Let’s say you wanted a photo of someone and they said sure what would you like ….
Would your choice be
1. Surprise me
Or
2. I’d like ….. (something specific)
Do you like surprises or would you rather choose?
Tell me ….. please |
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"Surprises are good because the sender’s choice tells you more about the sender"
100% agreed here
I would rather the sender send me something they think I'll like more than me asking for something they may be insecure about |
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It depends on how well I know the person, how close and connected we are. I would always choose ‘surprise’ with someone I wasn’t already closely intimate with, because I would never want to make anyone feel uncomfortable. Surprise allows the person to make their own choice, based on their own limits and boundaries and preferences. |
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