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Ladies...a tiny innocent question from me please 🙏
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By *agic.M OP Man 6 weeks ago
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The question is "why?"... but the context of this question is as follows...
Everytime I upload a new pic/video I get an influx of messages from women telling me how much they love/like/enjoy my content (which I full heartedly appreciate 🙏)...now, through that I also started noticing a pattern...where most of the ladies messaging me, telling me how much they like my content, don't really like (aka fab) my content 🤔. Every time I asked one of them "why?" (Why not fab if you like) I get a random reply with a laughing or embarrassed emoji and an "I've just fabbed some now..." which doesn't really answer my "why?" question, so I'm turning to the ladies of the forum (as they usually have an answer for everything) or any psychologist of any gender that might be able to shed some light on this part of a woman’s psychology. And before someone starts commenting "OMG what's the big deal if a woman doesn't fab your pics blah blah.." - it's not, chill! I'm simply curious 🤓.
So ladies, one more time...."why?" Why go out of your way to tell someone how much you like their content, but not show it by actually "liking" their content? 🧐 |
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Interesting question.
I don't about other ladies but for me its one of a few reasons.
- I just want to perv, if I fab it you'll know I'm looking.
- I look on ninja mode, if I fab it, you'll know I'm looking.
- If I've viewed a photo several times, I'm likely to assume I have already fabbed it.
- sometimes I get so distracted, I forget to fab.
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"Interesting question.
I don't about other ladies but for me its one of a few reasons.
- I just want to perv, if I fab it you'll know I'm looking.
- I look on ninja mode, if I fab it, you'll know I'm looking.
- If I've viewed a photo several times, I'm likely to assume I have already fabbed it.
- sometimes I get so distracted, I forget to fab.
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But the poster says these women message him, so make it known they are looking and like 🤷♀️ |
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"Interesting question.
I don't about other ladies but for me its one of a few reasons.
- I just want to perv, if I fab it you'll know I'm looking.
- I look on ninja mode, if I fab it, you'll know I'm looking.
- If I've viewed a photo several times, I'm likely to assume I have already fabbed it.
- sometimes I get so distracted, I forget to fab.
But the poster says these women message him, so make it known they are looking and like 🤷♀️"
🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️ |
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They're showing their appreciation in a way that makes sense to them.
Going through a ticklist of all the lower methods that should be done as well as the message seems silly. They've done the highest version already. |
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By *agic.M OP Man 6 weeks ago
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"They're showing their appreciation in a way that makes sense to them.
Going through a ticklist of all the lower methods that should be done as well as the message seems silly. They've done the highest version already."
A message is the highest version of appreciation on fab? |
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"They're showing their appreciation in a way that makes sense to them.
Going through a ticklist of all the lower methods that should be done as well as the message seems silly. They've done the highest version already.
A message is the highest version of appreciation on fab? "
Do you know how unusual it is for women to make first contact with men ? Well according to the number of posts from guys lamenting their lack of messages. |
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I've been told multiple times in private messages and forum comments that I have a great gallery which is very flattering.
I've also had comments saying that I must be inundated with messages and fabs because of the effort I've made and those people are always genuinely taken aback when I tell them that I only ever get 4 or 5 fabs on a new pic and those are only from people on my friends list.
I've no idea how long it has been since I got a fab from anyone not on that list. |
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"They're showing their appreciation in a way that makes sense to them.
Going through a ticklist of all the lower methods that should be done as well as the message seems silly. They've done the highest version already.
A message is the highest version of appreciation on fab? "
Don't you think a person taking time to message you is better than a "Fab"? Considering a lot of men complain of getting zero messages surly it is, most women don't initially message men. |
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By *agic.M OP Man 6 weeks ago
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"They're showing their appreciation in a way that makes sense to them.
Going through a ticklist of all the lower methods that should be done as well as the message seems silly. They've done the highest version already.
A message is the highest version of appreciation on fab?
Do you know how unusual it is for women to make first contact with men ? Well according to the number of posts from guys lamenting their lack of messages. "
I don't think it's unusual for women to make first contact with the men they find attractive |
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By *aitonelMan 6 weeks ago
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On a much more serious note I will add.
Fabs themselves are not important but knowing which pics/vids work better than others is nice. As men we barely get any recognition for pics so when we do it's just that extra bit of confidence boost.
But knowing which pics do well and which don't helps with doing more to better standard. A blanket "your pics are nice" is not specific enough. |
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"They're showing their appreciation in a way that makes sense to them.
Going through a ticklist of all the lower methods that should be done as well as the message seems silly. They've done the highest version already.
A message is the highest version of appreciation on fab? "
Probably.
The point is that they've already demonstrated their appreciation at the most appropriate level they consider. Why would they also go through and fab when they've already expressed appreciation? Do they have to wink as well? |
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Because usually if I lik a pic and fab it it'll lead to follow up messages and I can't be arsed with that shite, so I don't fab men anymore.
I fabbed because I liked the pic not because I want a full on conversation or sex.
