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And then you bitch n twist when you're not?... Why, why would you REALLY think it's that easy?
Your Mrs lost interest 10yrs ago, but you think a hazy shot of you in your briefs, and saying you're up to bang all the ladies will bring their milkshake to your car?
You state you're seeking 'quality over quantity'... Like there's any kind of quantity 
You hit up all the profiles within your region and do not get a reply?...
And then you post - why am I having no luck on here?... Ask yourself? Genuinely do! And then come back to asking yourself in a month. If you still can't suss why
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"And then a bunch of whinging women post about a non existent person because the can't find a partner who will "engage my mind" Insist on sending dick pics Won't send the "code" word in their bio..to prove they've read it. Doesn't bother to read the gettysburgh address aka their profile...two way street ladies..two way street.." I sincerely apologise to all the guys the op is referring to for having standards. Shame on me | |||
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"And then a bunch of whinging women post about a non existent person because the can't find a partner who will "engage my mind" Insist on sending dick pics Won't send the "code" word in their bio..to prove they've read it. Doesn't bother to read the gettysburgh address aka their profile...two way street ladies..two way street.." Why read a profile? This is a sex site so we're all just here to bang everything. No words, only fuck 💜 | |||
"And then a bunch of whinging women post about a non existent person because the can't find a partner who will "engage my mind" Insist on sending dick pics Won't send the "code" word in their bio..to prove they've read it. Doesn't bother to read the gettysburgh address aka their profile...two way street ladies..two way street.. Why read a profile? This is a sex site so we're all just here to bang everything. No words, only fuck 💜" ...well she started the generalisation...not me | |||
"And then a bunch of whinging women post about a non existent person because the can't find a partner who will "engage my mind" Insist on sending dick pics Won't send the "code" word in their bio..to prove they've read it. Doesn't bother to read the gettysburgh address aka their profile...two way street ladies..two way street.." Ladies, bow down. Sex God has spoken. | |||
"I get it! I really do! You're horny, you're seeking a 'quick fix'. You think it's a sex site. You bang up a no profile pic, no bio. And you think you'll be knee deep in clunge within the week
And then you bitch n twist when you're not?... Why, why would you REALLY think it's that easy?
Your Mrs lost interest 10yrs ago, but you think a hazy shot of you in your briefs, and saying you're up to bang all the ladies will bring their milkshake to your car?
You state you're seeking 'quality over quantity'... Like there's any kind of quantity
You hit up all the profiles within your region and do not get a reply?...
And then you post - why am I having no luck on here?... Ask yourself? Genuinely do! And then come back to asking yourself in a month. If you still can't suss why
"I often think this of some of the whining I see. I just don't tell the fucktards | |||
"And then a bunch of whinging women post about a non existent person because the can't find a partner who will "engage my mind" Insist on sending dick pics Won't send the "code" word in their bio..to prove they've read it. Doesn't bother to read the gettysburgh address aka their profile...two way street ladies..two way street.. Ladies, bow down. Sex God has spoken. " ...someone disagreed with you....? Boo hoo | |||
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"And then a bunch of whinging women post about a non existent person because the can't find a partner who will "engage my mind" Insist on sending dick pics Won't send the "code" word in their bio..to prove they've read it. Doesn't bother to read the gettysburgh address aka their profile...two way street ladies..two way street.. Why read a profile? This is a sex site so we're all just here to bang everything. No words, only fuck 💜" I do think lots see the word "swingers" and think "gloryholes" | |||
"Couldn't have put it better myself. You mean women really aren't replying to "Hi" or "wana fuck?" Really surprising hahah" ...I totally agree | |||
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"Couldn't have put it better myself. You mean women really aren't replying to "Hi" or "wana fuck?" Really surprising hahah" What you mean you don't want to reply to that belter..... Can I ask you a question? | |||
"Couldn't have put it better myself. You mean women really aren't replying to "Hi" or "wana fuck?" Really surprising hahah" Some guys don't either! 😱 | |||
"I get it! I really do! You're horny, you're seeking a 'quick fix'. You think it's a sex site. You bang up a no profile pic, no bio. And you think you'll be knee deep in clunge within the week
And then you bitch n twist when you're not?... Why, why would you REALLY think it's that easy?
