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Do any of ye ever look at a pic either on a profile from forums or new pics and think ,,ohhh wow and msg the owner with a quick , "that's amazing pic" via a quick one liner,??
Or am I a weirdo on here? |
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"Mostly send first, unless we're talking about ladies. I'm not good at flirting with ladies  "
I'm not great at flirting at all. But flirting with women is so much harder. How do you know if they like you that way? How?! |
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"Mostly send first, unless we're talking about ladies. I'm not good at flirting with ladies
I'm not great at flirting at all. But flirting with women is so much harder. How do you know if they like you that way? How?! "
I suggest the 3 of us get together and discuss it in person.    |
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"Mostly send first, unless we're talking about ladies. I'm not good at flirting with ladies
I'm not great at flirting at all. But flirting with women is so much harder. How do you know if they like you that way? How?! "
I've heard their nipples go pointy and grow 3 times their size. Might be a rumour?  |
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"Mostly send first, unless we're talking about ladies. I'm not good at flirting with ladies
I'm not great at flirting at all. But flirting with women is so much harder. How do you know if they like you that way? How?! "
Because women are all sorts of weird and impossible! Far too many variables and complexities for it to be possible.
Unless they already find you physically attractive, then you get a bit of a buffer to bad flirting choices. |
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I’m not great at flirting with men but I’m even worse at flirting with women
I tend to have my filters up at all times, occasionally dropped and have had some good conversations and meets off the back of forum threads where I’ve been messaged.
I’ve sent a very rare occasional first message, depends on how you define success as to whether it’s been successful or not 
I prefer to send a wink. Obviously slightly reliant on the person checking theirs, but it means they can get past my filters and message if they wish. And they then have the horrible task of sending the first message, not me |
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"Mostly send first, unless we're talking about ladies. I'm not good at flirting with ladies
I'm not great at flirting at all. But flirting with women is so much harder. How do you know if they like you that way? How?!
Because women are all sorts of weird and impossible! Far too many variables and complexities for it to be possible.
Unless they already find you physically attractive, then you get a bit of a buffer to bad flirting choices."
There are bad flirting choices? Shit. 😭 |
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"I’m not great at flirting with men but I’m even worse at flirting with women
I tend to have my filters up at all times, occasionally dropped and have had some good conversations and meets off the back of forum threads where I’ve been messaged.
I’ve sent a very rare occasional first message, depends on how you define success as to whether it’s been successful or not
I prefer to send a wink. Obviously slightly reliant on the person checking theirs, but it means they can get past my filters and message if they wish. And they then have the horrible task of sending the first message, not me "
I'll just go and check for winks....... |
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"I’m not great at flirting with men but I’m even worse at flirting with women
I tend to have my filters up at all times, occasionally dropped and have had some good conversations and meets off the back of forum threads where I’ve been messaged.
I’ve sent a very rare occasional first message, depends on how you define success as to whether it’s been successful or not
I prefer to send a wink. Obviously slightly reliant on the person checking theirs, but it means they can get past my filters and message if they wish. And they then have the horrible task of sending the first message, not me "
surely you are swamped with Msgs or are your filters fort Knox level stuff 😂 |
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"Mostly send first, unless we're talking about ladies. I'm not good at flirting with ladies
I'm not great at flirting at all. But flirting with women is so much harder. How do you know if they like you that way? How?!
I've heard their nipples go pointy and grow 3 times their size. Might be a rumour? "
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"I’m not great at flirting with men but I’m even worse at flirting with women
I tend to have my filters up at all times, occasionally dropped and have had some good conversations and meets off the back of forum threads where I’ve been messaged.
I’ve sent a very rare occasional first message, depends on how you define success as to whether it’s been successful or not
I prefer to send a wink. Obviously slightly reliant on the person checking theirs, but it means they can get past my filters and message if they wish. And they then have the horrible task of sending the first message, not me surely you are swamped with Msgs or are your filters fort Knox level stuff 😂 "
*blushes* hardly. But thanks fort Knox level is probably accurate to be fair! |
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"I wait... But mostly because alot of men's profiles don't tell you much. So you're going in blind... If they make an effort to fill them out and have decent pics it might be different. "
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But surely you would be focusing on the profiles that do actually "tell you much", and therefore disregarding those that don't? |
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"I think most women on here get so bombarded with messages but I would send a message first if someone tickled my fancy"
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But you're hypothesising. The question is do you actually send a first message? Have you ever sent one? |
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"I’m not great at flirting with men... "
You don't have to flirt. You just engage in friendly and convivial chat. Everything transpires from there.
"I tend to have my filters up at all times, occasionally dropped and have had some good conversations and meets off the back of forum threads where I’ve been messaged."
I shall wait for your drawbridge to be lowered and your portcullis to be raised. 🩶
"I’ve sent a very rare occasional first message, depends on how you define success as to whether it’s been successful or not "
A simple acquaintanceship is sufficient for success. Anything more is a bonus.
"I prefer to send a wink. Obviously slightly reliant on the person checking theirs, but it means they can get past my filters and message if they wish. And they then have the horrible task of sending the first message, not me "
Sometimes it's an honourable task and not a horrible one. 🌈 |
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I would love to have the time to message more men first, I like the forums because I can see people's personalities and I have messaged a few men first based on forums and profiles, but a lot of the time I spend on fab is fabmin catching up on messages I've got |
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