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'Appreciate that the query is for ladies only but it also resonates with me. The compliments or the salutary nods to my gallery of photos are often forthcoming (and appreciated) but the 'fabs' not so much. Fortunately, for me, the 'fab' isn't the objective, nor is it ever expected.
I've never interpreted the incoming compliment as a conduit to engage in protracted conversation other than a thank you, although sometimes it does go further if we both come across as agreeable in doing so.
A message is always appreciated and will always displace a 'fab'. But then I don't always pay attention to my 'fabs'. |
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By *agic.M OP Man 6 weeks ago
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"They're showing their appreciation in a way that makes sense to them.
Going through a ticklist of all the lower methods that should be done as well as the message seems silly. They've done the highest version already.
A message is the highest version of appreciation on fab?
Probably.
The point is that they've already demonstrated their appreciation at the most appropriate level they consider. Why would they also go through and fab when they've already expressed appreciation? Do they have to wink as well?"
Fab, wink and message?  that's a triple thread that will undoubtedly make me fall in love with her... best be avoided  |
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I'm guessing they see the picture, like it that much that they jump the usually steps of fabbing it and go straight to the highest form of praise.
For me anyway, I don't fab a lot of pics because it can bring further communication that I'm not interested in.
If I've gone straight to message you about it then I really really like it.
I'm guessing it's something along those lines.
Either that or it's a way to get you to talk to them🤷♀️ |
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"Can’t help with the answer to your question but I fabbed some pics and vids 😍🔥 x
That's very kind of you 🙏...now send me a message as well please 😅
And don't forget the wink!"
Oh nooooo don't do the triple for fear his head will explode! |
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By *agic.M OP Man 6 weeks ago
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"Can’t help with the answer to your question but I fabbed some pics and vids 😍🔥 x
That's very kind of you 🙏...now send me a message as well please 😅
And don't forget the wink!"
No, that would be too much  |
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Fab pictures - they automatically assume you want a full blown conversation, cum shot tribute and 3 billion dick pictures.
Pass them an every day complimentary message to say it was a good picture and close them off with a one word reply or emoji - this is how far we want it to go. |
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By *agic.M OP Man 6 weeks ago
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"Fab pictures - they automatically assume you want a full blown conversation, cum shot tribute and 3 billion dick pictures.
Pass them an every day complimentary message to say it was a good picture and close them off with a one word reply or emoji - this is how far we want it to go."
...or just avoid the hassle altogether  |
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"They're showing their appreciation in a way that makes sense to them.
Going through a ticklist of all the lower methods that should be done as well as the message seems silly. They've done the highest version already."
No, please give us the internet points we crave. |
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"Fab pictures - they automatically assume you want a full blown conversation, cum shot tribute and 3 billion dick pictures.
Pass them an every day complimentary message to say it was a good picture and close them off with a one word reply or emoji - this is how far we want it to go.
...or just avoid the hassle altogether "
Or don't be ungrateful because you received a compliment with no strings attached too it? 🤔
Not everyone is after something 🤣 |
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I would compare it to a text (i.e a Fab or wink) and a phonecall (dm message) - you don’t need to do both.
Maybes they want to send a message to give a specific compliment or if you have a lot of Fabs on your pics they think their Fab may go unnoticed. |
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By *agic.M OP Man 6 weeks ago
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"I would compare it to a text (i.e a Fab or wink) and a phonecall (dm message) - you don’t need to do both.
Maybes they want to send a message to give a specific compliment or if you have a lot of Fabs on your pics they think their Fab may go unnoticed."
If it is a specific compliment to a specific pic or video, yes that makes sense  |
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By *ornycougaWoman 6 weeks ago
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"I'm guessing they see the picture, like it that much that they jump the usually steps of fabbing it and go straight to the highest form of praise.
For me anyway, I don't fab a lot of pics because it can bring further communication that I'm not interested in.
If I've gone straight to message you about it then I really really like it.
I'm guessing it's something along those lines.
Either that or it's a way to get you to talk to them🤷♀️"
Same. I rarely Fab because often I like a pic or vid but I don't want to meet the poster and don't want the inevitable "hey I see you Fabbed my pic, wanna fuck?".
Surely a positive message is far better than a Fab on a pic OP and puts the ball firmly in your court if there is mutual interest? |
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By *agic.M OP Man 6 weeks ago
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"Fab pictures - they automatically assume you want a full blown conversation, cum shot tribute and 3 billion dick pictures.
Pass them an every day complimentary message to say it was a good picture and close them off with a one word reply or emoji - this is how far we want it to go.
...or just avoid the hassle altogether
Or don't be ungrateful because you received a compliment with no strings attached too it? 🤔
Not everyone is after something 🤣"
I wasn't being ungrateful at all. You're taking this way to persona... Oh wait🤭 |
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"Fab pictures - they automatically assume you want a full blown conversation, cum shot tribute and 3 billion dick pictures.
Pass them an every day complimentary message to say it was a good picture and close them off with a one word reply or emoji - this is how far we want it to go."
