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"Why do straight men say they are straight when they wanna meet TV/TS profiles
Because trans women are women
Can of worms here
It’s really not "
lol ok if you say so, quite a big topic atm although shouldn’t be, trans women are trans women not women but I respect them for who they are |
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"This question will go together with “is it pee”’in life’s unanswered questions department.
It ain't pee 🤣
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It definitely ain't pee and it's worth all the patients in the world to get that gushing nectar flowing through your mouth |
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Because some men consider themselves straight even if they fuck/meet 100 men as even though they have sex with them as they don't find them attractive in a relationship way they think it doesn't count some how |
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A lot of bi men have internalised biphobia and are scared to admit it to themselves or others. It’s not their fault necessarily, the stigma against bi men is huge. I read that only 11% of bi men are open about it, which is really sad.
I think a lot of men also have a fear of doing anything that would be perceived to be emasculating. |
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Because fab have bundled TV/CD and TS into the same category.
So a straight man may very well be happy to meet a TS woman, but not a TV, however no way of separating those on the 'looking for' category. |
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lol ok if you say so, quite a big topic atm although shouldn’t be, trans women are trans women not women but I respect them for who they are
The law of the land disagrees with you, I’m afraid."
Law of the land isn’t always right especially in this case |
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Howabout you mind yo’ own bidness and let anyone identify as they wish? Gender is far more complex a topic than just anatomy as most comments allude to.
If I meet a man for a fun interaction, I don’t care what he identifies as. Why is it any of my business?
Those of you who seem beholden to platinum straight labels should probably use Christmas to do some soul searching.
*drops mic, toddles off on five inch heels and hits head on door framw* |
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I’m open to post op trans women but not tv/cd and I would say that still makes me straight because it walks and talks like a beautiful woman then 🤷🏻♂️but my personal opinion is we’re all too obsessed with labelling everything. Be yourself, live your life, be kind to another, what else matters?  |
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First in my experience on the scene many men are straight(ish) rather than straight. Not necessarily 100% bi but a little more flexible in particular sexual spaces/moments.
Personally for me, no, I have no intrest in TV/CDs myself or any penis in general. Especially when (if I understand right) TV/CD are traditionally men who feel sexy in female dress/persona but still feel they are men and are not the same as trans-women who are women born with XY chromosomes. Not that I am not comfortable around TV/CD's in a group situation (this has never been a problem), same as any other guy. My attraction (which I believe is most accurate to say is straight) is not so much about gender identity to be fair if I look into what actually turns me on. It's more accurately based on great chemistry, great minds and female genitalia. Which also mean yes in theory to Post Op Trans-women and Pre Op Trans-men. I've had a couple of great experiences with pre-op trans-men (who btw the way knew where I stand and were ok with that). By The key thing is I've been attracted to their personally as an individual and their female physiology rather than the gender they identity as. Penis' and their owners just hold no sexual intrest to me.
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By *glyBettyTV/TS 5 weeks ago
About 3 feet away from the fence |
"Reading this thread I’m now curious how my fab experience might be different if I just changed my category from TV/TS to M. "
On fab guys I was 'M', although still dressing, but not really doing the full make up & wig thing yet (I have a couple of throwback pics from that account on this one)
I think I actually got more meets via the site on there than I've ever had on here. |
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"I've met a TV/TS (and a 'transwoman') on a number of occasions. I'm straight.
What does that tell you?
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Tells me your not straight but it’s not for me to label you pal
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Are you straight??"
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Let me give you some insight, OP, and put some context to the above...
I've met the aforementioned, for coffee, for cocktails, for steak, frites and Gin, and nibbles and snacks and chocolates. I've met them for the above in a pub, a cocktail bar and even in their homes. I'm still straight because of it. It might also have something to do with the fact that my phallus remained zipped up at all times and comfortably ensconced within my underwear. 🩶
One can be straight and still fraternise with TV/TS. |
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"I've met a TV/TS (and a 'transwoman') on a number of occasions. I'm straight.
What does that tell you?
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Tells me your not straight but it’s not for me to label you pal
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Are you straight??
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Let me give you some insight, OP, and put some context to the above...
I've met the aforementioned, for coffee, for cocktails, for steak, frites and Gin, and nibbles and snacks and chocolates. I've met them for the above in a pub, a cocktail bar and even in their homes. I'm still straight because of it. It might also have something to do with the fact that my phallus remained zipped up at all times and comfortably ensconced within my underwear. 🩶
One can be straight and still fraternise with TV/TS."
Oh but Nero, you can’t have a verification from a guy/TV/TS and still be straight! All verifications HAVE to be sexual, it’s the law |
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"I've met a TV/TS (and a 'transwoman') on a number of occasions. I'm straight.
What does that tell you?
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Tells me your not straight but it’s not for me to label you pal
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Are you straight??
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Let me give you some insight, OP, and put some context to the above...
