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Being an Empowered Slut - For you , Your man or Both ?
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Curious to know what other Sluts / Hot wife’s who are in relationships motives and kinks are. Is it about blowing your man’s mind by being the sexiest little slut you can for him which gets you off because it’s getting him off … OR …. Is it that you simply desire and crave extra marital sex for just you whether he is involved or not and monogamy is just simply not possible for you but he doesn’t want to know about it but accepts it. ?? |
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Yes we have friends who both go off and meet separately and ravage each other when one or both get home. I find it all very interesting and fascinating. I guess in the hole Hot wife label there are a number of sub-categories and dynamics. We don’t play separately for instance, my hubby is always there in person and fully active in the playtime, that’s our little thing. It’s a visual thing for some people I guess, and one where he loves to direct the action and control the room. I role play as his little personal porn star which works for us as I’m a natural sub while we always have our red word if either is not happy with anything  |
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For me its who I am. I've been this way for as long as I can remember.... I now have the added extra that Mr loves watching me.... However It's taking me a bit of time to come to terms with how much Mr likes it.
Cali
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"What are the men called that are horny and enjoy sex ........ or are they just very horny and love sex with their partners and others ?
I call mine a man whore or a slut x"
Ha! Doesn't sound right Cali ...... but ta. |
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"What are the men called that are horny and enjoy sex ........ or are they just very horny and love sex with their partners and others ?
I call mine a man whore or a slut x
Ha! Doesn't sound right Cali ...... but ta. "
he loves being my Mr slutty pants  |
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"What are the men called that are horny and enjoy sex ........ or are they just very horny and love sex with their partners and others ?"
Whatever they ask you to call them 🙂 slut, in this context, is an identity rather than a slur. |
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"I've just looked some up ........
Man whore was there and male slut....... but by the time I got to 'he-whore' I couldn't stop laughing ...
I've decided they are fuckboys ..... "
oh there is a list? Xx |
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"Can you imagine in the middle of sex shouting ........
DO IT TO ME HE-WHORE ! omg that's going to pop into my head now lol xx but for some reason I'm hearing it like the he man voice "
Shades of tigger for me .......  |
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Back to the OP.... I could be monogamous for Mr... only time I've ever felt this way. But he likes that I am a very greedy girl.
First time he watched me he saw me take up residence in the round room taking on guy after guy for hours x |
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By *r TriomanMan 12 weeks ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
"I've just looked some up ........
Man whore was there and male slut....... but by the time I got to 'he-whore' I couldn't stop laughing ...
I've decided they are fuckboys ..... "
He-whore sounds like a donkey... |
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"I've just looked some up ........
Man whore was there and male slut....... but by the time I got to 'he-whore' I couldn't stop laughing ...
I've decided they are fuckboys ..... "
Is that like he-man
Fabulous secret powers were revealed to me the day I held aloft my cock and said I have the power of Swing fields and I became the mighty He-Whore! |
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"I've just looked some up ........
Man whore was there and male slut....... but by the time I got to 'he-whore' I couldn't stop laughing ...
I've decided they are fuckboys .....
Is that like he-man
Fabulous secret powers were revealed to me the day I held aloft my cock and said I have the power of Swing fields and I became the mighty He-Whore!"
see that's where my mind went with it x |
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That is spot on Sir welll don to you, it’s an identity . Specifically SLUT for us ladies in relationships who are allowed and encouraged by their partner to explore all sexual delights in whatever capacity is agreed by both within their boundaries. When my man calls me his sexy little slut it turns me on, if he was to call me a Slag I’d punch him in the f**king nose and I don’t have a violent bone in my body…. unless someone else is putting one in me (preferably 7”+ and girthy  |
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"I've just looked some up ........
Man whore was there and male slut....... but by the time I got to 'he-whore' I couldn't stop laughing ...
I've decided they are fuckboys .....
Is that like he-man
Fabulous secret powers were revealed to me the day I held aloft my cock and said I have the power of Swing fields and I became the mighty He-Whore! see that's where my mind went with it x "
Great minds think alike haha |
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By *r TriomanMan 12 weeks ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
"I've just looked some up ........
Man whore was there and male slut....... but by the time I got to 'he-whore' I couldn't stop laughing ...
I've decided they are fuckboys .....
Is that like he-man
Fabulous secret powers were revealed to me the day I held aloft my cock and said I have the power of Swing fields and I became the mighty He-Whore!"
Although this said as a joke, outside of the Swinging scene, being seen as a slut or a whore is meant as an insult whilst men who behave in the same way are often considered as having some kind of super power. |
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"Back to the OP.... I could be monogamous for Mr... only time I've ever felt this way. But he likes that I am a very greedy girl.
First time he watched me he saw me take up residence in the round room taking on guy after guy for hours x "
Me too totally… and you go girl.. you made that round room and all in it your bitch for the night. It’s great, we are both highly sext so why the hell not if we both are on board ..our relationship is mature and solid enough to segregate .. we were soft swap for ages then couples but he was still very protective and possessive when it came to single guys. Then Milf & Couger ganbang porn became a thing lol .. and just like Harry Potter with a flick of his wand he turned me in to his own private porn star slut |
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"Curious to know what other Sluts / Hot wife’s who are in relationships motives and kinks are. Is it about blowing your man’s mind by being the sexiest little slut you can for him which gets you off because it’s getting him off … OR …. Is it that you simply desire and crave extra marital sex for just you whether he is involved or not and monogamy is just simply not possible for you but he doesn’t want to know about it but accepts it. ??"
You paint a pretty bleak binary choice. Either you're doing it for the other half or you are doing it whether your partner likes it or not.
I'd have hoped any women would be shagging me as they wanted to shag not because they wanted to put on a performance for someone.
I'd have hoped any women shagging me would be as result of a conversation where both parties are happy with me joining, not where I'm invited as one half isn't somehow enough.
I understand couple dynamics can sometimes be at play but honestly, I'd hope in a world where people meet to enjoy sex with others, people enjoy people enjoying sex, and people enjoy sex. I might be a bit basic. |
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I'm a Slut. They say oppersits attract. But the universe glitched when We met. Mr had been swinging a good few years, and got a decent body count. I'd been vanilla with 3, then Boom = us. He brought the Slut out in me, I brought the Alpha pervert out in him. We are 100% equal partners in playing.
I say this for back ground, as my next statment could be misinterprated.
It turns me on, turning him on. No I'm not doing it for him, or visa versa. Being a vanilla it assounded me that a partner, would willingly want to share. I was ' never normal' growing up. I dabbled in bi stuff, which got surpressed when marreid. Then divorced. I met Mr, he was my first swing. 14 years later, we are still as hot and kinky. At our age, we should be slowing down. But we fuck like rabbits. Party with the best, and are still coming up with new things.
So it really does turn me on, turn him on. We do have our own rules. I can be a fussy slut. I do say no to some. We have a massive block list. He is always last in - no exceptions. And we have 'just us' days no sharing.
I try and be the best Slut I can be. My sluttiest thing I do, I'm a very very greedy gangbang slut. I like to acheive high numbers. (Which I hold a club record for).
Please, do not DM or PM us with offers to meet. Or reply and comment DM/PM from this post. I'm working the silly season, and don't have time to read and reply. Plus we don't have any playtime now this year. Then NO PLAYTIME UNTIL MARCH 2015. |
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