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Do you like shy people?
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I’ve deliberately made this one non gender specific.
Do you like more confident outgoing types on here or does it not matter much?
What are your feelings on your own personality and how it has or hasn’t impacted success on here? |
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I don't actively seek out shy people, but I kind of like shyness in people. Makes them more relatable to myself.
Me personally am massively shy in group situations or being in new environments. But it's something I've worked on recently and I'm loads better than I was. I would say shyness does impact success on Fab, but I'm good with that. |
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I don't dislike or like someone just because they're shy there has to be more to it.
I have absolutely no idea how my personality has impacted my success. I suspect it's more about the physical than many would be prepared to admit |
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Quiet people are often mistaken for being shy, and lacking in confidence. Of course that is true for some, but some of us are just more interested in listening to others, without feeling the need to impose ourselves x |
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Mine is kind of a lack of confidence and not good at starting conversations. I can happily chat with people once its started, but do tend to spend more time listening to others. I'm also very self conscious and funny like to dance or talk loudly in big groups. I'd say looking back now its quite clear I'm probably neuro divergent in many ways and im probably socially anxious but hide it quite well |
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By *HUSH-Man 12 weeks ago
London |
1. It doesn’t matter too much to me. I do struggle with people that are very shy though but I try and be patient because I have a bit of it myself. It’s a quality that can be endearing if it’s not excessive.
2. My personality is quite introverted. It’s becoming clear that I’m going to have to get out of my comfort zone a lot if I’m to make the most of this place. I’m getting there. |
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Depends on in which context we use shy.
I used to be a very shy person at one point. Extreme drop in confidence.
I'm introverted. I don't like large crowds, I do not like to bring too much attention to myself.
I like people that are similar. Those that take time to warm up to a situation.
But complete and total maximum in their hiding away and never speaking up. Just constantly on the side lines with zero confidence at all.
Not really. I have empathy for them but trying to socialise even one on one can be a chore. |
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"I wouldn't rule them out because they are shy. However the initial meet up with them would be pretty awkward because I'm very shy initially. So, if you like an awkward AF social, hmu  "
Sounds like my sort of thing lol. Nice big drink so can sip on that whenever there's a quiet spell...  |
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By *a LunaWoman 12 weeks ago
South Wales |
I do, BUT…as an extremely shy person myself, it can make for awkward first encounters.
I feel more relaxed around more outgoing folk because they tend to carry the conversation and the awkward silences feel less awkward.
And if I fancy someone I get even more shy, and can barely look at them, so it can be a bit of a nightmare.
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"I do, BUT…as an extremely shy person myself, it can make for awkward first encounters.
I feel more relaxed around more outgoing folk because they tend to carry the conversation and the awkward silences feel less awkward.
And if I fancy someone I get even more shy, and can barely look at them, so it can be a bit of a nightmare.
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Sounds exactly like me.... |
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"I don’t want somebody that’s loving everybody.
I need a shy guy.
The kinda guy
That’ll always be mine.
Oh lord have mercy...
Have played this over and over!"
YES! My people!!
I’ve not stopped playing it tonight |
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Not shy but quieter, understated women are hot & energising. Loud , grasping for attention types are draining & turn me off. I like a mix of personalities. I think this lifestyle is great for that. |
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"I’m not shy as such, more socially awkward, I’m fine once I met the person a few times, I’m not great at a social or club to start, even though I go by myself .
I prefer to be with outgoing men "
That's probably more me, I'm socially awkward, I'm very much a people person, and I have 2 variations, either "I'm never going to see these people again, so I can be outrageous" or "I want these people to like me, so need to keep myself in check" |
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The people I've met on here have nearly all been shyer/quieter than their online personality suggests! I don't have a preference when it comes to how outgoing someone is. It's usually someone's sense of humour that draws me in.
I'm fairly quiet and reserved in group settings and open up more 1 to 1. I'm not sure if that's impacted anything on here.
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Doesn’t matter much to me, it’s nice to find out about people and sometimes that’s harder if they’re outwardly chatty.
Having honest conversations with someone is making ourselves a bit vulnerable, and that’s needed in a relationship and even for just getting naked together. |
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I'm a sucker for a shy, seemingly unconfident personality that stands its ground on something it holds important.
Often shaking, flustered, and with words coming out mangled and in the wrong order.
But they stand their ground.
I love that.
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Nothing wrong with be shy it take a while for someone to come out of there shell it's easier if they aren't but at the same time when someone is shy and starts coming out of there shell with makes it more Intermet personally |
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Don't they say ,, it's always the shy or quiet ones you need to watch out for,,
So never judge a book by it's cover,,
I myself am shy enough, cough cough,  , so of course I like shy people. |
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