Your Mrs lost interest 10yrs ago, but you think a hazy shot of you in your briefs, and saying you're up to bang all the ladies will bring their milkshake to your car?
You state you're seeking 'quality over quantity'... Like there's any kind of quantity
You hit up all the profiles within your region and do not get a reply?...
And then you post - why am I having no luck on here?... Ask yourself? Genuinely do! And then come back to asking yourself in a month. If you still can't suss why
"And then they have an idea... maybe I'll bang a trannie... I'll be fine as long as I don't touch the cock..😹😹😹 | |||
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"Welcome to man bashing Monday...hahaha " Where do you want bashing today ? | |||
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"Welcome to man bashing Monday...hahaha " It can feel like that but reality it is bashing any individual or any couple who joins here, with a sense of entitlement and thinks they will be knee deep in nsa free sex within weeks. Free sex that fulfills their own desires regardless of the needs and desires of the person or persons they are having sex with. It's a swinging site where sex does frequently happen alongside connection and conversations. And whilst there is never any exchange of ££ .... it is about mutually pleasurable desires and encounters, to which you need to give in order to receive your own pleasure. | |||
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"I just can’t figure out where I’m going wrong? I’ve not had a single meet from this site. I can’t be that ugly can I? Haha. " There’s always dudes……. 
Just sayin babe | |||
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"Well that told you lot!" ...and it's only Monday morning 😱 | |||
"put on a pedestal" I think you'll find the term is to be "put on a pedal stool." I find this whole thread to be a damp squid. | |||
"And then a bunch of whinging women post about a non existent person because the can't find a partner who will "engage my mind" Insist on sending dick pics Won't send the "code" word in their bio..to prove they've read it. Doesn't bother to read the gettysburgh address aka their profile...two way street ladies..two way street.." If you can't be arsed to read their profile then don't waste their time with a message. Simples. | |||
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"Only women can complain about 1) The quality of men 2) The stupid profiles 3) The number of ridiculous messages. 4) Anything else Men, hold your tongue and don't complain. Women are entitled and put on a pedestal to be worshipped. Remember, complain about women at your peril. " Usually the women that wouldn’t get a second look in the real world. | |||
"Only women can complain about 1) The quality of men 2) The stupid profiles 3) The number of ridiculous messages. 4) Anything else Men, hold your tongue and don't complain. Women are entitled and put on a pedestal to be worshipped. Remember, complain about women at your peril. Usually the women that wouldn’t get a second look in the real world. " This !  | |||
"I just can’t figure out where I’m going wrong? I’ve not had a single meet from this site. I can’t be that ugly can I? Haha. There’s always dudes…….
Just sayin babe "Something to think about  | |||
"And then a bunch of whinging women post about a non existent person because the can't find a partner who will "engage my mind" Insist on sending dick pics Won't send the "code" word in their bio..to prove they've read it. Doesn't bother to read the gettysburgh address aka their profile...two way street ladies..two way street.." To be completely honest mate. OP is right. One of my veris showed her FAB inbox to me and it was a sea of dick pics for profile pictures “Hey, Hi, chat now, cum on your tits?” as opening messages and photos which must have been taken on a Nokia 3310. That’s leaving out the threatening messages for her not replying to them too. | |||
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"And then a bunch of whinging women post about a non existent person because the can't find a partner who will "engage my mind" Insist on sending dick pics Won't send the "code" word in their bio..to prove they've read it. Doesn't bother to read the gettysburgh address aka their profile...two way street ladies..two way street.. To be completely honest mate. OP is right. One of my veris showed her FAB inbox to me and it was a sea of dick pics for profile pictures “Hey, Hi, chat now, cum on your tits?” as opening messages and photos which must have been taken on a Nokia 3310. That’s leaving out the threatening messages for her not replying to them too. " ...you'll probably get a pat on the head for that...hahaha | |||
"I’ve had a lot of men stating they haven’t read my profile because it’s too long…….it really isn’t!" It's really isn't a long profile. Lazy buggers! 😂 | |||
"And then a bunch of whinging women post about a non existent person because the can't find a partner who will "engage my mind" Insist on sending dick pics Won't send the "code" word in their bio..to prove they've read it. Doesn't bother to read the gettysburgh address aka their profile...two way street ladies..two way street.. If you can't be arsed to read their profile then don't waste their time with a message. Simples." ...one tends to lose interest after the third or forth chapter 🤔 | |||
