What's with all these; faceless, verification less, friends less profiles that demand a photo with the first message and also ask to include a certain word, to me this goes completely against all the friendliness I've found in the last 14 years of dipping in and out of swinging, does anyone really message these people? |
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By *AYENCouple 12 weeks ago
Lincolnshire |
"What's with all these; faceless, verification less, friends less profiles that demand a photo with the first message and also ask to include a certain word, to me this goes completely against all the friendliness I've found in the last 14 years of dipping in and out of swinging, does anyone really message these people?"
There's no point moaning about it, if you feel certain profiles are making demands that you don't agree with, just pass them by. K. |
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"What's with all these; faceless, verification less, friends less profiles that demand a photo with the first message and also ask to include a certain word, to me this goes completely against all the friendliness I've found in the last 14 years of dipping in and out of swinging, does anyone really message these people?
There's no point moaning about it, if you feel certain profiles are making demands that you don't agree with, just pass them by. K."
I do, I'm asking what's the point. |
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I do find it funny when they demand a picture in your first message, but have none on their profile and don’t send one with their first message. I’ve had two of those today and just hit delete 🤦♀️ |
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By *opinovMan 12 weeks ago
Point Nemo, Cumbria |
"I do find it funny when they demand a picture in your first message, but have none on their profile and don’t send one with their first message. I’ve had two of those today and just hit delete 🤦♀️"
The does seem to be an epidemic of these lately. |
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People have their wants and needs, you have yours. Consider them but don't compromise on them, basically.
Additionally, if an otherwise sparse profile is immediately asking for face pics, they might be looking to build up some black mail material or to shame you somewhere else on the internet. Which happens unfortunately often. |
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"...does anyone really message these people?"
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I have no demands on my profile and I keep away from any that do.
I rarely message (other than forum dwellers for various reasons, photo challenges, games, flirt) and I've only sent a handful of first messages this year to non-forum folk, and probably about a dozen in previous 2½ years.
Every first message I've received didn't contain a photograph of the sender, nor did I expect one. I've only exchanged photos in reciprocation when the other person has first done so... usually days or weeks after the first message. |
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By *end1Man 12 weeks ago
southend on sea |
So I came across a single female profile today in my local area. No pictures can't accommodate n can't travel you must send face picture with first message be showered and willing to satisfy her. |
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