Exactly this 👆 |
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The way I see it our photos are an advert of us, we aren't here to get "fabs" we are here to meet people and have fun. I'd much rather someone went straight to message instead of "fab" a picture. Unless you are just here to get looked at or attention of course? If you are just looking for attention then this is probably the wrong site for you, maybe try Only f#ns or sn#p chat as this is meant to be a place to meet people to have sex. The fact that women are going straight to message isntead of fabbing your pics is the ultimate compliment, but you seem to be missing that point somehow. Just saying!
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"The question is "why?"... but the context of this question is as follows...
Everytime I upload a new pic/video I get an influx of messages from women telling me how much they love/like/enjoy my content (which I full heartedly appreciate 🙏)...now, through that I also started noticing a pattern...where most of the ladies messaging me, telling me how much they like my content, don't really like (aka fab) my content 🤔. Every time I asked one of them "why?" (Why not fab if you like) I get a random reply with a laughing or embarrassed emoji and an "I've just fabbed some now..." which doesn't really answer my "why?" question, so I'm turning to the ladies of the forum (as they usually have an answer for everything) or any psychologist of any gender that might be able to shed some light on this part of a woman’s psychology. And before someone starts commenting "OMG what's the big deal if a woman doesn't fab your pics blah blah.." - it's not, chill! I'm simply curious 🤓.
So ladies, one more time...."why?" Why go out of your way to tell someone how much you like their content, but not show it by actually "liking" their content? 🧐 "
Too handsome and they get all silly and giggly when confronted 🤭 |
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By *agic.M OP Man 6 weeks ago
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"The way I see it our photos are an advert of us, we aren't here to get "fabs" we are here to meet people and have fun. I'd much rather someone went straight to message instead of "fab" a picture. Unless you are just here to get looked at or attention of course? If you are just looking for attention then this is probably the wrong site for you, maybe try Only f#ns or sn#p chat as this is meant to be a place to meet people to have sex. The fact that women are going straight to message isntead of fabbing your pics is the ultimate compliment, but you seem to be missing that point somehow. Just saying!
Mrs x"
With all due respect...this site is full of women and couples promoting their O*ly Fans/just fans/something fans profile...the page 1 (and 2) of the hot photos is stacked with people putting "fab if you this and that" on their pictures and videos...so clearly attention and being "fabbed" is a huge factor. So regardless of my objectives of being on this site, please don't tell me this site might or might not be be for me...that wasn't my question |
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"The way I see it our photos are an advert of us, we aren't here to get "fabs" we are here to meet people and have fun. I'd much rather someone went straight to message instead of "fab" a picture. Unless you are just here to get looked at or attention of course? If you are just looking for attention then this is probably the wrong site for you, maybe try Only f#ns or sn#p chat as this is meant to be a place to meet people to have sex. The fact that women are going straight to message isntead of fabbing your pics is the ultimate compliment, but you seem to be missing that point somehow. Just saying!
Mrs x
With all due respect...this site is full of women and couples promoting their O*ly Fans/just fans/something fans profile...the page 1 (and 2) of the hot photos is stacked with people putting "fab if you this and that" on their pictures and videos...so clearly attention and being "fabbed" is a huge factor. So regardless of my objectives of being on this site, please don't tell me this site might or might not be be for me...that wasn't my question "
You asked for peoples opinion, I gave my opinion. Don't ask for it if you actually don't want it. And I can't tell you what to do my dear it was merely a suggestion. Please do whatever makes your little heart happy!
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By *aitonelMan 6 weeks ago
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"Look at me! Look at me! 
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Sometimes the green eyed monster isn't an attractive gentlemanly trait."
The irony of such things to point out somebody else's "look at me" with what is an essentially a "look at me" of its own
Ah shit, I just did a look at me myself. |
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"Look at me! Look at me!
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Sometimes the green eyed monster isn't an attractive gentlemanly trait.
The irony of such things to point out somebody else's "look at me" with what is an essentially a "look at me" of its own
Ah shit, I just did a look at me myself. "
I think we're all looking at each other. |
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By *aitonelMan 6 weeks ago
Away for Christmas |
"Look at me! Look at me!
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Sometimes the green eyed monster isn't an attractive gentlemanly trait.
The irony of such things to point out somebody else's "look at me" with what is an essentially a "look at me" of its own
Ah shit, I just did a look at me myself.
I think we're all looking at each other. "
Like the spiderman meme? |
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"Look at me! Look at me!
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Sometimes the green eyed monster isn't an attractive gentlemanly trait.
The irony of such things to point out somebody else's "look at me" with what is an essentially a "look at me" of its own
Ah shit, I just did a look at me myself. "
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I could easily just post a full stop "." and nothing more, and that would be easily interpreted as a "look at me".
Sadly, what isn't easily practiced on here is the gentlemanly support and solidarity for one another. |
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By *aitonelMan 6 weeks ago
Away for Christmas |
"Look at me! Look at me!
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Sometimes the green eyed monster isn't an attractive gentlemanly trait.
