a few ex gfs and one ex fiancee. None of which I'd be remotely interested in fucking again. There are a couple of one night stands I'd love to hook up with again, especially a certain Latvian girl...
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Almost did. Resisted her advances for seven years because I knew she still had feelings, finally relented and started making plans, at which point she gave me a bollocking, told me I was just the same as all the other internet fuckboys and blocked me. Should probably have stuck to my guns... |
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I’d most certainly now fuck my 2nd ex wife, she’s a lot sexier looking now but the first wife ???? There’s not enough gold in the world that would make me go and fuck that one. |
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Not for all the money in the world. Ex for a reason. |
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She's now a lesbian.....I'd definitely have a 3some with her and a women! |
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Depends on the ex, if I knew for certain they just wanted to fuck and nothing else then I would. We finished for a reason so I wouldn't want anybodies feelings getting hurt for the sake of a fuck. |
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They are ex for a reason so not in a million years.
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Have done & would do it again
Not all of them some got to see the new things I've learned since then & some the sex was good so why wouldn't I double back? |
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By *izmo99Man 2 weeks ago
Birmingham |
My personal ex he’ll no but the one before her and the one before her yes I guess it’s more about how things ended |
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My x and I don’t fuck but we openly txt each other about kinky things we’ve been up to. |
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By (user no longer on site) 2 weeks ago
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I definitely do her, and I still do. We just don’t get on as a couple. |
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By *rettyflamingoWoman 2 weeks ago
Where the flamboyance of flamingos live |
So many ex’s but the most recent one yes we have been meeting up and having sex. The sex was always great between us so why wouldn’t we? |
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Yes. I have fucked many of them. One in particular was my FB for more years than we were together |
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By *obbo2022Man 2 weeks ago
west end Newcastle |
Yeah I have fucked my ex.
Loads since we spit.
We are now fwb
Sex is amazing
Where going to start swinging again.
Back to club f |
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By *tu100Man 2 weeks ago
Southampton |
Depends on which ex it was. Have done it in the past and didnt regret it as hoped it would help get us back together (it didn't). |
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No. The me that was into him doesn't exist anymore |
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By *avexxMan 2 weeks ago
cheshire |
ive had many ex,s some i would and some i wouldnt |
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Won’t even speak to me never mind fuk me after what happened |
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By *ularliWoman 2 weeks ago
Worcester |
I did sleep with my ex (my daughters dad)
We used to have a great sex life and a few years back we flirted together quite a lot. Anyway I went to his one day and we ended up sleeping together.
I left wondering why I had done it.
I wouldn’t do it again. |
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God no,, jesus Christ no not if she was the last woman on earth. |
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Ex husband, no, other ‘ex’ people, maybe; X men: almost definitely yes. |
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Not my ex partner but I would some ex fb/fwb
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As much as you probably desire to stick your tongue in her fartbox you shouldn’t go there because the psychological impact is beyond measure, also if you are both ‘let’s fuck because it easy’ how fucking lazy is that, you could and should both do better, but x for a reason, ex for all season |
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If your going to do it great it always a fun thing getting with exs. However you need to have a conversation about feelings first and boundaries. |
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If she was the last pussy on the planet I,d just have a wa%& |
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"Ex husband, no, other ‘ex’ people, maybe; X men: almost definitely yes. "
Which of the X-Men is getting it first& who's not getting a chance? |
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I would Marry my ex if I had the chance.
She's the one that fucked off, not me |
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By *ucka39Man 2 weeks ago
Newcastle |
"Nope and my ex has always had feelings a part from when she was cheating. She knows she fucked up, live and let learn
Cheated? Are you a swinger. I've never had a woman cheat on me. A few have not been willing to tell me. One sneaked off at a party, but how could a woman cheat on me? We swing."
Was before the swing, I've moved on in my life, she had,so why not continue moving 😂🤣 it was a life choice |
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By *929Man 2 weeks ago
newcastle |
I wouldn’t touch her if she was the last lass on earth |
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But which EX, there a few from my youth that I wouldn't say no 2, they didn't cost me property and money  |
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Not a chance! The sex was great but she struggled with the loyalty bit. |
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By *rmdMan 2 weeks ago
chesterfield |
Yeah you know what’s what with each other easy mutual pleasure |
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By *ornycougaWoman 2 weeks ago
Wherever I lay my hat |
Yeah... But hell would need to freeze over first |
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Have often fucked my exs better the devil you know I guess. |
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It has happened and hopefully will again one day. |
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we split up due to her mum , we carried on fucking for 2 months, behind her mums back, great sex, but she was scared of sranding up to her mum, even her daughter messagwd me saying she missed me |
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Definitely not. It's dangerous having sex with someone that you had emotional connection with. |
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Absolutely not. I don't even find him attractive in any aspect anymore.
Mrs |
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Not if he was the last man on earth. I now know what I've been missing, after been loyal to his cheating arse. No going back now  |
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By *ascaIMan 2 weeks ago
Cheshire Liverpool Manchester |
She prefers women but yes. |
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She said I make her “flood” also I only had to look at her a certain way and her panties are drenched. On and off the past 10+ years even through her pregnancy when she was ravenous!
