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By *orksRocker OP   Man 4 weeks ago

Bradford

What the hell is wrong with some people. Today my friend was abused for no reason at all so I messaged the guy saying he was a troll. I then reported him and blocked him.

I then get a message from a different profile, who's a common forum user, - you should be fucking ashamed of yourself, asking why I was defending a 'land whale'.... And then blocked me.

Not only is this shockingly vile, but is it common for people to have two profiles?

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By *vaRose43Woman 4 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Report both profiles

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By *issBellaWoman 4 weeks ago

Wales

Report both profiles. That's vile.

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By *is and hers 2024Couple 4 weeks ago

york

Mr's ex has multiple profiles on here, we get shit, get it blocked, another pops up. Every now and then it goes quiet but she keeps rearing her head.

All you can do is report, block and try move on.

Nothing else you can do

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By *icecouple561Couple 4 weeks ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Why did you message the person?

In future advise anyone receiving abuse to report the profile. The same goes for you. It's pointless getting involved because it will just turn in to an argument

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan 4 weeks ago

St Leonards

Report the profiles.

And celebrate your friendship.

You've got each other's backs .

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By *orksRocker OP   Man 4 weeks ago

Bradford


"Why did you message the person?

In future advise anyone receiving abuse to report the profile. The same goes for you. It's pointless getting involved because it will just turn in to an argument "

I'm glad I did because this person revealed their true profile to me, who uses the forum alot, and not just the troll profile. I have reported and blocked both but the old one isn't there anymore.

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By *amie HantsWoman 4 weeks ago

Atlantis

Sorry that happened to you.

I have had some hideous messages from forum users too and you have to see them post their smug bullshit knowing they’re a giant prick. It sucks

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By *utdoorAdventurersCouple 4 weeks ago

Heathfield

There is one particular profile on here that comments a lot. Always toxic and aggressive and not nice at all.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS 4 weeks ago

chichester


"Sorry that happened to you.

I have had some hideous messages from forum users too and you have to see them post their smug bullshit knowing they’re a giant prick. It sucks "

Yes many of people on forums are actual pricks in private messages I have experienced

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan 4 weeks ago

St Leonards


"Sorry that happened to you.

I have had some hideous messages from forum users too and you have to see them post their smug bullshit knowing they’re a giant prick. It sucks "

Hey it was just the one message!!

And I was going through my "dungeon experimentation" phase at the time .

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By *ack FrostyMan 4 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

What I have never understood is the need for people to private message abuse off the back of a forum post, then I realised some are actually banned from the forums. Says it all really

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By *ansoffateMan 4 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Well this thread is fertile ground for some gossip and rumour.

Lady Whistledown will have a field day.

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By *rpeggioCouple 4 weeks ago

Baughurst


"Report both profiles "

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By *aughty driverMan 4 weeks ago

Romford

I think it would be hard to stop someone creating a profile just for trolling. I would say reporting and ignoring is best method as theres not much else can can be done

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By *issBellaWoman 4 weeks ago

Wales


"Mr's ex has multiple profiles on here, we get shit, get it blocked, another pops up. Every now and then it goes quiet but she keeps rearing her head.

All you can do is report, block and try move on.

Nothing else you can do "

I have an ex that does this too. He even asks other local guy to message me and tell them what I've said. Fortunately, they tell me he's being weird and reports him. They now also keep an eye out and get in touch if they spot him back on the site.

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By *he AmbassadorMan 4 weeks ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

Keyboard warriors are Cowards OP.

Nothing for it but to report and move on, not everyone can be classy,

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By *is and hers 2024Couple 4 weeks ago

york


"Mr's ex has multiple profiles on here, we get shit, get it blocked, another pops up. Every now and then it goes quiet but she keeps rearing her head.

All you can do is report, block and try move on.

Nothing else you can do

I have an ex that does this too. He even asks other local guy to message me and tell them what I've said. Fortunately, they tell me he's being weird and reports him. They now also keep an eye out and get in touch if they spot him back on the site."

Luckily the guys she contacts usually contact us about the issue as she gives out our details etc.

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By *issBellaWoman 4 weeks ago

Wales


"Mr's ex has multiple profiles on here, we get shit, get it blocked, another pops up. Every now and then it goes quiet but she keeps rearing her head.

All you can do is report, block and try move on.

Nothing else you can do

I have an ex that does this too. He even asks other local guy to message me and tell them what I've said. Fortunately, they tell me he's being weird and reports him. They now also keep an eye out and get in touch if they spot him back on the site.

Luckily the guys she contacts usually contact us about the issue as she gives out our details etc.