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"And then a bunch of whinging women post about a non existent person because the can't find a partner who will "engage my mind" Insist on sending dick pics Won't send the "code" word in their bio..to prove they've read it. Doesn't bother to read the gettysburgh address aka their profile...two way street ladies..two way street.. To be completely honest mate. OP is right. One of my veris showed her FAB inbox to me and it was a sea of dick pics for profile pictures “Hey, Hi, chat now, cum on your tits?” as opening messages and photos which must have been taken on a Nokia 3310. That’s leaving out the threatening messages for her not replying to them too. ...you'll probably get a pat on the head for that...hahaha " It’s not pats on the head I’m getting….  | |||
"And then a bunch of whinging women post about a non existent person because the can't find a partner who will "engage my mind" Insist on sending dick pics Won't send the "code" word in their bio..to prove they've read it. Doesn't bother to read the gettysburgh address aka their profile...two way street ladies..two way street.. To be completely honest mate. OP is right. One of my veris showed her FAB inbox to me and it was a sea of dick pics for profile pictures “Hey, Hi, chat now, cum on your tits?” as opening messages and photos which must have been taken on a Nokia 3310. That’s leaving out the threatening messages for her not replying to them too. ...you'll probably get a pat on the head for that...hahaha It’s not pats on the head I’m getting…. "...a subtle bit of white knightery nonetheless... | |||
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"I get it! I really do! You're horny, you're seeking a 'quick fix'. You think it's a sex site. You bang up a no profile pic, no bio. And you think you'll be knee deep in clunge within the week
And then you bitch n twist when you're not?... Why, why would you REALLY think it's that easy?
Your Mrs lost interest 10yrs ago, but you think a hazy shot of you in your briefs, and saying you're up to bang all the ladies will bring their milkshake to your car?
You state you're seeking 'quality over quantity'... Like there's any kind of quantity
You hit up all the profiles within your region and do not get a reply?...
And then you post - why am I having no luck on here?... Ask yourself? Genuinely do! And then come back to asking yourself in a month. If you still can't suss why
"Made me chuckle this which is needed on a Monday morning. | |||
"Errrr.. Yes Fab is a sex site last time we checked, not eharmony. We know women get inundated with messages and dick pics but you get the same on a normal dating site. Sounds like you got stood up by someone you liked and it's every bloke's fault on this site. We did open our profile to single guys for the missus and I was surprised how more respectful decent messages she got oppose to nasty ones. You put yourself on here, so don't complain if you aren't adored and worshipped only by adonis's. BTW some couple and single female profiles are just as shite as single male profiles. Maybe you need to calm your ego, just saying " I think most dating sites stop you being able to send pictures to matches in the app because of unsolicited dick pics. Progressive. Also you only chat to people you match with. So you have more control over who you receive messages from. | |||
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"Well someone’s got out of the wrong side of the bed! " | |||
"And then a bunch of whinging women post about a non existent person because the can't find a partner who will "engage my mind" Insist on sending dick pics Won't send the "code" word in their bio..to prove they've read it. Doesn't bother to read the gettysburgh address aka their profile...two way street ladies..two way street.. To be completely honest mate. OP is right. One of my veris showed her FAB inbox to me and it was a sea of dick pics for profile pictures “Hey, Hi, chat now, cum on your tits?” as opening messages and photos which must have been taken on a Nokia 3310. That’s leaving out the threatening messages for her not replying to them too. ...you'll probably get a pat on the head for that...hahaha It’s not pats on the head I’m getting…. ...a subtle bit of white knightery nonetheless..."And there’s no shortage of men on here who put zero effort into their profiles, pictures and messages and then complain that they can’t meet anyone. | |||
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"Great post, OP 😆 It is indeed SO unfair when there just isn't a queue of willing slags to provide a sex vending machine service for all the guys who "need draining". Poor lambs!" A queue of willing slags...... The positivity in this thread is outstanding. | |||
"And then a bunch of whinging women post about a non existent person because the can't find a partner who will "engage my mind" Insist on sending dick pics Won't send the "code" word in their bio..to prove they've read it. Doesn't bother to read the gettysburgh address aka their profile...two way street ladies..two way street.. To be completely honest mate. OP is right. One of my veris showed her FAB inbox to me and it was a sea of dick pics for profile pictures “Hey, Hi, chat now, cum on your tits?” as opening messages and photos which must have been taken on a Nokia 3310. That’s leaving out the threatening messages for her not replying to them too. ...you'll probably get a pat on the head for that...hahaha It’s not pats on the head I’m getting…. ...a subtle bit of white knightery nonetheless...