Over now though… I think lol |
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The last one? Fuck no. The ex before that? In a heartbeat |
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No she is an ex for a reason.
The sex was amazing, but not worth the hassle |
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Depends which one... Probably sensible to avoid though, remembering they're an ex for a reason! |
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I say, look where your going not where you have been,
But it does depend on which ex,
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A couple of ex partners, yes.
My ex wife, no f'kin way. |
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I would rather pop my eyeballs out and rinse the sockets with fairy liquid |
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"Would you fuck your ex just for an easy fuck?"
No. Fuck no, in fact. |
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By *a1970Man 3 days ago
East cork |
Or maybe...when finished your first shag say.. I'll call you and leave... |
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I’ve never really got the hang of the hatefuck thing. |
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My ex wife, not a fucking chance in hell. |
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For one that’s not possible.
For another, nah. |
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Yes and have done a few time, she live 300 miles away and every time I visit to see the kids we end up playing and in bed |
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"She prefers women but yes."
So does my ex now but I still would |
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By *emma200Woman 3 days ago
Warwickshire |
Absolutely not! There an ex for a reason.. |
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I'd rather jump in a live Volcano. |
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Why not, sometimes it's good to save the charge in your sex toys. |
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Only one of them yes. She was hot as fuck. |
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Probably. The only person that I’ve broken up with that I didn’t want to break up with |
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Ex-husband no I don't fancy him which is a big reason the marriage broke down. If the guy who took my virginity has aged well then yes.or the guy I was seeing at uni who would write me long letters about philosophy then absolutely yes. Maybe a threesome? |
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Yes definitely ..in a ideal world I would .. she was pretty hot in saying that she was 25 when we split over 25 yrs ago .. to be honest would love to but wouldn't |
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Don’t think it would be a good idea , could get messy in more ways than just sex ? |
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My ex wife? Absolutely not…
An ex girlfriend who I’m still on very good terms with, absolutely! |
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Absolutely not. Never, never, ever. He is a vile man.
Ruby |
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Some of them, fuck yes, others not a chance. |
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By *lakeyMan 3 days ago
Teesside |
Nah the last Ex was a psycho I did sleep with her for about 6 months after we split after she tried to top herself to keep herself happy in a way then I met somebody else and thought this needs to stop
She has been in contact in recent times and asked me once have I thought about sleeping with her again I said no she called me a liar well if I had thought I wasn’t going to tell her |
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I've 2 that is absolutely smash the back door off they wer unreal to fuck |
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Depends on the ex! Some I would, absolutely! Some others if we were the last two people left alive the human race would not be getting repopulated |
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By *h86Man 2 days ago
Glos |
I've always ended relationships on good terms and tried to remain as friends with exes. But exes are exes for a reason, a one night stand may be on the cards but anything more would be highly unlikely |
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Fuck you having a laught
That Bitch if she was in the
SS. She would been
SACKED FOR
CRUELTY
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By *with1Man 2 days ago
South East London |
No I would not coz of the reasons behind spliting up. I like it as it is her being a ex with no contact between us. |
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I have enjoyed her several times since splitting |
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Absolutely not... he was a awful shag anyway so why would I settle for less?
C xoxo |
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By *istr3ssWoman 2 days ago
Stockton-on-Tees |
The last 10 years that we were married (married 20 in total), he refused to even touch me. So, definitely not |
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Probably, but only to like do it properly for once |
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By *batMan 16 hours ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
Oooh! Just found out she’s getting married.
I’m really happy for her and wish them both all the best.
Gbat |
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"I’ve fucked my ex quite a few times, we ended on good terms, and now and again do have a spontaneous liaison.
It’s very much just sex though, no feelings involved, but as we know what each other like, it’s always good"
I like this answer |
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My ex is from ages back but if she around why not. My Mrs would join us though with this one |
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By *mpeyeMan 15 hours ago
Worthing |
Im friends with most of my existing & there are two in particular where if the circumstances were right lots of fun would be had.... |
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I’d prefer to hammer red hot nails through my bell end, than stick anything in side that thing again lol |
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My most recent ex, nope. The one before that definitely, she is one of the best lovers I ever had… |
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With someone who would happily see me dead and has said so many times????
Not a fucking chance in hell  |
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Depends which ex lol
One ex oh god yes ..cos she was the best fuck iv ever had ....amazing ..... Some others ..mayby not |
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By *reen2Couple 11 hours ago
Aberdeen |
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This is a very difficult question to answer! It’s not answerable at all for someone else…
For me:
Some of them yes. Some def not. It depends why we split and obviously only if the wife was ok with it (she’s actively tried to make it happen with a couple of mine). |
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It would all depend which ex lol I can think of two I would and the rest no. |
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Nope! But I’d fuck plenty of all of your ex’s no doubt 🤣 |
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