The irony of such things to point out somebody else's "look at me" with what is an essentially a "look at me" of its own
Ah shit, I just did a look at me myself.
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I could easily just post a full stop "." and nothing more, and that would be easily interpreted as a "look at me".
Sadly, what isn't easily practiced on here is the gentlemanly support and solidarity for one another."
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"Look at me! Look at me!
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Sometimes the green eyed monster isn't an attractive gentlemanly trait.
The irony of such things to point out somebody else's "look at me" with what is an essentially a "look at me" of its own
Ah shit, I just did a look at me myself.
I think we're all looking at each other.
Like the spiderman meme? "
I'll say yes
(I've not seen the meme  ) |
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By *agic.M OP Man 6 weeks ago
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"The way I see it our photos are an advert of us, we aren't here to get "fabs" we are here to meet people and have fun. I'd much rather someone went straight to message instead of "fab" a picture. Unless you are just here to get looked at or attention of course? If you are just looking for attention then this is probably the wrong site for you, maybe try Only f#ns or sn#p chat as this is meant to be a place to meet people to have sex. The fact that women are going straight to message isntead of fabbing your pics is the ultimate compliment, but you seem to be missing that point somehow. Just saying!
Mrs x
With all due respect...this site is full of women and couples promoting their O*ly Fans/just fans/something fans profile...the page 1 (and 2) of the hot photos is stacked with people putting "fab if you this and that" on their pictures and videos...so clearly attention and being "fabbed" is a huge factor. So regardless of my objectives of being on this site, please don't tell me this site might or might not be be for me...that wasn't my question
You asked for peoples opinion, I gave my opinion. Don't ask for it if you actually don't want it. And I can't tell you what to do my dear it was merely a suggestion. Please do whatever makes your little heart happy!
Mrs x"
Thanks, however I asked a specific question ...I didn't ask for anyone's opinion about fabswingers being the right place for me or not...that just came out of nowhere, probably because you got offended about " how dare a man not appreciate the ultimate compliment from a woman on fab " (which I never said I don't appreciate). If fabbing pictures is an option on fabswingers, and getting many fabs puts you on page 1 of hot photos, and if a woman wants exactly that...to get as many fabs as possible to get on page 1 and get lots of attention (without meeting anyone), are you gonna tell them this site is not for them? I'm convinced you won't, but for some reason men always get the "fab might not be the right place for you" comment... I get attention on fab, I like the attention, so fab must be the right place for me (until I decide it's not) |
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By *aitonelMan 6 weeks ago
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"The way I see it our photos are an advert of us, we aren't here to get "fabs" we are here to meet people and have fun. I'd much rather someone went straight to message instead of "fab" a picture. Unless you are just here to get looked at or attention of course? If you are just looking for attention then this is probably the wrong site for you, maybe try Only f#ns or sn#p chat as this is meant to be a place to meet people to have sex. The fact that women are going straight to message isntead of fabbing your pics is the ultimate compliment, but you seem to be missing that point somehow. Just saying!
Mrs x
With all due respect...this site is full of women and couples promoting their O*ly Fans/just fans/something fans profile...the page 1 (and 2) of the hot photos is stacked with people putting "fab if you this and that" on their pictures and videos...so clearly attention and being "fabbed" is a huge factor. So regardless of my objectives of being on this site, please don't tell me this site might or might not be be for me...that wasn't my question
You asked for peoples opinion, I gave my opinion. Don't ask for it if you actually don't want it. And I can't tell you what to do my dear it was merely a suggestion. Please do whatever makes your little heart happy!
Mrs x
Thanks, however I asked a specific question ...I didn't ask for anyone's opinion about fabswingers being the right place for me or not...that just came out of nowhere, probably because you got offended about " how dare a man not appreciate the ultimate compliment from a woman on fab " (which I never said I don't appreciate). If fabbing pictures is an option on fabswingers, and getting many fabs puts you on page 1 of hot photos, and if a woman wants exactly that...to get as many fabs as possible to get on page 1 and get lots of attention (without meeting anyone), are you gonna tell them this site is not for them? I'm convinced you won't, but for some reason men always get the "fab might not be the right place for you" comment... I get attention on fab, I like the attention, so fab must be the right place for me (until I decide it's not) "
Man has a point.
And the more I read it the more I agree with it and laugh at just how spot on he is. |
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"The question is "why?"... but the context of this question is as follows...
Everytime I upload a new pic/video I get an influx of messages from women telling me how much they love/like/enjoy my content (which I full heartedly appreciate 🙏)...now, through that I also started noticing a pattern...where most of the ladies messaging me, telling me how much they like my content, don't really like (aka fab) my content 🤔. Every time I asked one of them "why?" (Why not fab if you like) I get a random reply with a laughing or embarrassed emoji and an "I've just fabbed some now..." which doesn't really answer my "why?" question, so I'm turning to the ladies of the forum (as they usually have an answer for everything) or any psychologist of any gender that might be able to shed some light on this part of a woman’s psychology. And before someone starts commenting "OMG what's the big deal if a woman doesn't fab your pics blah blah.." - it's not, chill! I'm simply curious 🤓.