And there’s no shortage of men on here who put zero effort into their profiles, pictures and messages and then complain that they can’t meet anyone.
"...do you want to borrow my horse..? | |||
"And then a bunch of whinging women post about a non existent person because the can't find a partner who will "engage my mind" Insist on sending dick pics Won't send the "code" word in their bio..to prove they've read it. Doesn't bother to read the gettysburgh address aka their profile...two way street ladies..two way street.. To be completely honest mate. OP is right. One of my veris showed her FAB inbox to me and it was a sea of dick pics for profile pictures “Hey, Hi, chat now, cum on your tits?” as opening messages and photos which must have been taken on a Nokia 3310. That’s leaving out the threatening messages for her not replying to them too. ...you'll probably get a pat on the head for that...hahaha It’s not pats on the head I’m getting…. ...a subtle bit of white knightery nonetheless...
And there’s no shortage of men on here who put zero effort into their profiles, pictures and messages and then complain that they can’t meet anyone.
...do you want to borrow my horse..?"Is it higher than the one he’s riding already? | |||
"put on a pedestal I think you'll find the term is to be "put on a pedal stool." I find this whole thread to be a damp squid." I see you as a suppository of wisdom. | |||
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"I'm being lazy lately and deleting any messages from men I'm not interested in from their message or bio. I can't be arsed to reply any more to married men, men miles away, smokers, can't accommodate, pics of female genitalia on their profile, disparaging remarks about Fab women blah blah blah ad nauseum. If/when I can be bothered again I'll make some effort on my own profile and maybe go a-hunting." My preference of course. Some women won't be put off my these things. | |||
"And then a bunch of whinging women post about a non existent person because the can't find a partner who will "engage my mind" Insist on sending dick pics Won't send the "code" word in their bio..to prove they've read it. Doesn't bother to read the gettysburgh address aka their profile...two way street ladies..two way street.. To be completely honest mate. OP is right. One of my veris showed her FAB inbox to me and it was a sea of dick pics for profile pictures “Hey, Hi, chat now, cum on your tits?” as opening messages and photos which must have been taken on a Nokia 3310. That’s leaving out the threatening messages for her not replying to them too. ...you'll probably get a pat on the head for that...hahaha It’s not pats on the head I’m getting…. ...a subtle bit of white knightery nonetheless...
And there’s no shortage of men on here who put zero effort into their profiles, pictures and messages and then complain that they can’t meet anyone.
...do you want to borrow my horse..?"OP states what should be obvious on here. I agree with her statement and you seem to think that makes me a white knight. Then when I point out that most men’s profiles on here are lazy, generic and half arsed that MUST mean I’m on a high horse and not you know, stating the obvious again. | |||
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"I get it! I really do! You're horny, you're seeking a 'quick fix'. You think it's a sex site. You bang up a no profile pic, no bio. And you think you'll be knee deep in clunge within the week
And then you bitch n twist when you're not?... Why, why would you REALLY think it's that easy?
Your Mrs lost interest 10yrs ago, but you think a hazy shot of you in your briefs, and saying you're up to bang all the ladies will bring their milkshake to your car?