"

Im glad, its great to see the good outweigh the psycho! I hope they both give up eventually. Wonder if we could pair them off so they'll leave us alone?

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By *onnie 90Woman 4 weeks ago

Leeds


"Why did you message the person?

In future advise anyone receiving abuse to report the profile. The same goes for you. It's pointless getting involved because it will just turn in to an argument "

Does anything actually get done when abuse and timewasters are reported? They just seem to carry on as normal.

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By *ubmissivelyDerbyGuyMan 4 weeks ago

Nottingham

I'm Afraid I have got them also in the past so I just block and move on :/

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By *ophieslutTV/TS 4 weeks ago

Central

They live off attention. Don't give it

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By *onnie 90Woman 4 weeks ago

Leeds


"Mr's ex has multiple profiles on here, we get shit, get it blocked, another pops up. Every now and then it goes quiet but she keeps rearing her head.

All you can do is report, block and try move on.

Nothing else you can do

I have an ex that does this too. He even asks other local guy to message me and tell them what I've said. Fortunately, they tell me he's being weird and reports him. They now also keep an eye out and get in touch if they spot him back on the site."

The scary thing is that these weirdo's (male & female) are out there in society lurking among us.

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple 4 weeks ago

Birmingham

Just block them and move on. Wouldn't even bother reporting as people who troll just make a new ID and use a VPN and carry on.

The Internet us full if them.

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By *ildTimes.Man 4 weeks ago

Colchester/London

Id just block them and forget it, if it was really abusive maybe report but a blocks as good at least they can't contact you again,

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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago

If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS 4 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon


"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them."

I like this.

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By *.T.Man 4 weeks ago

the Dromara hills

Tis the nature of t'interweb unfortunately.

Never have a battle of wits with the idiots, they drag you down to their level then beat you with experience...

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By *is and hers 2024Couple 4 weeks ago

york


"Mr's ex has multiple profiles on here, we get shit, get it blocked, another pops up. Every now and then it goes quiet but she keeps rearing her head.

All you can do is report, block and try move on.

Nothing else you can do

I have an ex that does this too. He even asks other local guy to message me and tell them what I've said. Fortunately, they tell me he's being weird and reports him. They now also keep an eye out and get in touch if they spot him back on the site.

Luckily the guys she contacts usually contact us about the issue as she gives out our details etc.

Im glad, its great to see the good outweigh the psycho! I hope they both give up eventually. Wonder if we could pair them off so they'll leave us alone? "

She's already married, that's the stupid thing!!

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By *utdoorAdventurersCouple 4 weeks ago

Heathfield

So just a question...do these people know that they're toxic and upset people with no conscience or are they oblivious and really don't know?

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By *aizyWoman 4 weeks ago

west midlands


"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them.

I like this. "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago


"So just a question...do these people know that they're toxic and upset people with no conscience or are they oblivious and really don't know?"

Probably have to ask them, I imagine maybe a mix of both.

Sometimes a dickhead doesn’t know they’re a dickhead until they’re told they’re a dickhead.

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan 4 weeks ago

St Leonards


"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them.

I like this.

Me too "

I'm commenting and DEFINITELY NOT NAMING OR SHAMING THE PERSON ABOVE.

.

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By *he AmbassadorMan 4 weeks ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them.

I like this. "

Me 2, great idea.

Pick a word and comment with it every time they do.like Pineapples or something lol

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By *ansoffateMan 4 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them.

I like this. "

Are you outing him?

I knew it, he's got that look! Butter wouldn't melt!

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan 4 weeks ago

St Leonards


"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them.

I like this.

Are you outing him?

I knew it, he's got that look! Butter wouldn't melt!"

He has.

Oh..shit...wait...there's a problem here...

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By *utdoorAdventurersCouple 4 weeks ago

Heathfield


"

Probably have to ask them, I imagine maybe a mix of both.

Sometimes a dickhead doesn’t know they’re a dickhead until they’re told they’re a dickhead.

"

Ok, so does anyone here think that they've posted toxic replies or upset anyone with a reply to a post?

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By *ansoffateMan 4 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them.

I like this.

Are you outing him?

I knew it, he's got that look! Butter wouldn't melt!

He has.

Oh..shit...wait...there's a problem here..."

DM me I got all the goss

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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago


"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them.

I like this.

Are you outing him?

I knew it, he's got that look! Butter wouldn't melt!

He has.

Oh..shit...wait...there's a problem here...

DM me I got all the goss "

Why are you commenting after everything I say?

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By *he AmbassadorMan 4 weeks ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"So just a question...do these people know that they're toxic and upset people with no conscience or are they oblivious and really don't know?

Probably have to ask them, I imagine maybe a mix of both.