So ladies, one more time...."why?" Why go out of your way to tell someone how much you like their content, but not show it by actually "liking" their content? 🧐 "
Because they probably don't want any attention from the person they've fab'd! As said above, when females/couples fab pictures they get unwanted messages. |
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"The way I see it our photos are an advert of us, we aren't here to get "fabs" we are here to meet people and have fun. I'd much rather someone went straight to message instead of "fab" a picture. Unless you are just here to get looked at or attention of course? If you are just looking for attention then this is probably the wrong site for you, maybe try Only f#ns or sn#p chat as this is meant to be a place to meet people to have sex. The fact that women are going straight to message isntead of fabbing your pics is the ultimate compliment, but you seem to be missing that point somehow. Just saying!
Mrs x
With all due respect...this site is full of women and couples promoting their O*ly Fans/just fans/something fans profile...the page 1 (and 2) of the hot photos is stacked with people putting "fab if you this and that" on their pictures and videos...so clearly attention and being "fabbed" is a huge factor. So regardless of my objectives of being on this site, please don't tell me this site might or might not be be for me...that wasn't my question
You asked for peoples opinion, I gave my opinion. Don't ask for it if you actually don't want it. And I can't tell you what to do my dear it was merely a suggestion. Please do whatever makes your little heart happy!
Mrs x
Thanks, however I asked a specific question ...I didn't ask for anyone's opinion about fabswingers being the right place for me or not...that just came out of nowhere, probably because you got offended about " how dare a man not appreciate the ultimate compliment from a woman on fab " (which I never said I don't appreciate). If fabbing pictures is an option on fabswingers, and getting many fabs puts you on page 1 of hot photos, and if a woman wants exactly that...to get as many fabs as possible to get on page 1 and get lots of attention (without meeting anyone), are you gonna tell them this site is not for them? I'm convinced you won't, but for some reason men always get the "fab might not be the right place for you" comment... I get attention on fab, I like the attention, so fab must be the right place for me (until I decide it's not) "
Male or female my opinion is the same and I've made threads about fabswingers turning into a social media "look at me" fest before now. The matter of the fact is regardless of whether you are male female or a couple fabswingers is meant to be a swinging site not a popularity contest. That's what I think and everyone can think whatever they like and I actively encourage it in fact.
I can have my opinion and you can have yours, one doesn't cancel the other out.
Take a chill pill mate!
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By *agic.M OP Man 6 weeks ago
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"The way I see it our photos are an advert of us, we aren't here to get "fabs" we are here to meet people and have fun. I'd much rather someone went straight to message instead of "fab" a picture. Unless you are just here to get looked at or attention of course? If you are just looking for attention then this is probably the wrong site for you, maybe try Only f#ns or sn#p chat as this is meant to be a place to meet people to have sex. The fact that women are going straight to message isntead of fabbing your pics is the ultimate compliment, but you seem to be missing that point somehow. Just saying!
Mrs x
With all due respect...this site is full of women and couples promoting their O*ly Fans/just fans/something fans profile...the page 1 (and 2) of the hot photos is stacked with people putting "fab if you this and that" on their pictures and videos...so clearly attention and being "fabbed" is a huge factor. So regardless of my objectives of being on this site, please don't tell me this site might or might not be be for me...that wasn't my question
You asked for peoples opinion, I gave my opinion. Don't ask for it if you actually don't want it. And I can't tell you what to do my dear it was merely a suggestion. Please do whatever makes your little heart happy!
Mrs x
Thanks, however I asked a specific question ...I didn't ask for anyone's opinion about fabswingers being the right place for me or not...that just came out of nowhere, probably because you got offended about " how dare a man not appreciate the ultimate compliment from a woman on fab " (which I never said I don't appreciate). If fabbing pictures is an option on fabswingers, and getting many fabs puts you on page 1 of hot photos, and if a woman wants exactly that...to get as many fabs as possible to get on page 1 and get lots of attention (without meeting anyone), are you gonna tell them this site is not for them? I'm convinced you won't, but for some reason men always get the "fab might not be the right place for you" comment... I get attention on fab, I like the attention, so fab must be the right place for me (until I decide it's not)
Male or female my opinion is the same and I've made threads about fabswingers turning into a social media "look at me" fest before now. The matter of the fact is regardless of whether you are male female or a couple fabswingers is meant to be a swinging site not a popularity contest. That's what I think and everyone can think whatever they like and I actively encourage it in fact.
I can have my opinion and you can have yours, one doesn't cancel the other out.
Take a chill pill mate!
Mrs x"
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"The way I see it our photos are an advert of us, we aren't here to get "fabs" we are here to meet people and have fun. I'd much rather someone went straight to message instead of "fab" a picture. Unless you are just here to get looked at or attention of course? If you are just looking for attention then this is probably the wrong site for you, maybe try Only f#ns or sn#p chat as this is meant to be a place to meet people to have sex. The fact that women are going straight to message isntead of fabbing your pics is the ultimate compliment, but you seem to be missing that point somehow. Just saying!