You state you're seeking 'quality over quantity'... Like there's any kind of quantity
You hit up all the profiles within your region and do not get a reply?...
And then you post - why am I having no luck on here?... Ask yourself? Genuinely do! And then come back to asking yourself in a month. If you still can't suss why
"“knee deep in clunge” love the post 😂😂😂 | |||
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"I don't usually weigh on these kinds of threads - can't be bothered with the drama of it all - but today, I'll offer an observation... feel free to take it with a pinch of salt. We live in an immediate, instant gratification society. Want to buy something, one click and it arrives. Want to watch a movie, one click, and it's there instantly on our teleboxes. Feeling hungry, one click and you can have almost anything delivered to your door. Everybody, everybody, wants the immediate convenience of the modern world. We have lost the art of patience. We have also lost the art of communication. One line messages... that's what texting is all about. Nobody reads, nobody writes, and everybody wants everything instantly. This is the world we have built for ourselves. For some, fully immersed in this society, who arrive on Fab and are confronted with an endless procession of graphic images and videos, not made by unreachable, air-brushed and enhanced pros hiding behind pay walls, but made and posted by people who appear authentic and ordinary and are - incredibly! - just one click away from some kind of free interaction, perhaps it is hard to understand that there is a real person sitting behind that profile. For those with no experience in the scene, who have been raised on a diet of porn, with reduced communication abilities because they've spent all their lives looking into a screen instead of learning to communicate, it must seem that Fab isn't that much different from Just Eat. Look at the pictures, choose what takes your fancy, hit a few buttons, and hey look, there is your desire delivered to your door a few minutes later. It's hardly surprising that many who venture on here simply don't understand. Their experience of the 'real world' is mediated through instant gratification at the push of a button. Complaining - and there are endless, endless threads about this - will make precisely zero difference. Perhaps some form of education is the only way to go... but really, who can be arsed with that? Xx " You should weigh in more often as that was a great point as well as an interesting read | |||
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"Only women can complain about 1) The quality of men 2) The stupid profiles 3) The number of ridiculous messages. 4) Anything else Men, hold your tongue and don't complain. Women are entitled and put on a pedestal to be worshipped. Remember, complain about women at your peril. " I have nothing to complain about regarding this site. If I get stupid messages I ignore them like spam. If it bothered me that much, I could change the settings.if it still bothered me I could not log on. If it got so bad I considered whining about it, I might just leave. I really don’t understand the need for whiny men (and women) threads at all. | |||
"I don't usually weigh on these kinds of threads - can't be bothered with the drama of it all - but today, I'll offer an observation... feel free to take it with a pinch of salt. We live in an immediate, instant gratification society. Want to buy something, one click and it arrives. Want to watch a movie, one click, and it's there instantly on our teleboxes. Feeling hungry, one click and you can have almost anything delivered to your door. Everybody, everybody, wants the immediate convenience of the modern world. We have lost the art of patience. We have also lost the art of communication. One line messages... that's what texting is all about. Nobody reads, nobody writes, and everybody wants everything instantly. This is the world we have built for ourselves. For some, fully immersed in this society, who arrive on Fab and are confronted with an endless procession of graphic images and videos, not made by unreachable, air-brushed and enhanced pros hiding behind pay walls, but made and posted by people who appear authentic and ordinary and are - incredibly! - just one click away from some kind of free interaction, perhaps it is hard to understand that there is a real person sitting behind that profile. For those with no experience in the scene, who have been raised on a diet of porn, with reduced communication abilities because they've spent all their lives looking into a screen instead of learning to communicate, it must seem that Fab isn't that much different from Just Eat. Look at the pictures, choose what takes your fancy, hit a few buttons, and hey look, there is your desire delivered to your door a few minutes later. It's hardly surprising that many who venture on here simply don't understand. Their experience of the 'real world' is mediated through instant gratification at the push of a button. Complaining - and there are endless, endless threads about this - will make precisely zero difference. Perhaps some form of education is the only way to go... but really, who can be arsed with that? Xx " I got as far as ‘We live in an immediate, instant gratification…..’ then got distracted by a funny goat on another phone
Can someone summarise it in 5 words please?
