Strict profiles do not put me off. They're strict in order to attract the right criteria of person and discourage the wrong type.
If I come across a profile that wants the moon on a stick but is offering the equivalent of space dust in return then I just ignore the profile and move along. |
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"Strict profiles do not put me off. They're strict in order to attract the right criteria of person and discourage the wrong type.
If I come across a profile that wants the moon on a stick but is offering the equivalent of space dust in return then I just ignore the profile and move along."
I like this and I agree. |
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Strictness no not at all, it can be appealling.
It would depend what the rules were, as to whether it put me off.
I don't think I view as strictness, it's a fair word to use. I just see it as someone who is self-aware and assertive enough to make their expectations clear.
Are they willing to reciprocate that would be my only concern. |
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"Strict profiles do not put me off. They're strict in order to attract the right criteria of person and discourage the wrong type.
If I come across a profile that wants the moon on a stick but is offering the equivalent of space dust in return then I just ignore the profile and move along."
This and I usually block as well so I don't accidentally hit their profile again. |
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I’m not here for a husband, I’m here for sex with guys who physically meet my needs, there’s no point in me saying I like large, furry guys, cause all I get message me are thin/toned hairless guys & it does nothing for me, so I explain quite clearly what I am & aren’t looking for |
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By *eliWoman 8 weeks ago
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It doesn't put me off as such, I suppose it's how it is done. Ranty is dull, focusing on what they are looking for? Fine. I'd never do it myself but can understand why others do - we all have different experiences on here. |
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I don't think I'd be particularly motivated by a strict profile. If I didn't fit the requirements it saves time on wasted messages. If I do but they don't excite me generally then I'm not going to feel like it's worth it purely because I might be their type 💜 |
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By *glyBettyTV/TS 8 weeks ago
About 3 feet away from the fence |
People who don't read profiles were never going to read them anyway, regardless of the tone, length, demands etc...
If anyone is put off by the apparently arduous task of actually having to read a profile, then the filter is working as intended |
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"Mine is strict, it does put people off & has therefore done its job.
If they're not for you, it just means you're not compatible anyway. "
I wouldn't consider your profile strict, I consider strict to be something more demanding and restrictive with little in return. I think its quite clear what you do and don't want after reading your profile.
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"People can do fab how they please but they just come across as hard work to me.
Yeah, those hard work ones are a right ballache to put up with! "
I'd be too scared to do something wrong without realising and ruin all the hard work I'd put in. Too much hassle for me! It's meant to be fun after all.
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I think they’re fine. If they’re looking for something specific then having that clear on their profile probably works well for them. I’m not looking for something specific and as a result I’m not interested in ticking someone else’s boxes. I’m happy to see what dynamic unfolds. The only box I want filled in is the one in my pants |
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"People who don't read profiles were never going to read them anyway, regardless of the tone, length, demands etc...
If anyone is put off by the apparently arduous task of actually having to read a profile, then the filter is working as intended"
Well said. Mine has a likes and dislikes section. People still message regardless. If a profile is strict and rules me out then thats also ok. 😁 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 8 weeks ago
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"Put me off.
Fuck them divas, if it’s not on a plate after 2 messages and a dick pic then I’m sorry but, it’s their loss."
Looooooooool two messages seem a bit much |
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