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Big guys, The teddy bear type?
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By (user no longer on site) OP 13 weeks ago
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I’m not expecting huge amounts of traction on this. I just wonder if any other BIG guys get any joy on here?
Most women I come across prefer gym fit men or men that “look after themselves”
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I am a larger guy but I don’t see this as the reason why not many seem to be falling over themselves to meet me. My wife plays too (separately as is her choice and she isn’t on here). She got loads of messages and now sees 4 or 5 fairly regularly. They are of varying builds-one is gym fit, two are average build and 2 are chunkier than me. She only has one stipulation-much older than she is. The main problem is the amount of single guys on here against the very limited pool of women.
I realise that I could boost my chances going to clubs but that is not with any expectation-as it must be.I would find a club very daunting and intimidating as a single guy. I don’t wish to meet men as I am heterosexual-nothing on this earth will change that. The only time I would want to see another guy is with my wife-I would not take part-only watch. The other big obstacle is my ability to accommodate-many probably assume that I am playing behind my wife’s back. Even if we played as a couple, we still have children at home so it would be no different. In conclusion, it is my inability to accommodate rather than my appearance which hampers an already very slim chance. |
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My husband is what I would call beefy, not gym fit. He's been called a bear before too. Go check out our veris and I'll let you decide for yourself if he is popular......
I personally love big beefy man, I'm a tall woman with broard shoulders and have always appreciated a more rotund man to make me feel small and ladylike x
There is a difference however between a nice stocky man and a seriously overweight man, the latter does not excite me.
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"Ey up OP.
I'm not fat, I'm huge.
I don't get much luck on here, apart from bad luck.
But..... most some of that is down to me - I don't really make much of an effort atm. "
How dare you, you’ve met me. I’m your best luck 😂😂😂 |
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By *aizyWoman 13 weeks ago
west midlands |
"I would really like one for Christmas. One with a really hairy chest.
All wrapped up under the tree, next to your other present??
Yes! Now that would be quite creepy but I’d go with it "
It is a bit, Invasion of the Body Snatchers, now I think of it!  |
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"I would really like one for Christmas. One with a really hairy chest.
All wrapped up under the tree, next to your other present??
Yes! Now that would be quite creepy but I’d go with it
It is a bit, Invasion of the Body Snatchers, now I think of it! "
😂 that actually sounds like something I need |
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By *mf123Man 13 weeks ago
with one foot out the door |
There was a time this fat man was regularly poking my pointer into lady holes its not the size of your belly but the limits of imagination and ability to inspire it that gets you thru the door |
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"I would say that is actually the most sought-after body type on here!
Not for me, but life would be very boring if we all liked the same. "
It is definitely not the most sought after body type. The forums may give that illusion. But most of the profiles I’ve looked at have explicitly stated that they’re looking for gym fit men |
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Totally. I'm former gym fit, I know what that takes and I'm not doing that anymore!
Still like my shoulders arms and legs, I've been a bit more cuddly for a couple of years but hasn't set me back
The beard seems more polarising to be honest! |
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By *eroLondonMan 13 weeks ago
Mayfair, London / Sheffield |
"I would say that is actually the most sought-after body type on here!
Not for me, but life would be very boring if we all liked the same.
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It is definitely not the most sought after body type. The forums may give that illusion. But most of the profiles I’ve looked at have explicitly stated that they’re looking for gym fit men"
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I totally agree. The fora is but a microcosm of the Fab ecosystem. Certainly in London and the South-East most of the profiles I come across ask/demand/insist on torsos that are anything but large/big. |
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