If you are not a spiritual person with high levels of awareness, detachment from
Material , self etc I don’t really see how Tantric sex can be on your radar.
It’s not just a bloody good orgasm or special pussy massage to make you squirt for half an hour.
It’s the transcendence of the physical during sex.
If you genuinely want to learn about Tantric sex start by learning about being spritual and techniques for detaching yourself from things like material, judging and the self |
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By *ripfillMan 12 weeks ago
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It has Indian origins going back over 2000 years
In fact Yoni ( the preferred massage route for me) is part of tantric therapy
It’s a mind and body thing where it’s about reaching a level of control and meditation- which is key
Environment, calm , music , warmth , naked , are essential.. with oils suggest edible like I like to use almond oil it’s great for the skin but check before hand if there could be a reaction always first !!!!
Patience , time are very important keys
Sanskrit was the original text it was translated from
There are courses on which you can enrol also distance leaning packages which is of some use
Check out Dr Google for details however
A work shop environment is best
Yoni is a part of vagina massage originally designed to help with trauma ! In 1978 I German. Published a book on turning it into giving massage experience which is the current “text” book
I leant in a Workshop outside of Paris some years ago but as they say still
Leaning ! And giving …
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I learned a little about it over 2 weeks last summer. It was definitely more of a spiritual, inner connectedness that was transcendent and transformative. It's not something I'd seek in a casual dalliance.
It's something I'd be eager to learn more about. |
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I think there's a lot of mix up between Neotantra and Tantra.
There's a quote by the Dalai Lama that describes Tantra as a system to attain enlightenment in the space of one lifetime. Compared to yoga which takes many lifetimes.
Neotantra came about in the 60's and 70's with the counterculture and while it has it's roots in tantra, and as with a lot of eastern traditions that are subsumed in the west, tends to forgoe the esoteric traditions. Yoga is a good example where most people in the west would associated it with stretching and have little knowledge of the other seven disciplines.
From my own experience I would say that if one is propeller powered airplane, the other is jet powered rocket. |
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By *eganMay OP Woman 12 weeks ago
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"If you are not a spiritual person with high levels of awareness, detachment from
Material , self etc I don’t really see how Tantric sex can be on your radar.
It’s not just a bloody good orgasm or special pussy massage to make you squirt for half an hour.
It’s the transcendence of the physical during sex.
If you genuinely want to learn about Tantric sex start by learning about being spritual and techniques for detaching yourself from things like material, judging and the self"
Thank you for replying, but you haven’t really answered my questions, you just explained what you think any woman asking about something like that on fab would be really after in your view.
I know what it’s not. I’ve been practising yoga on and off for 20 years. In my mind it’s an extension of that.
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I realised I didn't answer your question either. My experience is as limited as my interest but I found courses' and did some training to learn what I wanted.
The best one was a week long residential training in traditional Tantra techniques. In person and in groups is, as far as I know, the recommended way to learn.
(Neo)Tantra is big business in the west and can be very expensive. I tend to avoid those kinds of places.
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