Mrs x
With all due respect...this site is full of women and couples promoting their O*ly Fans/just fans/something fans profile...the page 1 (and 2) of the hot photos is stacked with people putting "fab if you this and that" on their pictures and videos...so clearly attention and being "fabbed" is a huge factor. So regardless of my objectives of being on this site, please don't tell me this site might or might not be be for me...that wasn't my question
You asked for peoples opinion, I gave my opinion. Don't ask for it if you actually don't want it. And I can't tell you what to do my dear it was merely a suggestion. Please do whatever makes your little heart happy!
Mrs x
Thanks, however I asked a specific question ...I didn't ask for anyone's opinion about fabswingers being the right place for me or not...that just came out of nowhere, probably because you got offended about " how dare a man not appreciate the ultimate compliment from a woman on fab " (which I never said I don't appreciate). If fabbing pictures is an option on fabswingers, and getting many fabs puts you on page 1 of hot photos, and if a woman wants exactly that...to get as many fabs as possible to get on page 1 and get lots of attention (without meeting anyone), are you gonna tell them this site is not for them? I'm convinced you won't, but for some reason men always get the "fab might not be the right place for you" comment... I get attention on fab, I like the attention, so fab must be the right place for me (until I decide it's not)
Male or female my opinion is the same and I've made threads about fabswingers turning into a social media "look at me" fest before now. The matter of the fact is regardless of whether you are male female or a couple fabswingers is meant to be a swinging site not a popularity contest. That's what I think and everyone can think whatever they like and I actively encourage it in fact.
I can have my opinion and you can have yours, one doesn't cancel the other out.
Take a chill pill mate!
Mrs x
And if I don't want to take any pills? Are you gonna tell me fab is not the right place for me? 👀"
I'd suggest some meditation instead maybe, but just a suggestion. You do you boo!
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"The way I see it our photos are an advert of us, we aren't here to get "fabs" we are here to meet people and have fun. I'd much rather someone went straight to message instead of "fab" a picture. Unless you are just here to get looked at or attention of course? If you are just looking for attention then this is probably the wrong site for you, maybe try Only f#ns or sn#p chat as this is meant to be a place to meet people to have sex. The fact that women are going straight to message isntead of fabbing your pics is the ultimate compliment, but you seem to be missing that point somehow. Just saying!
Mrs x
With all due respect...this site is full of women and couples promoting their O*ly Fans/just fans/something fans profile...the page 1 (and 2) of the hot photos is stacked with people putting "fab if you this and that" on their pictures and videos...so clearly attention and being "fabbed" is a huge factor. So regardless of my objectives of being on this site, please don't tell me this site might or might not be be for me...that wasn't my question
You asked for peoples opinion, I gave my opinion. Don't ask for it if you actually don't want it. And I can't tell you what to do my dear it was merely a suggestion. Please do whatever makes your little heart happy!
Mrs x
Thanks, however I asked a specific question ...I didn't ask for anyone's opinion about fabswingers being the right place for me or not...that just came out of nowhere, probably because you got offended about " how dare a man not appreciate the ultimate compliment from a woman on fab " (which I never said I don't appreciate). If fabbing pictures is an option on fabswingers, and getting many fabs puts you on page 1 of hot photos, and if a woman wants exactly that...to get as many fabs as possible to get on page 1 and get lots of attention (without meeting anyone), are you gonna tell them this site is not for them? I'm convinced you won't, but for some reason men always get the "fab might not be the right place for you" comment... I get attention on fab, I like the attention, so fab must be the right place for me (until I decide it's not)
Male or female my opinion is the same and I've made threads about fabswingers turning into a social media "look at me" fest before now. The matter of the fact is regardless of whether you are male female or a couple fabswingers is meant to be a swinging site not a popularity contest. That's what I think and everyone can think whatever they like and I actively encourage it in fact.
I can have my opinion and you can have yours, one doesn't cancel the other out.
Take a chill pill mate!
Mrs x
And if I don't want to take any pills? Are you gonna tell me fab is not the right place for me? 👀
I'd suggest some meditation instead maybe, but just a suggestion. You do you boo!
Mrs x"
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"The way I see it our photos are an advert of us, we aren't here to get "fabs" we are here to meet people and have fun. I'd much rather someone went straight to message instead of "fab" a picture. Unless you are just here to get looked at or attention of course? If you are just looking for attention then this is probably the wrong site for you, maybe try Only f#ns or sn#p chat as this is meant to be a place to meet people to have sex. The fact that women are going straight to message isntead of fabbing your pics is the ultimate compliment, but you seem to be missing that point somehow. Just saying!