I've met the aforementioned, for coffee, for cocktails, for steak, frites and Gin, and nibbles and snacks and chocolates. I've met them for the above in a pub, a cocktail bar and even in their homes. I'm still straight because of it. It might also have something to do with the fact that my phallus remained zipped up at all times and comfortably ensconced within my underwear. 🩶
One can be straight and still fraternise with TV/TS.
Oh but Nero, you can’t have a verification from a guy/TV/TS and still be straight! All verifications HAVE to be sexual, it’s the law"
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Thank you dear fellow. I have duly noted this in my green velvetine vintage Smythson™ notebook, gifted to me by _olly_chromatic and signed on the frontispiece.🩶 |
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"I've met a TV/TS (and a 'transwoman') on a number of occasions. I'm straight.
What does that tell you?
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Tells me your not straight but it’s not for me to label you pal
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Are you straight??
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Let me give you some insight, OP, and put some context to the above...
I've met the aforementioned, for coffee, for cocktails, for steak, frites and Gin, and nibbles and snacks and chocolates. I've met them for the above in a pub, a cocktail bar and even in their homes. I'm still straight because of it. It might also have something to do with the fact that my phallus remained zipped up at all times and comfortably ensconced within my underwear. 🩶
One can be straight and still fraternise with TV/TS."
I can vouch for this. I cook a great steak. |
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"Probably the same straight men that offer me BJs 🤷🏻♂️ I believe the term is "Fab straight" which means not straight at all 😂"
lol I’m straight but very curious lol never give BJ before but I’d suck ya off
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By *ony MannMan 5 weeks ago
Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura |
Some bi guys are afraid of scaring couples with straight men, so say they are straight.
I moved slowly towards bei g bi and was even slower changing by profile. When I did it opened a flood of mail from men...which I did not want. I'm more bi in a group but the is no option for that. |
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"I honestly think you’re not really a swinger if you’re fully straight "
So partner swapping, spit roasting, gangbangs aren't part of swinging?
You have to be bi to be a swinger?
Very narrow minded view |
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So partner swapping, spit roasting, gangbangs aren't part of swinging?
You have to be bi to be a swinger?
Very narrow minded view"
I just don’t see how it’s sexual liberation if you’re still upholding heteronormativity… just my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago
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"Why do straight men say they are straight when they wanna meet TV/TS profiles
As meeting with Trans woman is completely different than meeting with woman and trans woman are woman "
Eerrmm🤔 |
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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago
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BS 
Lol the hets are so triggered by the idea they might be normie 😂"
What’s a normie? If that means normal then I’m not triggered (bs word) but proud of myself and also delighted to be a straight and single “NORMIE” 😉 |
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"Straight and Fab Straight are two different things.
No they are not. I’m straight in all walks of life.
You’re a “NORMIE” too 😂😂😂😂😂😂👏🏽"
That’s a bad thing right? Makes me less of a swinger right 😂😂😂 |
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The majority of people are here for sex, straight or otherwise. I know from my experience of clubs and this site (forum posts mainly) that experimenting is quite normal on here, even with totally straight guys and couples.
An experience doesn’t change your sexuality, it’s just experimenting and this site is the perfect place to do it. So a guy who’s straight or even a couple may see someone they find attractive or interesting and decide to try something new. The straight on their profile doesn’t make them a liar or disingenuous as that’s how they see themselves and in all honesty it’s non of our business what they get up to.
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"Why do straight men say they are straight when they wanna meet TV/TS profiles "
Boils down to this:
Pole or hole - what are you looking for?
If it's hole, then there's very little difference between the sexes.
But if you want me to ram some man meat up your chufter, then that's not going to work for a number of reasons. Mainly, because most trans gurls are bottoms due to having a real dislike of what they were born with.
So yeah, liking trans folk = not gay or bi, unless you want to bottom to one.
You can of course still have a preference, but that shouldn't get in the way of you exploring the fun parts of life given the chance!
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So partner swapping, spit roasting, gangbangs aren't part of swinging?
You have to be bi to be a swinger?
Very narrow minded view
I just don’t see how it’s sexual liberation if you’re still upholding heteronormativity… just my opinion "
Who said swinging has to be about liberation?
Who says liberation is solely focused on exploring sex with multiple genders?
"Swinging, earlier commonly known as wife-swapping, is a sexual activity in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship sexually engage with others for recreational purposes. Swinging is a form of non-monogamy."
Funnily enough doesn't mention anything about sexuality or genders? |
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"Why do straight men say they are straight when they wanna meet TV/TS profiles
Because trans women are women
Came here to post exactly this. "
Me too
Trans women are women
Trans men are men
It's not that difficult to understand |
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Not saying that all TVs, or however they identify are trans or need to be trans, it's literally not up to anyone else to define what someone's sexuality means to them, whatever label you feel most comfortable with is best for you |
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