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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago
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Have not been on here that long, but I do understand that a lot of women get a lot of messages daily and it is very hard to keep up with them, and many multi delete. but have sent messages before and they haven't been read, maybe due to not being seen, how many times would you say is appropriate to Keep messaging till you get a reply? Or is it a case they do see it and choose to ignore. Please don't shoot me down for asking what may be a silly question. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago
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"Once and once only. If they don’t respond or delete, take it as a polite no thank you and move on.
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But many women claim that they missed messages hence people don't get a reply hence my question |
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By *agic.MMan 12 weeks ago
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I believe you should message once...regardless if they read the message or not...regardless if they read it but don't reply. Once.. and only once. If a woman doesn't put in the effort to go through her messages, why would you put so much effort in getting her attention? Let's take a bit of pride in ourselves as men and not become so desperate  |
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By *uzzleMan 12 weeks ago
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Some people message and it doesn't even get read or deleted.
This could be for various reasons but typically because they've had a peek at your profile and you haven't met their criteria such as no beards or aren't 6' tall etc etc. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 12 weeks ago
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"Once and once only. If they don’t respond or delete, take it as a polite no thank you and move on.
Exactly this. "
But what about people that multi delete and get 500 messages just cause they never saw mine doesn't mean to say they wouldn't be into me? |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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The general rule would be once.
But personally I know I've deleted/not replied to messages from guys I've gone on to meet. If I'm in a bad mood I ignore everyone, so sometimes another message is good. |
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By *inkShyWoman 12 weeks ago
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Generally once, however I don't mind if I get a second message that is polite as like you say, I sometimes miss messages.
What I don't like is when the first message is blunt or crude, and gets followed up by abuse or further crude messages. |
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