Mrs x
With all due respect...this site is full of women and couples promoting their O*ly Fans/just fans/something fans profile...the page 1 (and 2) of the hot photos is stacked with people putting "fab if you this and that" on their pictures and videos...so clearly attention and being "fabbed" is a huge factor. So regardless of my objectives of being on this site, please don't tell me this site might or might not be be for me...that wasn't my question
You asked for peoples opinion, I gave my opinion. Don't ask for it if you actually don't want it. And I can't tell you what to do my dear it was merely a suggestion. Please do whatever makes your little heart happy!
Mrs x
Thanks, however I asked a specific question ...I didn't ask for anyone's opinion about fabswingers being the right place for me or not...that just came out of nowhere, probably because you got offended about " how dare a man not appreciate the ultimate compliment from a woman on fab " (which I never said I don't appreciate). If fabbing pictures is an option on fabswingers, and getting many fabs puts you on page 1 of hot photos, and if a woman wants exactly that...to get as many fabs as possible to get on page 1 and get lots of attention (without meeting anyone), are you gonna tell them this site is not for them? I'm convinced you won't, but for some reason men always get the "fab might not be the right place for you" comment... I get attention on fab, I like the attention, so fab must be the right place for me (until I decide it's not)
Male or female my opinion is the same and I've made threads about fabswingers turning into a social media "look at me" fest before now. The matter of the fact is regardless of whether you are male female or a couple fabswingers is meant to be a swinging site not a popularity contest. That's what I think and everyone can think whatever they like and I actively encourage it in fact.
I can have my opinion and you can have yours, one doesn't cancel the other out.
Take a chill pill mate!
Mrs x
And if I don't want to take any pills? Are you gonna tell me fab is not the right place for me? 👀
I'd suggest some meditation instead maybe, but just a suggestion. You do you boo!
Mrs x
I'm not taking one for the team! 🤭"
Oh come on boo!
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I'm not a lady....
But the reason I'd message someone with how good I think they look vs fabbing is because I want to begin a conversation with them.
Fabbing is for passing admiration I see messaging as a more advanced step and if I'm taking that step I don't need to do the previous one.
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I ALWAYS Fab photos I really like - I like to show my appreciation and they go into my 'Fabbed' stash so I can look at them again in the future.
Thing is - almost no-one ever Fabs mine
(Some will say 'because they're cock pics' - but some cock pics get hundreds of Fabs!!) |
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I just never to think to fab anything to be honest. Even when I’ve done a boing thread or a thread asking for something in particular I get told off for not fabbing . I just don’t think. I’ve never been bothered with fabs and I forget a lot of people are. I’m going to try and make more effort  |
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By *AYENCouple 6 weeks ago
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As someone who recognises there is a difference between men and women, I (generally) reckon that men give more freely than women, but as someone whose wife's arse has 100 times more fabs than my face, I don't know the answer and I don't think I want to know |
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"As someone who recognises there is a difference between men and women, I (generally) reckon that men give more freely than women, but as someone whose wife's arse has 100 times more fabs than my face, I don't know the answer and I don't think I want to know "
As that there is only 1 picture of you on your entire profile, maybe thats why?. But she is hot x
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By *oxychicWoman 6 weeks ago
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I look in ninja mode, so I don't get lots of messages same reason I don't fab pictures or videos nothing against anyone as some of the pictures and videos are fantastic and I would send them a message instead saying that xx |
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By *agic.M OP Man 6 weeks ago
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"Sounds like getting your pictures fabbed and getting to the top of hot pictures is more important to you than having a conversation and eventually meeting? "
No, just want it all really...like have my cake and eat it too😋🎂... I'm a greedy boy |
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"Sounds like getting your pictures fabbed and getting to the top of hot pictures is more important to you than having a conversation and eventually meeting?
No, just want it all really...like have my cake and eat it too😋🎂... I'm a greedy boy "
well its nice your open about it . i am sure they will fab your pics now. |
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"Fab pictures - they automatically assume you want a full blown conversation, cum shot tribute and 3 billion dick pictures.
Pass them an every day complimentary message to say it was a good picture and close them off with a one word reply or emoji - this is how far we want it to go."
This is what I was trying to say 💁♀️ |
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By *agic.M OP Man 6 weeks ago
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"Sounds like getting your pictures fabbed and getting to the top of hot pictures is more important to you than having a conversation and eventually meeting?
No, just want it all really...like have my cake and eat it too😋🎂... I'm a greedy boy well its nice your open about it . i am sure they will fab your pics now. "
Yeah I'm sure some will still fab my pics (and others won't) , some will still message me (and others won't)...life is not black and white ...also most people commenting on the thread will have forgotten about it in 48h or less 🤭...like with most threads on the forum |
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By *agic.M OP Man 6 weeks ago
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"Fab pictures - they automatically assume you want a full blown conversation, cum shot tribute and 3 billion dick pictures.
Pass them an every day complimentary message to say it was a good picture and close them off with a one word reply or emoji - this is how far we want it to go.
This is what I was trying to say 💁♀️"
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"Sounds like getting your pictures fabbed and getting to the top of hot pictures is more important to you than having a conversation and eventually meeting? "
Was that for me?