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"I don't usually weigh on these kinds of threads - can't be bothered with the drama of it all - but today, I'll offer an observation... feel free to take it with a pinch of salt. We live in an immediate, instant gratification society. Want to buy something, one click and it arrives. Want to watch a movie, one click, and it's there instantly on our teleboxes. Feeling hungry, one click and you can have almost anything delivered to your door. Everybody, everybody, wants the immediate convenience of the modern world. We have lost the art of patience. We have also lost the art of communication. One line messages... that's what texting is all about. Nobody reads, nobody writes, and everybody wants everything instantly. This is the world we have built for ourselves. For some, fully immersed in this society, who arrive on Fab and are confronted with an endless procession of graphic images and videos, not made by unreachable, air-brushed and enhanced pros hiding behind pay walls, but made and posted by people who appear authentic and ordinary and are - incredibly! - just one click away from some kind of free interaction, perhaps it is hard to understand that there is a real person sitting behind that profile. For those with no experience in the scene, who have been raised on a diet of porn, with reduced communication abilities because they've spent all their lives looking into a screen instead of learning to communicate, it must seem that Fab isn't that much different from Just Eat. Look at the pictures, choose what takes your fancy, hit a few buttons, and hey look, there is your desire delivered to your door a few minutes later. It's hardly surprising that many who venture on here simply don't understand. Their experience of the 'real world' is mediated through instant gratification at the push of a button. Complaining - and there are endless, endless threads about this - will make precisely zero difference. Perhaps some form of education is the only way to go... but really, who can be arsed with that? Xx You should weigh in more often as that was a great point as well as an interesting read "Agreed, very articulate and spot on. Mrs x | |||
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"I get it! I really do! You're horny, you're seeking a 'quick fix'. You think it's a sex site. You bang up a no profile pic, no bio. And you think you'll be knee deep in clunge within the week
And then you bitch n twist when you're not?... Why, why would you REALLY think it's that easy?
Your Mrs lost interest 10yrs ago, but you think a hazy shot of you in your briefs, and saying you're up to bang all the ladies will bring their milkshake to your car?
You state you're seeking 'quality over quantity'... Like there's any kind of quantity
You hit up all the profiles within your region and do not get a reply?...
And then you post - why am I having no luck on here?... Ask yourself? Genuinely do! And then come back to asking yourself in a month. If you still can't suss why
"Damn, I had not realised that I'd messaged you!    | |||
"...click, click, just eat, gratified... I got as far as ‘We live in an immediate, instant gratification…..’ then got distracted by a funny goat on another phone
Can someone summarise it in 5 words please?
"Done (see above) | |||
"Also I will add that whilst this post seems to be directed at men there are as many woman or couples who think that men should be queuing for them and we are there purely for their pleasure For every “thirsty” or “demanding” man there is on here there are also woman and couples doing the same Maybe not as many in numbers but as a percentage of members I bet it’s not that different Have a great week all " The problem with this argument is... There are 100s of desperate lads that will queue for the attention of a couple or a woman. And then complain that they get treated like pieces of meat when they dont get picked to be the meat. Saying all that it's nothing new and these "brilliant" posts get recycled every few weeks | |||
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"And then a bunch of whinging women post about a non existent person because the can't find a partner who will "engage my mind" Insist on sending dick pics Won't send the "code" word in their bio..to prove they've read it. Doesn't bother to read the gettysburgh address aka their profile...two way street ladies..two way street.. To be completely honest mate. OP is right. One of my veris showed her FAB inbox to me and it was a sea of dick pics for profile pictures “Hey, Hi, chat now, cum on your tits?” as opening messages and photos which must have been taken on a Nokia 3310. That’s leaving out the threatening messages for her not replying to them too. ...you'll probably get a pat on the head for that...hahaha It’s not pats on the head I’m getting…. ...a subtle bit of white knightery nonetheless...
And there’s no shortage of men on here who put zero effort into their profiles, pictures and messages and then complain that they can’t meet anyone.
...do you want to borrow my horse..?
Is it higher than the one he’s riding already? " | |||
