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By (user no longer on site) OP 13 weeks ago
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Got my first vanilla date next Friday after chatting to someone on a dating app. Going to be strange having not seen her boobs before we have met. Being on Fab dates for 9 years it is going to be a different experience. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"Ask if she’s into pushing metal tubes into urethras, as an ice breaker topic.
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Probably a good opportunity at this point to ask her if she is into watersports too |
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It's odd when I was younger I was so anti vanilla but as I have aged more open to it now,just been chatting to someone & she was saying he had erectile disjunction but saw him for 4 months 
We just chatted for a hour or two,she seams great 200 miles away though lol.she messaged me after I commented hi I bet we get on like a house on fire because we're 200 miles away lol.mind you she plans events and has already invited me to the next one before Christmas lol.we will see |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"Ask if she’s into pushing metal tubes into urethras, as an ice breaker topic.
Probably a good opportunity at this point to ask her if she is into watersports too"
Woah, calm down, he said it’s a vanilla date, jeez! |
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Good luck OP, hope it guides well. We go to clubs all the time and we struggle in the vanilla world when we're out drinking. We were in a vanilla pub last week and I went to grab the fellas cock at the bar...im like Ooops, forgot!! 😂 |
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"What do vanilla people talk about?"
Anything and everything. Just because two "vanilla" people aren't into blindfolded bukake parties and bizarre practices ending with "ing" doesn't mean they can't have a very pleasant and fruitful conversation.
It's called real life. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"Good luck OP, hope it guides well. We go to clubs all the time and we struggle in the vanilla world when we're out drinking. We were in a vanilla pub last week and I went to grab the fellas cock at the bar...im like Ooops, forgot!! 😂"
Haha 🤣 |
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By *enk15Man 13 weeks ago
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"What do vanilla people talk about?
Anything and everything. Just because two "vanilla" people aren't into blindfolded bukake parties and bizarre practices ending with "ing" doesn't mean they can't have a very pleasant and fruitful conversation.
It's called real life."
Real life sounds dull. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 13 weeks ago
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I'm concerned that she will ask about my history at some point and I may have to mention the gangbangs I've been in,the 3 somes and naked hoopla.
Not concerned about having a vanilla relationship but more concerned that my past will be off-putting if it is found out. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"I'm concerned that she will ask about my history at some point and I may have to mention the gangbangs I've been in,the 3 somes and naked hoopla.
Not concerned about having a vanilla relationship but more concerned that my past will be off-putting if it is found out."
Why would you have to mention gangbangs? Why would she ask your sexual history on a first date? 😅 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 13 weeks ago
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"I'm concerned that she will ask about my history at some point and I may have to mention the gangbangs I've been in,the 3 somes and naked hoopla.
Not concerned about having a vanilla relationship but more concerned that my past will be off-putting if it is found out.
Why would you have to mention gangbangs? Why would she ask your sexual history on a first date? 😅 "
I said at some point, not necessarily on the first date. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"I'm concerned that she will ask about my history at some point and I may have to mention the gangbangs I've been in,the 3 somes and naked hoopla.
Not concerned about having a vanilla relationship but more concerned that my past will be off-putting if it is found out.
Why would you have to mention gangbangs? Why would she ask your sexual history on a first date? 😅
I said at some point, not necessarily on the first date. "
I don’t recall ever being asked my sexual history? If I was, i probably wouldn’t confess to a “vanilla” date, that I’d been involved in gangbangs.
Unless you want to, of course try and get her involved in group bummings, so really it all depends on what your goal is?
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"Got my first vanilla date next Friday after chatting to someone on a dating app. Going to be strange having not seen her boobs before we have met. Being on Fab dates for 9 years it is going to be a different experience."
Not been on dating apps few years but last I was fully single and on them. I got more casual sex than on here. !! Including one best most unexpected blow jobs in life. She made it very clear she was not someone that did casual sex but waited . Then as kissed good night suddenly sank to her knees. |
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"What do vanilla people talk about?
Anything and everything. Just because two "vanilla" people aren't into blindfolded bukake parties and bizarre practices ending with "ing" doesn't mean they can't have a very pleasant and fruitful conversation.
It's called real life.
Real life sounds dull."
I feel sorry for anyone who can only live in a fantasy world. |
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By *sWyldWoman 13 weeks ago
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It's really not all that different to a fab social. You're sussing each other out and deciding if there's attraction, and enough of a connection to take it further.
I don't view dates with people on Tinder any differently to people from here. It's actually quite nice that we haven't seen each other semi naked already.
Same rules should apply of don't be a twat and be yourself.
Hope you have a lovely time |
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By *enk15Man 13 weeks ago
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"What do vanilla people talk about?
Anything and everything. Just because two "vanilla" people aren't into blindfolded bukake parties and bizarre practices ending with "ing" doesn't mean they can't have a very pleasant and fruitful conversation.
It's called real life.
Real life sounds dull.
I feel sorry for anyone who can only live in a fantasy world. "
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Ohhh good luck I've had a normal vanilla date this week, it was very strange! Almost forgot how to hold a conversation that didn't involve sex! Let us know how you get on! And hope you find what your looking for x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 13 weeks ago
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"Ohhh good luck I've had a normal vanilla date this week, it was very strange! Almost forgot how to hold a conversation that didn't involve sex! Let us know how you get on! And hope you find what your looking for x"
We have been on the phone talking to each other for an hour each evening for the last 3 nights. It is only different in the sense that I'm weighing up whether this person is right for a relationship rather than if this person is right for a play date. |
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I think if i were single and searching then fab would kill of most of the excitement and build up, its like wheres the excitment of wondering does she like this or that when you already know she loves an xl butt blug from her pics 😂 |
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"What do vanilla people talk about?
Anything and everything. Just because two "vanilla" people aren't into blindfolded bukake parties and bizarre practices ending with "ing" doesn't mean they can't have a very pleasant and fruitful conversation.
It's called real life.
Real life sounds dull."
It's not dull, it's more fruitful than fab for me, the problem is I like 3somes, gang bangs etc as much as 1 on 1s |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 11 weeks ago
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"So OP what was the date like?"
Friday night
We met up on the train to London.
Went for a a drink
Went for a dinner
Went on a pub crawl
Then on the way home she asked if she was going to get off at her stop or mine?
She got off at mine and left Sunday afternoon. |
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