If you're reluctant because you're not into it, don't do it. But if you're reluctant because of shyness or a fear of how it will look, I'm sure there's a compromise you can come to, like her going first or something |
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I can see your point of view.
Maybe while you wear it she can be on top? I am sure the men will still get a good show. Your friend can move the way it feels good for her too.
The experience is like everything else. It will take time to build up your confidence in it.
Maybe tell your partner your worries. Suggest you spend a session togther where he explains to you how to thrust your hips and what muscles he uses when he is thrusting into you.
Men are born with the basic base knowledge of how to fuck. It takes practice to refine the skill.
Do some research too. There are plenty of videos out there with this content. Watch how the move, how they use it. Think about what position you would be comfortable in.
You can always ask the men if they can help you guide it in and put their hands on your hips to help you until you get the rhythm yourself. X
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Start to concentrate on how you’ll both feel rather than how you’ll look.
This isn’t porn, there are no cameras, at least not for the first time.
Your friend trusts you and wants to feel you do this, there are obviously reasons.
If you want to, do it for the pair of you, not for the watching partners.
Strap on play can be incredibly sensual if you let it. |
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All types of sex look stupid when watched by someone that is in the mood to see it that way. And all types look incredibly erotic when looked at in that mood.
None of us are porn stars (um, except for those on here that actually are porn stars, but none of the rest of us okay?) and we've got wonky backs or fingers that get tired or muscles that spasm. We cum too soon, or can't cum. Headaches hit at the wrong moment. We have to get up halfway through to go pee. Sometimes we fall off the edge of the bed or a foot gets tied up in the bed sheets. Farts happen.
So don't worry about it. Go with whatever feels good at the time. If one of the men laughs at your strap on technique, then kick 'em out of the bedroom, tell them to go fuck each other instead of criticising you. You're doing sex for fun, not as an olympic event, or with a panel of judges giving out points.
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