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"On a much more serious note I will add.
Fabs themselves are not important but knowing which pics/vids work better than others is nice. As men we barely get any recognition for pics so when we do it's just that extra bit of confidence boost.
But knowing which pics do well and which don't helps with doing more to better standard. A blanket "your pics are nice" is not specific enough. "
quite frankly I'd be just hugely appreciative that I'd have my first msg from a female that I hadn't msged first!!! You really don't know how rare it is. |
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Reeling in the negativity on this post I'll just say, you have great photos. I've fabbed some. However, if you read a few of the comments on other posts, the general consensus on those posts is that a lot of female accounts on here are fake, that may play are part. Regardless of your reasons for being on here, I don't think you should have been attacked for asking the question. You do you and keep up with the hot pics |
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"Reeling in the negativity on this post I'll just say, you have great photos. I've fabbed some. However, if you read a few of the comments on other posts, the general consensus on those posts is that a lot of female accounts on here are fake, that may play are part. Regardless of your reasons for being on here, I don't think you should have been attacked for asking the question. You do you and keep up with the hot pics "
Attacked him? Huh?? By who? I've not read a single comment that's attacked him?
If anything the OP was quite passive aggressive to some who gave advice to him that he didn't agree with. |
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By *agic.M OP Man 6 weeks ago
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"Reeling in the negativity on this post I'll just say, you have great photos. I've fabbed some. However, if you read a few of the comments on other posts, the general consensus on those posts is that a lot of female accounts on here are fake, that may play are part. Regardless of your reasons for being on here, I don't think you should have been attacked for asking the question. You do you and keep up with the hot pics
Attacked him? Huh?? By who? I've not read a single comment that's attacked him?
If anything the OP was quite passive aggressive to some who gave advice to him that he didn't agree with. "
I never asked for advice...I asked a question. To put it in perspective (and risk appearing even more passive aggressive)
Person 1 - "hey what's 2+2?"
Person 2 - "my advice to you is to learn math or buy a calculator " |
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"Reeling in the negativity on this post I'll just say, you have great photos. I've fabbed some. However, if you read a few of the comments on other posts, the general consensus on those posts is that a lot of female accounts on here are fake, that may play are part. Regardless of your reasons for being on here, I don't think you should have been attacked for asking the question. You do you and keep up with the hot pics
Attacked him? Huh?? By who? I've not read a single comment that's attacked him?
If anything the OP was quite passive aggressive to some who gave advice to him that he didn't agree with.
I never asked for advice...I asked a question. To put it in perspective (and risk appearing even more passive aggressive)
Person 1 - "hey what's 2+2?"
Person 2 - "my advice to you is to learn math or buy a calculator ""
You asked a question, people only gave you answers/advice as per what you asked. Once you didn't get the answers you thought you were going to get, you became passive aggressive. It's nothing to do with 2+2 |
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From a physical logistics site navigation point of view (I dunno what the correct words are, soz). IMO, if I see a pic I like I then tend to look at the profile of the person/people in the pic. From there, it’s far easier to message them than fab them. Maybe that’s why? |
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By *Raven.Woman 6 weeks ago
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FFS
A) I wouldn't fab as I don't fab any
B) I wouldn't message to say I like your "content" as it's a bit cringe and school girl crush like
C) I do drool a little when watching your videos.
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Well this went south! For me I would take a message as someone being interested/likes my profile, I don’t think fabs are a good measure of ‘popularity’ just due to the number of fake profiles that are on here now, I’d take a message over a fab every day of the week hahah |
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I am always Fabbing your photos and I don’t really care the world of Fab to know it
But yes, is annoying getting 2500 views, then one thousand messages saying “ I love your pics” but just a few Fabs. Random copy-paste msgs vibe. |
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"The question is "why?"... but the context of this question is as follows...
Everytime I upload a new pic/video I get an influx of messages from women telling me how much they love/like/enjoy my content (which I full heartedly appreciate 🙏)...now, through that I also started noticing a pattern...where most of the ladies messaging me, telling me how much they like my content, don't really like (aka fab) my content 🤔. Every time I asked one of them "why?" (Why not fab if you like) I get a random reply with a laughing or embarrassed emoji and an "I've just fabbed some now..." which doesn't really answer my "why?" question, so I'm turning to the ladies of the forum (as they usually have an answer for everything) or any psychologist of any gender that might be able to shed some light on this part of a woman’s psychology. And before someone starts commenting "OMG what's the big deal if a woman doesn't fab your pics blah blah.." - it's not, chill! I'm simply curious 🤓.
So ladies, one more time...."why?" Why go out of your way to tell someone how much you like their content, but not show it by actually "liking" their content? 🧐 "
it means they want a cock pic sending im 100% certain this is how women play it |
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By *oxy jWoman 6 weeks ago
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its that old saying give a inch take a yard ... ie fab a male pic = hassel ... i disable the fab feature on this profile and our couples one as dont need that kind of attention its hard enought dealing with guys let alone giving them a a false glimer of hope |
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