Sometimes a dickhead doesn’t know they’re a dickhead until they’re told they’re a dickhead.

"

Yeah but in my experience most Dickheads will fight their corner when informed they are Dickheads and storm off still steadfast on remaining a dickhead which means going fwd they now know they are dickheads, and what's the chances that you were not the first to inform them in the first place which means they knew all along they were dickheads and just enjoy being nasty shites to people because they have daddy issues or were unchecked bullies or were dropped on the fireplace as babies, .who knows,

But I do know Leopards don't change their spots.

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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago


"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them.

I like this.

Are you outing him?

I knew it, he's got that look! Butter wouldn't melt!

He has.

Oh..shit...wait...there's a problem here...

DM me I got all the goss

Why are you commenting after everything I say? "

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan 4 weeks ago

St Leonards


"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them.

I like this.

Are you outing him?

I knew it, he's got that look! Butter wouldn't melt!

He has.

Oh..shit...wait...there's a problem here...

DM me I got all the goss

Why are you commenting after everything I say? "

Because....

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By *ansoffateMan 4 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them.

I like this.

Are you outing him?

I knew it, he's got that look! Butter wouldn't melt!

He has.

Oh..shit...wait...there's a problem here...

DM me I got all the goss

Why are you commenting after everything I say?

"

tell me your secrets.

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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago


"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them.

I like this.

Are you outing him?

I knew it, he's got that look! Butter wouldn't melt!

He has.

Oh..shit...wait...there's a problem here...

DM me I got all the goss

Why are you commenting after everything I say?

tell me your secrets. "

I once got a marble stuck up my nose?

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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago


"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them.

I like this.

Are you outing him?

I knew it, he's got that look! Butter wouldn't melt!

He has.

Oh..shit...wait...there's a problem here...

DM me I got all the goss

Why are you commenting after everything I say?

tell me your secrets.

I once got a marble stuck up my nose?

"

I was 38.

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By *ansoffateMan 4 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them.

I like this.

Are you outing him?

I knew it, he's got that look! Butter wouldn't melt!

He has.

Oh..shit...wait...there's a problem here...

DM me I got all the goss

Why are you commenting after everything I say?

tell me your secrets.

I once got a marble stuck up my nose?

I was 38."

😆 Impressive.

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By *tsJustKateWoman 4 weeks ago

London

Lots of cowards on here

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By *ellhungvweMan 4 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"What the hell is wrong with some people. Today my friend was abused for no reason at all so I messaged the guy saying he was a troll. I then reported him and blocked him.

I then get a message from a different profile, who's a common forum user, - you should be fucking ashamed of yourself, asking why I was defending a 'land whale'.... And then blocked me.

Not only is this shockingly vile, but is it common for people to have two profiles?

"

This feels like it is only part of the story. Generally multiple profiles don’t tend to get involved in an argument - even more so if they are clearly separate individuals. In my experience people piling into an argument that they are not initially part of means that there is a deeper issue that is not being mentioned. What is the back story?

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By *anyaTgirlTV/TS 4 weeks ago

manchester


"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them."
erm yes i agree with you....just wanted to reply to your post lol

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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago

Plenty of iffy people in the real world to like

you get the wankers, the sympathy lovers, list goes on

block and enjoy your day son

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By *ealitybitesMan 4 weeks ago

Belfast


"

Probably have to ask them, I imagine maybe a mix of both.

Sometimes a dickhead doesn’t know they’re a dickhead until they’re told they’re a dickhead.

Ok, so does anyone here think that they've posted toxic replies or upset anyone with a reply to a post?"

I know for a fact I've upset people with some of my replies, more often than not unintentionally.

I've had "friends" contact me in regard to toxic messages they have received and when they shared them I genuinely couldn't see any abusive language or anything that could be taken negatively.

When I've told them that my interpretation of these messages is completely different and based on that I wouldn't be messaging or reporting the "abuser" I've become the bad guy.

Some of those people have also taken offence at forum comments others have made and asked me to back them up in their response.

When I've pointed out that the comments were about someone else entirely and had nothing to do with them they have unfriended me.

As always there can be 3 sides to every fab story.

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By *exxyyDy11Man 4 weeks ago

Darwen

Makes me wonder does the anonymity that this site provide give people more of the confidence to be a total cunt? Or are they like this in person too.

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By *exxyyDy11Man 4 weeks ago

Darwen


"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them."

Good idea this

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By *icecouple561Couple 4 weeks ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them.

Good idea this "

It's not a good idea.

If admin have evidence and I stress the word 'evidence' they will take action.

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By *icecouple561Couple 4 weeks ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

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Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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