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I kinda get a little turned on knowing guys I like are having sex with others.
Just a teeny bit.
I don't like having someone's attention 100% of the time, it freaks me out. Just as long as I have it when we are actually together I'm good.
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"I kinda get a little turned on knowing guys I like are having sex with others.
Just a teeny bit.
I don't like having someone's attention 100% of the time, it freaks me out. Just as long as I have it when we are actually together I'm good.
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This 😁 |
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"I kinda get a little turned on knowing guys I like are having sex with others.
Just a teeny bit.
I don't like having someone's attention 100% of the time, it freaks me out. Just as long as I have it when we are actually together I'm good.
This 😁"
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"I kinda get a little turned on knowing guys I like are having sex with others.
Just a teeny bit.
I don't like having someone's attention 100% of the time, it freaks me out. Just as long as I have it when we are actually together I'm good.
" suffocating |
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By *bi HaiveMan 12 weeks ago
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"Is it bad or unattractive or whatever, if someone wants to have or enjoys having sex with many different people?
Do you need to feel like you’re the only one?"
I'm monogamous.
Or monotonous.
Or summink........ |
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By *aizyWoman 12 weeks ago
west midlands |
"No, I don't want or offer exclusivity.
why"
It's not what I am looking for, don't get me wrong if I am seeing someone I want to be his focus just like he is mine when we meet, but I don't want to be the only person he sees. |
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"No, I don't want or offer exclusivity.
why
It's not what I am looking for, don't get me wrong if I am seeing someone I want to be his focus just like he is mine when we meet, but I don't want to be the only person he sees." you’re the only person I am fucking right now 🤷🏾♂️ |
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"I kinda get a little turned on knowing guys I like are having sex with others.
Just a teeny bit.
I don't like having someone's attention 100% of the time, it freaks me out. Just as long as I have it when we are actually together I'm good.
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Same as this. |
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What poeple do and with who is up to them. But if someone is clearly having one off multiple meets each week (the veris speak a thousand words) then it puts me off.
I'd feel like another notch, rather than feeling they want sex with me
because they're attracted to me. ![](/icons/rainbow.png) |
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By *aizyWoman 12 weeks ago
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"No, I don't want or offer exclusivity.
why
It's not what I am looking for, don't get me wrong if I am seeing someone I want to be his focus just like he is mine when we meet, but I don't want to be the only person he sees.
you’re the only person I am fucking right now 🤷🏾♂️"
Fucking or fucking with, Pickles?? ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"No, I don't want or offer exclusivity.
why
It's not what I am looking for, don't get me wrong if I am seeing someone I want to be his focus just like he is mine when we meet, but I don't want to be the only person he sees.
you’re the only person I am fucking right now 🤷🏾♂️
Fucking or fucking with, Pickles?? "
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Certainly don't need to.be the only one, but I've had a few occasions where it feels like they might be woth me as a convenient way to meet other people. (Or I'm paranoid)
That's not something I'm comfortable with. |
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I'm not looking for anything monogamous here. I have my one "for life" relationship already and what I'm looking for here is different. I don't even know what I'm looking for right now actually. But it's not exclusivity.
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I do like to have some ongoing contact, however sporadic, if I'm going to be fucking more than once, though. I don't want to be a "fuck n go", unless it's a gangbang or a club night or something like that. |
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Fuck who you want! As long as I'm good enough to do it again with I don't care.
Not in a relationship though. For that I would have to be involved i think, can't imagine ever loving the hotwife life |
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By *a LunaWoman 12 weeks ago
South Wales |
I like to think that someone may be sexually obsessed with me.
But then I have a quiet word and talk myself back down to reality 😭
If he’s poking too many holes I may feel a bit pouty and lose interest. Depends how good he dicks ME.
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"I like to think that someone may be sexually obsessed with me.
But then I have a quiet word and talk myself back down to reality 😭
If he’s poking too many holes I may feel a bit pouty and lose interest. Depends how good he dicks ME.
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I’d give you some good dick. |
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By *aizyWoman 12 weeks ago
west midlands |
"I'm not looking for anything monogamous here. I have my one "for life" relationship already and what I'm looking for here is different. I don't even know what I'm looking for right now actually. But it's not exclusivity.
I do like to have some ongoing contact, however sporadic, if I'm going to be fucking more than once, though. I don't want to be a "fuck n go", unless it's a gangbang or a club night or something like that."
You have explained what I meant way better than I did MrsKC ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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"I'm not looking for anything monogamous here. I have my one "for life" relationship already and what I'm looking for here is different. I don't even know what I'm looking for right now actually. But it's not exclusivity.
I do like to have some ongoing contact, however sporadic, if I'm going to be fucking more than once, though. I don't want to be a "fuck n go", unless it's a gangbang or a club night or something like that.
You have explained what I meant way better than I did MrsKC "
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"I kinda get a little turned on knowing guys I like are having sex with others.
Just a teeny bit.
I don't like having someone's attention 100% of the time, it freaks me out. Just as long as I have it when we are actually together I'm good.
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This is a very big turn on for me. Knowing a woman is being promiscuous. |
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By *eliWoman 12 weeks ago
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It's not bad. It's not unattractive as such. It's just not for me. I don't want to be one of many. I have zero interest in NSA, in being one of many, in attending clubs. I'm not a swinger. I want to feel like I'm more than a vagina. Like the compliments are genuine, the flirting with intent and not just whoever catches their eye that second.
At the same time, I'm poly. I can't, won't and don't want to offer exclusivity to any one.
There's a grey area between being one of many and the only one. Between feeling like I'm helping to whittle down a bedpost and feeling a bit... suffocated.
I like the grey area. When there's honesty and open communication involved. |
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